Please help me with this poll about being gay men.
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When young and naive, I thought my attraction to men meant that I was supposed to be a woman. I didn't know that there were other options. So glad that I found that there are men who simply love men! I love my dick too much to give it up!
That's the way I feel, I like my body and my boy parts, but I sometimes feel like it would be easier for me to live if I were born a woman, so once in a while I fantasize about the thought what if I were a woman. I hope you folks get my idea :lolp:
I feel the same. While I do love taking it passively–especially from hung transformers, I've never felt an overwhelming desire to be female. Sure I have an imagination, and when I was younger I felt like I should of been born a girl, but I think puberty provided my male pride.
While I'd still like to try drag for fun, I feel I'm far too masculine and sexist to even make an attempt at a convincing female persona.
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I have never felt like a woman trapped in a man's body at any time in my life. Even though I have an effeminate personality, I know that I am a man who likes men and I would hate to be a woman.
I'm happy giving and recieving with the body I've got.
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feeling trapped in the wrong-gendered body sounds like the definition of transgendered, not necessarily homosexual (unless you are the very rare MTF lesbian or FTM fag). If you desire to change genders, or feel that you ended up with the wrong naughty bits, you are just as transgendered as a full post-op. Even if you never have surgery, our inner lives define gender and sexuality.
It's always been this way, but it's an idea that is gaining widespread acceptance in the non-queer community. Think about it this way…the new answer to the hoary "Nature vs Nurture" debate, the new paradigm answers "Who gives a fuck?" Truly the best thing to come out of the sexual revolution.
I love men, i love my average body, i love my average dick, and i love my average asshole. I love men, I love their bodies, dicks, and holes--oh yeah, and i love their personalities too. And...I have a deep respect for the transgendered. I thought I had it rough just coming out as a gay man but that was a fucking cakewalk compared to the shitstorm of ignorance and judgement (and, oh yeah, lots of surgery) that this particular corner of our larger community has to deal with.
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I love being a man who loves men. Wouldn't trade my dick for anything in the world! The best toy a man can have and its portable!
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I love the fact that I'm a man, wouldn't want to be a woman since I've never desired one. Penis + Penis = :mob:
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Definitely happy enough with owing a pennis
I've never thought of being attracted to other guys in the context this guy put it.
On the contrary in fact it's the masculine element, the male to male dynamic that does it for me.
I reckon most of the gay guys I know feel the same way too.
Sounds like this fellow is mixing gay tendencies with trans-gender ones, clearly separate areas of sexual identity to my mind. -
On a politics forum, we are discussing the Chaz/Chassity Bono sex change and the board admin {gay guy} said that most gay men either feel like they are a woman in a man's body or they want to be women.
I disagree with this and say it's a small percentage that feel that way, not most.
Please vote and let's see how the numbers break down.
I am gay. To me that means I am a man, who has a penis (and loves it) that loves other men and their penis's. The thought of being a woman… disgusts me. I love my body... and I love what I can do with my body for myself and to other people. There are times, though, when I wish I was a woman... not because I want to be a female and I am trapped in my male body... but because it would be so much easier in our society to be a woman and be with men than be a man with a man. So thanks to all the bigots out there that beat the gay community up, lol wouldn't it be funny if because of the gay bashers the gays got sex changes... how ironic.
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Definitely do not want to be a woman. This board admin must be looking for an explanation for his sexuality too hard - in the wrong place.
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I love the fact that I'm a man, wouldn't want to be a woman since I've never desired one. Penis + Penis = :mob:
I wholeheartedly agree with both the statement and the dancing bananas.
Some gay men do have a bit more femininity or feminine side to them. Other people are transgender and do indeed feel like they are the opposite sex trapped in their current gender, but I'm confident in saying that most gay men enjoy being men and have no desire to be any other gender.
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Other: Sometimes. Sometimes I'll feel more feminine than masculine, it comes and goes and I just let it happen. I don't really care, just as long as I'm being honest about the way I feel.
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When young and naive, I thought my attraction to men meant that I was supposed to be a woman. I didn't know that there were other options. So glad that I found that there are men who simply love men! I love my dick too much to give it up!
That's the way I feel, I like my body and my boy parts, but I sometimes feel like it would be easier for me to live if I were born a woman, so once in a while I fantasize about the thought what if I were a woman. I hope you folks get my idea :lolp:
I feel the same. While I do love taking it passively–especially from hung transformers, I've never felt an overwhelming desire to be female. Sure I have an imagination, and when I was younger I felt like I should of been born a girl, but I think puberty provided my male pride.
While I'd still like to try drag for fun, I feel I'm far too masculine and sexist to even make an attempt at a convincing female persona.
NO. I LOVE being a MAN who loves MEN. I have NO desire to be a women, to be treated as one, or to be with one (again). But of course I respect those who feel otherwise.
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@DAB:
Definitely do not want to be a woman. This board admin must be looking for an explanation for his sexuality too hard - in the wrong place.
Actually, that's what most of us on the politics forum said.
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I am a man who loves men and I like to be a real man, having a penis, and the chance to have sex with other men (straight, bi, or gay).
I always think of myself as a man not a woman, even if I'm drunk.
As for Chastity/Chaz: he had problems to accept herself/himself. It was a really huge medical problem, not only a doubt as in "I feel myself a man or a woman".
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no, I would never want to be a woman. for one, I was never attracted to women, so maybe i'm also thinking that i wouldn't be an attractive woman, either hehehe.
I would say that anyone who enjoys F-ing a guy can't possibly think he's a woman trapped in a man's body. If you ask me, only pure bottoms might be fantasizing about becoming a woman, but this is just a conjecture on my part. no offense intended.
this post is an opinion generated by the user on the left. it is not the opinion of the makers, owners, or administrators of this site. hehehe
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I've had thoughts of being a woman, but usually only in a perverted fantasy in order to get into a straight guy's pants :lolp:
In all reality though, it would never happen. I am the way I am and nothing more. That being said though, I cannot say that it is fair to say the same for everyone else. There are some people out there who either want to or actually do go through the process of getting a sex change.
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for me, i don't feel like a woman stuck in a mans body, i am very happy to be a man
However, and this is where it gets confusing for me, i actually enjoy dressing as a woman sometimes. for me when i am dressed in drag i still don't feel like a woman, i feel like a man who is confident in himself enough to show some side of my personality that is repressed by the typical image of what a man should be. Its more about Freedom of expression and not about convincing the world i am something that i clearly am not (Not that there is a problem with that if that is what you are trying to do)
If i think i look good in lipstick, and i feel like i might want to be pretty today, why should i not be allowed to feel true to myself. (True to My Image, which may or may not be a womans image at that particular time)I guess what i am trying to say is that its not that i consider myself to be a woman, but that i consider (or at least hope/wish) that i am outside of conventional/stereotypical images of how a Man, or woman, should behave. I don't want to be a man. I don't want to be a woman. I don't really even want to be Human. I just want to be Me, and I want to be Free and Beautiful
That is probably just me though
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Hell no. I'm a man and wouldn't have it any other way. :}
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I like being a man in a man's body that loves men. I do look on women with envy over the endless supply of straight men available to them.
I do fantasize sometimes and try to imagine the experience of being penetrated and filled up with a man's dick. Getting fucked up the ass is not really the same thing. -
The poll is almost offensive. Almost.
There is a big difference between sexual attraction and gender-identity.
I'm a man, I am gay, I am married, I am a working professional, I like porn, I like to jerk off frequently, and I'm a whole lot of other things. Just being attracted to a man and enjoying sex with a man doesn't make me any less of a man, or make me question my gender identity.
There are men/women trapped in the wrong bodies or have a question with their own identity, but what does that have to do with sucking a cock, sexing up a guy, fucking his hot hole or getting fucked?
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:true: :true: that was a little graphic but I agree especially because I for one like both genders but i don't question my own gender
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