hard to tell who he is but i found the video if someone else needs https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1990970998403889

Ok, so found the clip... But turns out, it was straight porn. It's both a monk that is seduced and a monk that jerks off watching, but it's a woman that seduces the first monk. The clip is scene 3 of Vivid's 2001 title The Necklace. You can find screenshots on AdultDvdEmpire. Sorry about misleading anyone.