Master slave
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I'm a Master than has been looking for a "boy" to be my slave for decades now. I am in my early 60s now – and still looking for a slave somewhere between 18-45yo, but would prefer a boy who was in his late 20s or early 30s.
I have been on 4-5 different gay dating/BDSM sites off and on for all those years as well and I have found anyone. Over time I have expanded the range of appearance and even personality to give myself a better chance -- and nothing.
This is what is typical of what happens. In August and September I made a major effort of 3 different sites to find a slave. I have a profile that clearly describes I am looking for a slave, a general appearance, and what my interests and hobbies are. I always include several photos of myself.
In those two months I was likely contacted between 10-20 different guys. Some were outside of my general range, but I still chatted with them so we could get to know each other some before we meet.
I made arrangements to meet about 10-15 of them. I lost count because of what happened -- which was that NOT ONE of them showed up to meet with me as we had planned. In almost all cases they never contacted me to tell me they were not going to come and just stood me up. Then I got ghosted by them and never heard from any one of them again.
The WORST one was a guy in his mid 30s who had previous experience as a slave. He was bi and listed he was looking for either a Master or a Mistress. We talked over a period of two weeks and he expressed repeatedly he was very interesting in being my slave.
The night before we were to meet, I had him call me to confirm he would meet me. He did. The next day, a few hours before we were to meet, he called to say he would be a 1/2 hour late. That was fine.
He did NOT show up. Instead about an hour after he was suppose to show up and checked my email and found a message from him where he said "I need a Mistress! Sorry, it's not your fault." Well, fuck you.
He and I are still on one of the websites I used and he is still looking for a Mistress two months later.
As I said, about 10-15 guys told me they were interested in being my slave, not one showed, not one replied to my attempts to contact them again.
I live in the Greater Boston area of Massachusetts in the USA. There are a large number of universities in this area as well as the fact the my state was the first one to legalize same-sex marriage in the US. Massachusetts has always been very forward when it comes to the rights and acceptance of gay people. There are thousands of openly gay guys around this region.
October was a miserable month for me and I realized toward the end it was because I had spent so much time, energy, and emotion on meeting any one of these guys -- and it was all wasted.
There are a fair number of men who call themselves Masters but are either Doms or actually don't have a fucking clue what Mastery is.
In the same way there are a lot of boys who believe they are slaves, but are subs, or don't know what slavery actually is, or I think in a lot of case have NOT been able to accept that they are a slave and so cannot commit to what they need to do to become the person that they are.
(FYI, I define a sub as a "sexual slave" and a slave as a "sexual slave who does your laundry". That is, one is a slave only in the bedroom while the other is a slave 24/7.)
I no longer have a car so it has become near impossible for me to get to bars or events to try to meet a slave in person. I think I am just going to have to spent a lot of money on taxis to see if I can actually meet a potential slave in person at a club or somewhere.
As I said, this has been over and over again what happens for decades now and I cannot even begin to describe for extremely frustrating and depressing this has become for me.
I have wondered if it is me that is the problem. But I have talked with those who I consider real slaves, those who have served a Masters for years before something ends the relationship (usually the Master moves away and the slave cannot be taken with him) and they have told me I am a Master and not someone who just believes he is.
I'm a smart and clever guy and I have gone far beyond what other Master have done to find a slave -- or even just as a vanilla top trying to find a vanilla bottom for a relationship. I've search in ways that would boggle a lot of guys minds in the efforts and extent I have gone to find someone.
FUCKING HELL.
(I cannot even find an emoticon among the ones here to express how I feel.)
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I am not exclusively submissive, but I like to be submissive in sex once in a while. But I guess I'm more into hard sex then into slave/master role play. It particularly turns me on being used as a human urinal and having my throat brutally fucked.
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I am not exclusively submissive, but I like to be submissive in sex once in a while. But I guess I'm more into hard sex then into slave/master role play. It particularly turns me on being used as a human urinal and having my throat brutally fucked.
You are likely a switch.
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Aw, hope you find a decent slave, Boston polar. Should be easier than looking for love. But dating first then transitioning to a slave relationship is probably harder?
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Aw, hope you find a decent slave, Boston polar.
I have had really no hope for years now. I just keep trying because I am so fucking worn out of being so lonely. (Alone I can deal with just fine.)
Should be easier than looking for love. But dating first then transitioning to a slave relationship is probably harder?
Well, by date I mean meeting and trying out as Master and slave to see how it works. I should rephrase that. Thanks.
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dom here, never found a conscious sub 4 something serious :blownose:
is that you in the pic
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I've been happily collared for a little over 2 years now, and I wouldn't have it any other way. It took me many a years to find a Master who was real and who has a lot of common interest with me. Originally, I started out as just a slave, a possession if you will, but over time I have worked my way up to become my Master's prized trophy pet. The interesting part is that originally, my Master only wanted me as a pet for a very specific purpose, but the more tests that he began to put me though, the more useful I became to him, largely due to the fact that he has stressed to me many times that I am a very rare breed of slave…
The biggest problem that I found in finding a Master was finding someone both with experience and the know-how of the lifestyle, as it's more than just a sexual fantasy or a "role" as it were, but I'm very glad that I did. Being a slave is more than just the sexual aspect and the domination. It's a way of life, unlike any other that in its own way is very rewarding.On the topic of the collar, in the last 2 years, it has not come off my neck unless Master has taken it off to put something else on for the current moment, or I have had to remove it to step into the shower. While the collar is more like a ring around a finger in this case, it goes far beyond just the collar. There's something about giving yourself up to another person that's always just thrilled me, and I'm very lucky that my Master and I share a lot of the same interests, as this has resulted in a lot of very fun times. Also, nothing thrills me more than seeing his reaction when I outdo myself to thrill him. That's part of why I love the fact that we are both so "twisted" for lack of a better term. Most people call it sadistic, but in our case, it goes far beyond sadistic.
Also, my Master absolutely LOVES to enjoy when am the subject of a good show, and actually encourages, and in some cases, has even required, that I submit to serving another dom just so that he can enjoy the show and see just how much I can take. In one particular case, he ordered a photo shoot as a way for me to prove that I would so whatever was asked, without hesitation. Like a good boi, I accepted the challenge immediately and provided him with this.... https://www.dropbox.com/sh/hk1hk00lenb9lqw/AADO8b9y-uV3tkTlOGHnuXWCa?dl=0 It's always rewarding in the end, as every time, he has rewarded me immensely for doing exactly as he wished, without hesitation. To be honest, I would be rather lost without my Master. It's a special kind of bond really.
I made arrangements to meet about 10-15 of them. I lost count because of what happened – which was that NOT ONE of them showed up to meet with me as we had planned. In almost all cases they never contacted me to tell me they were not going to come and just stood me up. Then I got ghosted by them and never heard from any one of them again.
The sad thing that I find is that this seems to be the case with most people on the internet. They'll talk the talk because it's a hot fantasy for them, but when the time comes to put their money where their mouth is, most of them cannot be bothered, usually because by that point, they've already gotten their rocks off. This is the biggest problem I find when my Master orders me to do things like find a play thing for him online.
dom here, never found a conscious sub 4 something serious :blownose:
You've obviously never met me then hehe
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dom
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I am sub…
i like humiliation stuff too... into cam humilitation by straight guys (paid)
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I'm a Master than has been looking for a "boy" to be my slave for decades now. I am in my early 60s now – and still looking for a slave somewhere between 18-45yo, but would prefer a boy who was in his late 20s or early 30s.
I have been on 4-5 different gay dating/BDSM sites off and on for all those years as well and I have found anyone. Over time I have expanded the range of appearance and even personality to give myself a better chance -- and nothing.
This is what is typical of what happens. In August and September I made a major effort of 3 different sites to find a slave. I have a profile that clearly describes I am looking for a slave, a general appearance, and what my interests and hobbies are. I always include several photos of myself.
In those two months I was likely contacted between 10-20 different guys. Some were outside of my general range, but I still chatted with them so we could get to know each other some before we meet.
I made arrangements to meet about 10-15 of them. I lost count because of what happened -- which was that NOT ONE of them showed up to meet with me as we had planned. In almost all cases they never contacted me to tell me they were not going to come and just stood me up. Then I got ghosted by them and never heard from any one of them again.
The WORST one was a guy in his mid 30s who had previous experience as a slave. He was bi and listed he was looking for either a Master or a Mistress. We talked over a period of two weeks and he expressed repeatedly he was very interesting in being my slave.
The night before we were to meet, I had him call me to confirm he would meet me. He did. The next day, a few hours before we were to meet, he called to say he would be a 1/2 hour late. That was fine.
He did NOT show up. Instead about an hour after he was suppose to show up and checked my email and found a message from him where he said "I need a Mistress! Sorry, it's not your fault." Well, fuck you.
He and I are still on one of the websites I used and he is still looking for a Mistress two months later.
As I said, about 10-15 guys told me they were interested in being my slave, not one showed, not one replied to my attempts to contact them again.
I live in the Greater Boston area of Massachusetts in the USA. There are a large number of universities in this area as well as the fact the my state was the first one to legalize same-sex marriage in the US. Massachusetts has always been very forward when it comes to the rights and acceptance of gay people. There are thousands of openly gay guys around this region.
October was a miserable month for me and I realized toward the end it was because I had spent so much time, energy, and emotion on meeting any one of these guys -- and it was all wasted.
There are a fair number of men who call themselves Masters but are either Doms or actually don't have a fucking clue what Mastery is.
In the same way there are a lot of boys who believe they are slaves, but are subs, or don't know what slavery actually is, or I think in a lot of case have NOT been able to accept that they are a slave and so cannot commit to what they need to do to become the person that they are.
(FYI, I define a sub as a "sexual slave" and a slave as a "sexual slave who does your laundry". That is, one is a slave only in the bedroom while the other is a slave 24/7.)
I no longer have a car so it has become near impossible for me to get to bars or events to try to meet a slave in person. I think I am just going to have to spent a lot of money on taxis to see if I can actually meet a potential slave in person at a club or somewhere.
As I said, this has been over and over again what happens for decades now and I cannot even begin to describe for extremely frustrating and depressing this has become for me.
I have wondered if it is me that is the problem. But I have talked with those who I consider real slaves, those who have served a Masters for years before something ends the relationship (usually the Master moves away and the slave cannot be taken with him) and they have told me I am a Master and not someone who just believes he is.
I'm a smart and clever guy and I have gone far beyond what other Master have done to find a slave -- or even just as a vanilla top trying to find a vanilla bottom for a relationship. I've search in ways that would boggle a lot of guys minds in the efforts and extent I have gone to find someone.
FUCKING HELL.
(I cannot even find an emoticon among the ones here to express how I feel.)
. . .What you described is sadly extremely common.
I am bisexual and have been a Dominant before and I was looking for a submissive woman or man for a decade, and I have basically given up or now have the mentality that vanilla sex, and a vanilla "relationship" is fine.
I found lots of flakes, poseurs, and a lot of fake people who just want to fantasize about me being their dominant or Master but they never actually wanted to really actually ever meet and make this a reality.
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;D
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I'm a Master than has been looking for a "boy" to be my slave for decades now. I am in my early 60s now – and still looking for a slave somewhere between 18-45yo, but would prefer a boy who was in his late 20s or early 30s.
I have been on 4-5 different gay dating/BDSM sites off and on for all those years as well and I have found anyone. Over time I have expanded the range of appearance and even personality to give myself a better chance -- and nothing.
This is what is typical of what happens. In August and September I made a major effort of 3 different sites to find a slave. I have a profile that clearly describes I am looking for a slave, a general appearance, and what my interests and hobbies are. I always include several photos of myself.
In those two months I was likely contacted between 10-20 different guys. Some were outside of my general range, but I still chatted with them so we could get to know each other some before we meet.
I made arrangements to meet about 10-15 of them. I lost count because of what happened -- which was that NOT ONE of them showed up to meet with me as we had planned. In almost all cases they never contacted me to tell me they were not going to come and just stood me up. Then I got ghosted by them and never heard from any one of them again.
The WORST one was a guy in his mid 30s who had previous experience as a slave. He was bi and listed he was looking for either a Master or a Mistress. We talked over a period of two weeks and he expressed repeatedly he was very interesting in being my slave.
The night before we were to meet, I had him call me to confirm he would meet me. He did. The next day, a few hours before we were to meet, he called to say he would be a 1/2 hour late. That was fine.
He did NOT show up. Instead about an hour after he was suppose to show up and checked my email and found a message from him where he said "I need a Mistress! Sorry, it's not your fault." Well, fuck you.
He and I are still on one of the websites I used and he is still looking for a Mistress two months later.
As I said, about 10-15 guys told me they were interested in being my slave, not one showed, not one replied to my attempts to contact them again.
I live in the Greater Boston area of Massachusetts in the USA. There are a large number of universities in this area as well as the fact the my state was the first one to legalize same-sex marriage in the US. Massachusetts has always been very forward when it comes to the rights and acceptance of gay people. There are thousands of openly gay guys around this region.
October was a miserable month for me and I realized toward the end it was because I had spent so much time, energy, and emotion on meeting any one of these guys -- and it was all wasted.
There are a fair number of men who call themselves Masters but are either Doms or actually don't have a fucking clue what Mastery is.
In the same way there are a lot of boys who believe they are slaves, but are subs, or don't know what slavery actually is, or I think in a lot of case have NOT been able to accept that they are a slave and so cannot commit to what they need to do to become the person that they are.
(FYI, I define a sub as a "sexual slave" and a slave as a "sexual slave who does your laundry". That is, one is a slave only in the bedroom while the other is a slave 24/7.)
I no longer have a car so it has become near impossible for me to get to bars or events to try to meet a slave in person. I think I am just going to have to spent a lot of money on taxis to see if I can actually meet a potential slave in person at a club or somewhere.
As I said, this has been over and over again what happens for decades now and I cannot even begin to describe for extremely frustrating and depressing this has become for me.
I have wondered if it is me that is the problem. But I have talked with those who I consider real slaves, those who have served a Masters for years before something ends the relationship (usually the Master moves away and the slave cannot be taken with him) and they have told me I am a Master and not someone who just believes he is.
I'm a smart and clever guy and I have gone far beyond what other Master have done to find a slave -- or even just as a vanilla top trying to find a vanilla bottom for a relationship. I've search in ways that would boggle a lot of guys minds in the efforts and extent I have gone to find someone.
FUCKING HELL.
(I cannot even find an emoticon among the ones here to express how I feel.)
. . .Yep this is far too common, I have on my profile saying I'll reply to all messages, even if I'm not interested, yet still guys don't have the balls to say that I'm not their type, and the few meet ups I have arranged recently, pretty much all had messaged me on the day before saying that they are either sick or whatever and never contacted me again. The best one didn't show up at our meeting place when we supposed to meet, when I messaged him, he said he fell asleep and wants me to go pick him up from where he lives, which is not too far away from the meeting place, I suggested that I'm happy (tho pissed off) to meet him someone near his place as it was a nonplay meet up anyway, but he refused and insisted that I should go pick him up and come back to the place we were supposed to be meeting in the first place. At that point I was annoyed as hell and went back home, and this guy didn't find his behaviour inappropriate by the slightest, and said "If someone cannot come and pick me up when I tell them to, it makes me feel suspicious about meeting them anyway" yeah, good luck with that, apparently no issue with getting into the car of a complete stranger…....
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Had a few when I lived in Munich.
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Can someone please suggest a good Master / Slave gay community where you can find people for the purpose of establishing such a relationship?
i'm not talking about depiction of BDSM porn. (which I would also like)
I could only find Collarspace. -
I never quite got into it - but does turn me. I think i can be a bit self-centered in bed. And I love being worshiped. One of my ex did just that and i can't quite get over how hot it was - he would worship my dick for hours at a time! it was great.
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I am
sub, bottom, slave, cumdump ,etc ,etc -
yes and I'm a master!
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Can someone please suggest a good Master / Slave gay community where you can find people for the purpose of establishing such a relationship?
i'm not talking about depiction of BDSM porn. (which I would also like)
I could only find Collarspace.There's Recon, and also Fetlife, which isn't exclusively gay or M/s.
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mastar
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Can someone please suggest a good Master / Slave gay community where you can find people for the purpose of establishing such a relationship?
i'm not talking about depiction of BDSM porn. (which I would also like)
I could only find Collarspace.There's Recon, and also Fetlife, which isn't exclusively gay or M/s.
Thanks for these websites.
great!
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