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    Have you had sex with a person knowing he was POZ

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    • F Offline
      fun17
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      @duke4172:

      As long as the person that is undetectable it is highly unlikely that HIV can be spread! I would still recommend condom use!

      Second!

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        JohnAllenson
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        Yes, I had sex with many men once, some men a lot of times.  I had a POZ boyfriend for a while.

        Since I had hepatitus at a very young age and have had medical problems since the mid-seventies I started using condoms BEFORE people found out about AIDS.  I'm not going to take the risk of infecting someone else.

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          boyishguy
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          I'm on prep now, but when i first came out my first fuck buddy told me he was positive before we did anything. It was his disclaimer and he was open and honest about everything. He's now one of my best gay friends, we talk about everything openly.

          TBH positive or negative I always use condoms. I've only had three exceptions, when i was in a closed relationship or with two people i whole heartedly trust but was on prep just to be safe anyway.

          If any of you guys are having unprotected sex, if its available to you please get on prep. HIV is no light matter with life long consequences.

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            suttonty
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            many times toping only tho

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              swegay
              last edited by

              @fun17:

              @duke4172:

              As long as the person that is undetectable it is highly unlikely that HIV can be spread! I would still recommend condom use!

              Second!

              Agree to that. There are a lot of other diseases than HIV/AIDS that the condom will stop…

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                fun17
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                @boyishguy:

                I'm on prep now, but when i first came out my first fuck buddy told me he was positive before we did anything. It was his disclaimer and he was open and honest about everything. He's now one of my best gay friends, we talk about everything openly.

                TBH positive or negative I always use condoms. I've only had three exceptions, when i was in a closed relationship or with two people i whole heartedly trust but was on prep just to be safe anyway.

                If any of you guys are having unprotected sex, if its available to you please get on prep. HIV is no light matter with life long consequences.

                :love:

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                  A Former User
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                  Yes! As long as you use protection you will be safe!

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                    eobox91103
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                    @duke4172:

                    Yes! As long as you use protection you will be safe!

                    Nothing is ever 100% safe; it's all about risk reduction, not risk elimination.  That said, topping a POZ/undetectable bottom while using a condom that doesn't break is very unlikely to cause exposure to HIV.

                    As another person noted above, a guy who knows he's POZ and is on meds and has an undetectable viral load is a safer partner than the many of us who were negative at our last test.

                    And yes, I've topped POZ guys, some multiple times, and a few times not with a condom.  I'm not proud of that record, but I remain negative.

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                      A Former User
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                      Yes but always with protection!

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                        Grotomode
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                        Yes I have. Why not?

                        Do people still picture HIV positive people as stereotypical disease ridden individuals that do not take care of themselves (which includes taking proper HIV medication)?

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                          coscar
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                          Yes of course!

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                            seaguy11
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                            Yes and we did not use protection because he is unndetectable.

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                              lololulu19
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                              I occasionally chat on Facebook with a VERY famous former gay pornstar who is POZ. He travels around the USA and Europe and has unprotected sex with hundreds of guys per month, often they queue up to fuck his ass. He is a very nice, attractive, and intelligent guy, but I abhor his sexual antics.
                              It's also odd that when he was doing porn, he was monogamous, and was quite unusual in that almost all of his scenes were with the same guy!

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