Sleep with a married man or sleep with a bicurious
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I was once in a relationship with a married man (married to a woman). He was the typical handsome mature man working in a bank. He would never leave his "stable life" with his wife (they had no children). I didn't like the experience. It lasted for 3 months and I broke it up because I didn't see any kind of future in that relationship.
Exactly my point. Most married gay men look for opportunity to find sex with someone they like. But at the end of the day do not want to leave their wife and children (if they have). I do not understand whom they are fooling in such attempts. I am happy for you that you did not waste your time and energy around this married man.
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Yep, I agree with you. He was using me for having sex (I guess his "gay feelings") with me, but I was using him for having sex, as well. Fortunately I didn't fall in love with him before breaking up. I guess we both enjoyed sex and that's it!
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I think sleeping with a married guy just once is ok but if it becomes regular then that's weird. Also about the affair thing - his girlfriend might be open to it as long as it's not another girl he sleeps with haha.
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And here I thought that Monogamy was just another piece of expensive wood :lolp:
This was in 2015 and just saw it. Lol at this :funny2:
Or it can be a Diana Ross 1975 movie
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I refuse to knowingly sleep with a married man/man with a girlfriend. That doesn't mean I might not have done it before; I'd just greatly prefer to not become the topic of a divorce.
An uncommitted bicurious guy I'd prefer more. I like helping straight guys explore their sexuality; kind of a strange kink of mine, to be honest.
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Definitely not with a married man, because it'd only be for sex.
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I hooked up a few times with a guy who loved to suck and get fucked. One time at his apartment I saw a photo of him and a girl together…I asked who she was, and he said it was his wife. That was a bit of a turn off. The next time I came over, the door to his closet in the bedroom was ajar. I didn't think anything of it, until I heard a very feminine sneeze: His wife was in there, watching us, and pleasuring herself at the same time.
That was the last time we hooked up.
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Bicurious. Definitely not with a married man!
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I hooked up a few times with a guy who loved to suck and get fucked. One time at his apartment I saw a photo of him and a girl together…I asked who she was, and he said it was his wife. That was a bit of a turn off. The next time I came over, the door to his closet in the bedroom was ajar. I didn't think anything of it, until I heard a very feminine sneeze: His wife was in there, watching us, and pleasuring herself at the same time.
That was the last time we hooked up.
Wow!
What an experience..
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I exclusively sucked off married men in my 20's. They're eager, and love a good suck.
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Bi-curious is fine. Though if he doesn't like, it'll be awkward afterwards.
Married - only if the spouse agrees (I know at least one such couple). Not even moral considerations, just pragmatism - I prefer partners with emotional bond, not a quick fuck on a side, and marriage will complicate everything in it.
Well, would prefer, with me being incel and all that… -
Bi-curious is fine. Though if he doesn't like, it'll be awkward afterwards.
Married - only if the spouse agrees (I know at least one such couple). Not even moral considerations, just pragmatism - I prefer partners with emotional bond, not a quick fuck on a side, and marriage will complicate everything in it.
Well, would prefer, with me being incel and all that…Bi-curious..
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Really???
And did she say anything when you were done? Didn't you feel uncomfortable?I hooked up a few times with a guy who loved to suck and get fucked. One time at his apartment I saw a photo of him and a girl together…I asked who she was, and he said it was his wife. That was a bit of a turn off. The next time I came over, the door to his closet in the bedroom was ajar. I didn't think anything of it, until I heard a very feminine sneeze: His wife was in there, watching us, and pleasuring herself at the same time.
That was the last time we hooked up.
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Whoever is hottest.
Unless the bi-curious guy is really inexperienced and needs his time, in which case I can not be bothered.
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if im just hooking up, then yeah to me it doesnt really matter. They have their reasons for wanting to go behind their partners back and it doesn't involve me. I'm just looking to get laid.
Relationship? Never with a married man, we've all watched enough tv to know that sucks! and bicurious? probably not. they still have some searching to do themselves.
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I agree with you.
Actually I am not so sure that bi-curios guys are really "curious"… I'm gay and I am not curious about making out with a girl... why would a guy be curious about making out with another guy if you are not gay?
if im just hooking up, then yeah to me it doesnt really matter. They have their reasons for wanting to go behind their partners back and it doesn't involve me. I'm just looking to get laid.
Relationship? Never with a married man, we've all watched enough tv to know that sucks! and bicurious? probably not. they still have some searching to do themselves.
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I agree with you.
Actually I am not so sure that bi-curios guys are really "curious"… I'm gay and I am not curious about making out with a girl... why would a guy be curious about making out with another guy if you are not gay?
Well, sometimes they try and find out they don't really like it. Sexual orientation is a scale, after all, not a small set of fixed points.
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Yeah, I guess you are right…
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I have done both and it's exciting.
Although, if I personally knows the wife or the girlfriend, then I will not, even if it will kill me not to have sex with them hahaha.
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Really???
And did she say anything when you were done? Didn't you feel uncomfortable?I hooked up a few times with a guy who loved to suck and get fucked. One time at his apartment I saw a photo of him and a girl together…I asked who she was, and he said it was his wife. That was a bit of a turn off. The next time I came over, the door to his closet in the bedroom was ajar. I didn't think anything of it, until I heard a very feminine sneeze: His wife was in there, watching us, and pleasuring herself at the same time.
That was the last time we hooked up.
We had just started when that happened. I zipped up and left without saying a word. It felt disgusting–not the married part, but the fact that he would set up someone to watch us without my knowledge.
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