Would you refuse to have sex with your bf when ur having a cold?

[lovebearlove]

i mean for ur bf s sake….u should refuse right? but if he says he doesn't care....and want it so bad?

[genovaffa]

Doctor here (LOL, sorry for my English, in advance)
If you have a cold, with fever (more common with influenza), your erectile function could be impaired (more impaired as higher is the fever). This is a "top" problem, of course ;).
Of course, common cold is highly contagious. And, of course, no one cares. Anyway, you can equally infect you partner kissing him, sleeping with him, touching him, coughing and sneezing, so sexual transmission is not really a significant concern.
However, depending on your subjective perception (and tollerance) of symptoms (runny nose and congestion, sore throat, headache), you can be uncomfortable. Oh, well, I was forgetting to tell that exercise is a natural decongestive. I think is more up to your comfort, than the concern about your partner health.
Take care

[warpaint]

Yeah I would refuse. His health is top priority. If I was in the opposite situation thoguh… actually I've been to, he was sick and I didn't care and we had sex. He didn't care too that he infected me. Lol.

[rufusmc]

To be honest it's a cold, so if he's occupying the same home as me he is likely to get it, so I would definitely have sex.

The only time I've said no is when I'm feverish or if it's a really runny nose and it gets yucky.

[bbartok]

Yeah I would refuse too. His health is priority and would be time for recompensate  ;).

[jb420]

i'm not having sex if either of us is sick. aside from the health issues, there's just nothing sexy about being sick.

[Ononoke]

If it's up to me, then… it depends on my situation.
If I'm feeling up for it, and he doesn't mind the risk catching my cold, then sure why not.  :nutki:
But when the cold is already giving me all uneasy and uncomfortable, then he's never getting my consent.  :puke:

@genovaffa:

Doctor here (LOL, sorry for my English, in advance)
If you have a cold, with fever (more common with influenza), your erectile function could be impaired (more impaired as higher is the fever). This is a "top" problem, of course ;).
Of course, common cold is highly contagious. And, of course, no one cares. Anyway, you can equally infect you partner kissing him, sleeping with him, touching him, coughing and sneezing, so sexual transmission is not really a significant concern.
However, depending on your subjective perception (and tollerance) of symptoms (runny nose and congestion, sore throat, headache), you can be uncomfortable. Oh, well, I was forgetting to tell that exercise is a natural decongestive. I think is more up to your comfort, than the concern about your partner health.
Take care

Great advice!