Am I gay or not…?
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Sexuality is not just making sex with the same or the other gender. Oficially, sexual orientation is devided into 7 basic degrees (you can find some more fact about it also at this forum). Thus, and by that qualification, you are classified as bisexual with a specific attraction. Just wait a few more years and you will see what way your body will "decide" to go, for now just take it easy, 'cause somehow or other, you can't influence this, rather don't worry.
Good advice. But instead of waiting a few years, don't be too hesitant to frick a bit.
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just try to fuck with a guy u r attrated too. if u like it, u r defenitly bi. Even without the sex, i already think u r bi but u r too afraid to experience it.
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**Play with your friends. Play with your friends friends.
Your first anal experience may be a little shocking at first, but it is def on the path to discovering yourself. XY had a great guide on this. They may have it online?
Only you can define who you are. "Coming out" is more self acceptance than letting others know.**
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only you can say.
like posters above me, i think you should experiment.
you will find sluts of every form and sizes. experiment with them.
see if you like boys and/or girls.
only you can tell if you're gay or bi.
also, you can be gay without doing blow job or anal sex.
that's what the g0ys are doing!
just take time to discover yourself.
the fun is in that journey!
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only you can say.
like posters above me, i think you should experiment.
you will find sluts of every form and sizes. experiment with them.
see if you like boys and/or girls.
only you can tell if you're gay or bi.
also, you can be gay without doing blow job or anal sex.
that's what the g0ys are doing!
just take time to discover yourself.
the fun is in that journey!
makes me feel a little bit sad by reading that your proposal is to experiment with people and only talk about sex .
Sure , everybody has to find himself and his own way , but sex is also communication between people and being gay does not only mean to have sex with somebody . Whats about feelings , mutual acceptance , love ? Finding himself also means to learn all those things and not to perform a blowjob only ! -
i am replying in accordance to the OP's post:
I
m interested in one thing…I like male foot fetish and boy teenagers, but Im not prefer ass f**k and blow job.his original post is sexually-related.
and if my advice is inadequate for you, wouldn't it be productive of you if you give your own advice and add to what i have posted instead of attacking me?
i didn't claim to be perfect or claimed to have a complete solution to his problem, thus your need to add to whatever advice people have already posted.
the OP's purpose of starting this thread is get opinions from people regarding his situation. and you are encouraged to offer something productive for him!
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i am replying in accordance to the OP's post:
I
m interested in one thing…I like male foot fetish and boy teenagers, but Im not prefer ass f**k and blow job.his original post is sexually-related.
and if my advice is inadequate for you, wouldn't it be productive of you if you give your own advice and add to what i have posted instead of attacking me?
i didn't claim to be perfect or claimed to have a complete solution to his problem, thus your need to add to whatever advice people have already posted.
the OP's purpose of starting this thread is get opinions from people regarding his situation. and you are encouraged to offer something productive for him!
am sorry, i didnt scroll down the whole thread as you didnt quote to anything .
Anyway , i still think , its not good to use an expression like " experiment with people " -
am sorry, i didnt scroll down the whole thread as you didnt quote to anything .
Anyway , i still think , its not good to use an expression like " experiment with people "Why not? i experiment with people, it's nothing insulting or whatever u think. experimenting means "verify" ur sexual compatibility. that's how i see it.
EDIT:corrected quote syntax
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it makes us human to have different point of views
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Hello guys! I
m interested in one thing…I like male foot fetish and boy teenagers, but Im not prefer ass f**k and blow job. Im 20 years old younng man who dont know who he realy is...I like looking at girls and i had some relationships with them...so can someone of you answer, am i gay or normal guy, or something like that? I realy need your opinion...thanks:)You're a human being, and like all human beings, you have complex desires.
Some people would say that it's not useful to categorize people as either gay, bi, straight, etc. Like what you like, love who you love, and allow yourself to be sensitive to how your feelings change over the course of the years. -
If you do not know who and what they like how we know who you are? hic .. hic … (sorry), I think you still find people who really love you, you crazy about love thrust will only know who you are. Wish you the future will find that person (whether male or female and such). :blind:
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i experiment with me fellas
and they experiment with me
the fun and experimentation are mutual
it has to be mutural otherwise we're just usin each other as sex objects
oops! second thoughts - i think i do that too ::)
just dont experiment with teenagers under the legal age lol -
Sexuality is not just making sex with the same or the other gender. Oficially, sexual orientation is devided into 7 basic degrees (you can find some more fact about it also at this forum). Thus, and by that qualification, you are classified as bisexual with a specific attraction. Just wait a few more years and you will see what way your body will "decide" to go, for now just take it easy, 'cause somehow or other, you can't influence this, rather don't worry.
Would have to 100% agree with what above is stated.
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Hello Captain,
Many young people, especially young man, have been in the same problem like you as they are growing to adults. Please be aware that Sexual orientation cannot be chosen although it is not always stable (I mean your sexual orientation can be changed, maybe in the future). If you are really homosexual, you are really so. You should follow your TRUE FEELING, but be seriously aware that TRUE FEELING here is not the FEELING of CURIOSITY. What do I mean for that? Never try having sex with a man when you are not sexually attracted to him! HOMOSEXUALITY is not all about SEX. Just lead an ordinary life as you are doing, and follow your TRUE FEELING. One more thing that I want to suggest: You SHOULDN'T approach SEXUAL MATERIALS FOR GAY(BI) because they may cause your REAL SEXUAL ORIENTATION CONFUSION.
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… am i gay or normal guy, or something like that? ...
Let me say this first. The above quote tells me you have some reservation about what it means to be gay. You said "am I gay or normal guy". Being gay will not make you "abnormal", it will just make you gay pure and simple.
I am bisexual and for years I struggled with the same question. I love to fck my girl till the sun comes up (don't gag fellas
) but I also love to give mind blowing blowjobs to horny studs(often >:D ). I'm not crazy about fcking a guy(although I have) or getting f*cked by a guy(although I have). My point is, follow your instincts. When you get wood what is the first thing you think about when you start to rub one out? That should be a very good clue to your true preference.One last note. I am speaking of lust not love. I love my girl but I lust after many men. If you commit to a relationship (gay or not) be sure your partner understands your urges or you may end up with some real issues down the road.
Good luck Captain.
Best Wishes
Brandon -
In your opinions, cumeaternc
Is there any love between two men? People usually say that: "Homosexual is just about SEX". What do you think about this?
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In your opinions, cumeaternc
Is there any love between two men? People usually say that: "Homosexual is just about SEX". What do you think about this?
I believe Love is not relegated to any sexual orientation. I believe two men can love eachother, two women can love eachother, a man and a women can love eachother. Homosexuality has never been just about sex.
The trap we fall into by being attracted to the same sex is that a heterosexual man and woman in their ignorance think the only reason we choose someone of the same gender is because we wanna f*ck night and day. I love my girl not only because of our physical chemistry but because we click on an emotional level. If a man had the same qualities as she does and I didn't know her I'm sure I would fall in love him because It's not the gender that matters(to me at least), it's the emotional payoff.
I also have a need to "play" with men, a primal attraction if you will. The thing is that I understand the difference between the two(love and lust). If my guys ever affected my relationship with my girl then that "playful" part of my life would be over(by my choice) because I Love her and only desire them physically.
Sorry I was rambling on ;D Did that make any sense to you? ???
Kisses
Brandon -
yes ;D
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Very sensible, brandon.
Actually i've never been attracted to girls… ever. I also don't think it's abnormal. I mean undesirable if it were to become a majority of the population, because then we'd die out due to lack of offspring. But it is by no means unnatural, because you're just responding to your person/gut/libido. If it were abnormal there wouldn't be so many of us, and dating back millennia.
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Hello guys! I
m interested in one thing…I like male foot fetish and boy teenagers, but Im not prefer ass f**k and blow job. Im 20 years old younng man who dont know who he realy is...I like looking at girls and i had some relationships with them...so can someone of you answer, am i gay or normal guy, or something like that? I realy need your opinion...thanks:)Well, you're on a gay site and not by accident. You had to join up to post here. Maybe you're simply not happy with the answer so you keep asking the question? Or maybe young men and their feet are feminine enough for you to forget you're participating in "homosexual" sex? (If you're having sex - one dude was totally content to put as much of my foot in his mouth as he could. We were naked and he jacked off, but it was the foot that he was into, not me. Was this actually sex?) I knew my desire by the time I was five. But give yourself some time. Twenty isn't that old and I think the truth will reveal itself if you keep your eyes open.
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