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    I love my man but…....

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    • jkronfussJ Offline
      jkronfuss
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      @Mcjl:

      I've been married.  Happily for 5 years.  But my husband gets on my last nerve …... what to do?

      Have you tried talking to him? You went as far as to marry him, it worths the try, don't you think?

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        upNXT
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        Tell him.

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          AimlessThund
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          @Mcjl:

          I've been married.  Happily for 5 years.  But my husband gets on my last nerve …... what to do?

          Have an open and solution-orientated discussion about what you think is not working in your marriage.
          You guys are lucky to have each other. I mean you even got married so that has to count for something.

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            nancledra53
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            In the wonderful way that Tammy puts it: D.I.V.O.R.C.E.

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              kenjysn1
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              @nancledra53:

              In the wonderful way that Tammy puts it: D.I.V.O.R.C.E.

              :cry2: you should do that.

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                lf4317
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                Get some counseling.

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                  Minerboh80
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                  It one of these nausty side effects of being married.

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                    x112x
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                    You might want to offer up more details if you want some appropriate advice. I don't think anyone can tell if it's super-serious where divorce is even an option, or if it's one of those issues that's gonna hurt in a long run.

                    If anything, couple's therapy can't hurt and it's often an underrated option.

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                      alex0976
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                      Maybe it is time to talk about this issue with him now. Marriage needs to be taken care carefully. Any cracks may let the marriage wreck. If you two still deeply love each other, I think all things can be worked out. Sometimes, a good and effective talk can let both of you know each other more and love each other more!!!

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                        lostalone
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                        I dunno if the OP will return but: there are lots of types of aggravation.

                        Is this the small kind that keeps piling day by day? Or is it a sudden change because certain life events? Or is it more like a gradual decrease of certain restraint / boundaries?

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                          vaylon 0
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                          @kenjysn1:

                          if both of you can have a child, Responsibility will weaken the effect. tie you and your husband closer.

                          This is an old wives tale, idea. Children do not add to a relationship. They enhance what is already there. If you have lots of love and communication. It gets better. But if you have problems and think a child will fix it or make it better? Wrong. The child will only make it worse.

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                            mcoguy
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                            Welcome to marriage.  In every relationship I've been in that has lasted longer than a few months, the guy gets on my nerves in one way or another. I think it's normal for that to happen when you live with someone.  Just realize that you are two separate people with different habits and preferences.  Just remember why you fell in love with him in the first place and embrace your differences.

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                              nickys1177
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                              the good side is at least you live in a place where you can marry him.. not all people have that privilege

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                                torrus
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                                Take a break. Go visit family for a few days or more. He'll miss you 🙂

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