Wedding - are you willing to do that?
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Normally, a shotgun wedding is a wedding that is arranged to avoid embarrassment due to an unplanned pregnancy, rather than out of the desire of the participants. The phrase is an American colloquialism, though it is also used in other parts of the world, based on a supposed scenario (usually hyperbole) that the father of the pregnant daughter, almost by accepted custom, must resort to using coercion (such as threatening with a shotgun) to ensure that the man who impregnated her follows through with the wedding.)
Universally, the divorce rates exceeds 50%. Are you sure this would be the best way to start building a life with your intended?
Just a thought.
Of course not… that's was just a joke ;D
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I say go for it!! I can't wait to get married!!
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How goes the potty training?
(from another forum thread-> https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=3916.msg117134#msg117134 -
omg
congratulations!!
this is my dream!!! -
we are together for 6 years and we would like to marry but unfortunately same sex marrige does not exist in Turkey yet.
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that's awesome man! congrats! I think it's awesome! my dream to get married someday. odd that I've already kinda planned certain aspects of what i'd like to have in my eventual wedding? lol
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I'd be happy with just the marriage license and maybe throwing a party with friends and family (so they'd feel obligated to give us gifts >:D)
Definitely none of this $20000 business, I'd rather get a new car or something, but to each their own.This is unless I'm rolling in cash then in which case I might as well make a day of it.
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Yes. Who doesn't want to be legal?
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I always thought a honeymoon to Rome would be pretty bad ass lol
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Why not?
If girls spend 99.99% of their brain power imagining their perfect wedding, then why can't we? -
exactly lol
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Why not?
If girls spend 99.99% of their brain power imagining their perfect wedding, then why can't we?guess I am a girl then? LOL
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I'm getting married next year, probably in September and we intend to make it a proper wedding… Ceremony, a big party after the vows, family and everything...
What are your thoughts about it?
If it is something you both want go for it. When I got married it was just a simple ceremony with a few friends, because that is what we both wanted.
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Why not?
If girls spend 99.99% of their brain power imagining their perfect wedding, then why can't we?guess I am a girl then? LOL
Ehm…no?
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Deep down in my heart it's my biggest dream of getting married. and of course live in a place like the states where is legal
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I really cant wait. I already kinda have an idea of what I want lol
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Just a registrars office for us with two close friends as witnesses. Can't buy in to the whole marriage industry and all that expense. Prefer to put that money towards things that last more than a day.
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Just a registrars office for us with two close friends as witnesses. Can't buy in to the whole marriage industry and all that expense. Prefer to put that money towards things that last more than a day.
I completely agree.
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While it is true that it is that the true feelings are what matters the most, it is not a bad thing to dream the perfect wedding.
And the perfect wedding doesn't necesserily mean an empty wallet. -
I totally agree with saving on expenses and the whole marriage industry 'scam' re>
Just a registrars office for us with two close friends as witnesses. Can't buy in to the whole marriage industry and all that expense. Prefer to put that money towards things that last more than a day.
Which is what we did for the legal (although in Pennsylvania, it was a small civil ceremony officiated by the local Justice of the Peace; kindof like a judge or magistrate but not quite)
But, he wanted a big "dream wedding" and we're financially well off so I figured, if it makes him happy, why not!
As far as a traditional gift registry- those of the mind to do so were given a choice of 5 charities that we both support.
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