Straight guys in gay porn; are the really straight?

[blackwing]

If it is about the $$$$, and not a preference of theirs…...

Well, 'nuff said.

[JohnAllenson]

You're all arguing over different definitions of what gay and straight are without acknowledging that there are different definitions.

Functional:  if you can have sex with a man you are gay.  If you can have sex with a woman you are straight.  If you can have sex with both you are bisexual.

Attraction:  If someone has sex with a man ony for a pay check but persues sex with women he's not gay.  (One of my favorite performers from Sean Cody came out as bisexual and had an uncomfortable scene with a guy who was only there for the money and refused to try to have any fun.)

Identity:  People get to name themselves.  I've known Gay guys in monogamous heterosexual relationships.  Straight guys in same-sex relationships.  People who don't ever have sex who identify with gay or straight or bisexual.  And people who do have sex who identify as Asexual.

Myself, I notice that guys can have sex with people or objects that they are not attracted to.  I'm not going to call a guy who sticks a dildo up his butt a dildo-sexual no matter who many times he does it on camera.

[lostalone]

@JohnAllenson:

You're all arguing over different definitions of what gay and straight are without acknowledging that there are different definitions.

Functional:  if you can have sex with a man you are gay.  If you can have sex with a woman you are straight.  If you can have sex with both you are bisexual.

Attraction:  If someone has sex with a man ony for a pay check but persues sex with women he's not gay.  (One of my favorite performers from Sean Cody came out as bisexual and had an uncomfortable scene with a guy who was only there for the money and refused to try to have any fun.)

Identity:  People get to name themselves.  I've known Gay guys in monogamous heterosexual relationships.  Straight guys in same-sex relationships.  People who don't ever have sex who identify with gay or straight or bisexual.  And people who do have sex who identify as Asexual.

Myself, I notice that guys can have sex with people or objects that they are not attracted to.  I'm not going to call a guy who sticks a dildo up his butt a dildo-sexual no matter who many times he does it on camera.

Yep, this is really good.

I think what most people are saying when they call themselves straight was more about 'straight in attraction', as in they leaned more towards women. Changing times does make some men willing to try sex with other men without labeling themselves as gay or bisexual– which is where MSM as a term is based on, I think.

This is both interesting and frustrating at the same time because it implies that being gay is a matter of culture / behavior / attitude, or at worst the old idea that being gay means you have to be a drag queen swishy femme, and I think this is the same root to so many femmephobia in gay community these days.

Not to mention the difference in romantic attraction and sexual attraction.

So I cannot help but wonder if the amount of the so-called gay4pay or straight guys doing gay sex would decrease if the labels gay / bisexual / pansexual / demisexual / queer are not as stigmatized as they still are these days.

[spam17]

@TheNewt:

No man that has sex with men in porn for bisexual and gay men is heterosexual/straight.

This is just marketing based on homophobic/biphobia, and the bad stereotype that gay and bisexual men want heterosexual/straight men or want every man we see.

Now if it's a solo jack off scene where the man does not have sex with any men that's different, there are some heterosexual/straight men who have done this; but they don't do scenes where they have sex with men.
Contrary to the popular myth, you do not make a lot of money from being in porn.

I can guess why people involved in the porn industry, don't make a lot of money..

[m1shima]

Just for clarity, are we talking the Gay-for-pay fellas?

[nancledra53]

@Nivalwolf:

I think all people are bisexual on some level, and these "straight" guys are just tapping into that side of them, even if they don't believe it themselves.

This is just my opinion.

I'd like to know where my bi-sexuality is. Never come across my straight side at all, if it exists. Even when, and I do admit it, I watch straight porn, it's the guys I get off on. I have to say I prefer straight gang bangs a number of guys with one piece of fish.

[krisleilei]

Sexuality is a wide spectrum, so I'm sure there are straight actors whose sexuality may be fluid or they may be bi-curious, but I'd say most do tend to stay more consistently engaged in straight sex.

[blondiex]

Wow everyone forgets they could be bisexual. No one uses the word anymore but it was popular in the early 70s. They're are probably more bisexual people than any other sexuality. Of course, "straights" are not gonna let it be known if they have same sex attractions. @vinisadmirer:

So yeah, are straight guys who do porn really straight?

Your thoughts

[A Former User]

It is all about the almighty dollar!

[indybr05]

i don't think they are 100% straight, a lot of "gay for pay" actors you can se they enjoying it, if they didn't it would be horrible to watch, i think the fall in the specter of sexuality, they may prefer women but that doesn't mean they don't like to fuck dudes

[lololulu19]

if a guy is really straight.. he would not be capable of getting hard with another guy.

likewise, a truly gay guy would not be capable of getting hard with a female.

in fact, a truly straight guy would not be capable of getting hard in solo knowing that gay guys are watching.

[Grotomode]

They might actually be. I can not think of a reason why so many guys would just claim to be straight while they are actually gay in order to do gay born in the 2021.

I mean they are already recorded doing stuff so it makes no sense to assume they are ashamed to admit they are gay.

In any case it is a huge turn off for me, thats why its been years since I've watched a Corbin Fisher video… bleh...

[ScallyLvr]

@Godabed:

Sexuality can only be defined by the person themselves and whom they prefer to have sex with.  It doesn't matter if they have sucked a million and 1 dicks or have taken it up the ass a billion times. If they prefer to have sex with Women they are Heterosexual. No one has the right to try and define someone else's sexual orientation.

Exactly! I agree 100%.

Who is more gay, a guy who is forced by a gun to his head to perform sex with another man or lose his life (but who never fantasizes, seeks out, or watches any gay sex) or a virgin teenage boy who has never had sex with any man, but who constantly beats off to the thought of guys, and who has to hide his boner whenever he's in the locker rooms around other naked guys? Clearly the teen who has never had sex with another man is more gay than the guy who has had sex with another man (under duress).

How many gay men in here would have sex with a woman for $10,000,000 tax free? Does that make them straight? There are also plenty of gay men around the world (more so in the past) who regularly have sex with women just in order to stay in the closet. That doesn't make them straight or bi. They do it for reasons other than desire or arousal.

Comments suggesting that erections are not physiological reactions (and that they are somehow only controlled by desire) are biologically illiterate. Erections can be caused by physical or mental stimuli. If the penis is physically stimulated, it will react. It's no different to laughing when being tickled (even when you don't find being tickled funny). Sure, straight men are unlikely to get (or stay) hard from the visual stimuli of another man, but that's why so many of them can suck a dick for 10 minutes straight and remain fully soft, but as soon as they start receiving a blow job (or using another guy as a human fleshlite) they end up getting a boner.

Sexuality is on a spectrum, so there will be straight guys who are utterly repulsed and disgusted by gay sex and others who just find it mildly unpleasant and undesirable. Clearly the former group are not going to be the ones who are doing gay4pay.

Sexuality is not defined by who you have sex with, it's defined by who you WANT to have sex with.