Sex on the first date??
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There must be a great chemistry for that to happen.
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Hotness and horniness are more important I think.
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Hotness and horniness are more important I think.
Hotness and horniness are two vital ingridients for a mutual chemistry!
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1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun. -
I thought that's what first "dates" (meetings) were for…sex
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If that goes OK, maybe think about a second date.
Sorry, I always was a tart..
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I've been going on a lot of dates lately, trying to find Mr. Right, and a lot of the guys have been seriously fucking HOT!!! To me, first impressions are everything, and although I love sex, and am a huge freak, I don't want to come off as a total whore. So I pose 2 questions today.
1. Is talking about sex on the first date inappropriate
2. How long do you wait before having sex when you're looking for a steady mate/ dating?Thanks in advance for your input.
Sex on the first date is awesome! There is so much going on at the same night, a wide range of emotions.
If the chemistry is great and you had a great date, and it ends up in great sex, it just becomes this mesmerizing day that stick to you. I feel like after sex you have a completely different relation, you just open yourself up, you are finally free youknow, and it's so much easier to build upon that instead of waiting anxiously for it…. the more you wait the more thoughts you have about how it can be, it's much better to just do it and be spontaneously surprised.
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Hotness and horniness are more important I think.
so true!
for me,
1. It is necessary.
2. You are both consenting adults. -
1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun.Good points. Very good points.
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If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. I met my boyfriend at a threesome, over two years ago!!
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This guy and I picked each other up on the sidewalk after the bar had closed for a one night stand… and it lasted for 18 years. We talked on the walk back to his place, and then for another two hours before we took our clothes off. The sex is going to happen at some point and I do not think it matters when. If the relationship lasts depends on if the sex is good enough and if you have things to talk about before, after and even during the sex. In my limited experience, it is when the talking stops that the relationship ends (or does even start).
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
LOL!! You so funny!!
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
I want us to be connected both physically and mentally
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Whatever floats your boat. I guess intimacy also adds some spice.
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1. I will try not to bring the sex topic up. And if he cant help it, I will try to make the conversation non-sexually.
2. DEFINITELY NO. I want our future relationship to be built upon feelings, but not sex. How can I marry him, create a family with him if all he wants from me is sex? …. And frankly, once u easily give urself out, he will take u for granted
I'm confused. I thought sex it was compatible with feelings :hug2:.
I want us to be connected both physically and mentally
And what's the reason that makes you think you can't be connected in flesh & mind with your sex partner at the first date? Your personal experience? If this the reason, I respect you, but mine, it's totally opposed of yours.
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i had sex on several first dates
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I envyyyyyyyy! :cry2:
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My friend has a saying about sex on the first date. Try it before you buy it. It is better to know early on if the physical connection/fun will be right for you.
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Sex on the first date is a must unless you met on internet and suddenly the guy appears to be really unattractive.
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