What turns you off during sex?
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Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).
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#1 bad breath ::)
#2 anything with my ear(licking…) :afr:
#3 condoms (of course safe sex always but... :blownose:) -
when we kiss and i can smell and taste cigarette
I've never experienced that but as a prolonged anti-smoking person, I would find that a major turn off.
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This is an interesting topic and something I think every person gay, bi, straight, trans, etc should know what they and their sex partner should like and dislike. Nothing is more off putting than going through the motion and the person you making love starts doing acts that not even you have a box catagory in your mind to fit that into other than "turn off"
Apart from the normal bodily functions we would go through that are sometimes out of our control, I think everything else should be discussed. Lets face it sex isnt the same like it is in porn movies or on tv lol.
I am not into spitting, oral intakes like poppers, drugs, etc (huge turn off for me), or using any vulgar language
I guess I love the emotional connection, intimacy, affection during sex. lol -
I can handle most anything excpet bad breathe, like cigarette breathe.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
any music?
Really ? No music ? Fuck. I rarely do this without to be honest. I have some great sexy-time playlists on spotify and I just love to use them. Plus if you are not at home alone you should totally turn it on. It creates a mood and acts as a barrier between you and your partners noises and other residents
to get hair in my mouth
Really ? This happens so often. It's just a human thing. If a guy is sexy his hair accidently in my mouth doesn't really bother me.
Poppers (…an absolute deal-breaker).
I don't like it too.
Last time the guy used them and it made him so horny.
He asked me if I want and I said "well I might try it". To be honest? It stinks, doesn't do anything for me and just leaves weird feeling in my nose. I don't know. I always have been super drug-invulnerable. Maybe that's why. But it's funny cause the guy was like "ooooh that's so good" and it really pissed me off that he was starting to get more and more excited and played more rough, like wanted me to swallow his whole dick. And I don't really like to do it gosh. I have a lot of skills in bed. REALLY. But one I don't is definitely a deep throat. I just want to vomit so I can't hold the whole dick for a lot of time in my mouth. And he really pushed it. It such a turn off for me when a guy is so pushy and invasive and stuff. I don't find it cool, maybe because I'm kind of more romantic person. I enjoyed my bf fucking the shit out of me, but I guess I just prefer taking time with sex. Doing it for hours with music, candles and taking care of every part of the body and when I fuck I can fuck really quick. One guy really expected a good hard fuck from me so I gave it to him but didn't really enjoy it. I'm definitely not for boredom in bed. Hell no. But I just like the intimacy and slow tempo over harshness, roughness and vulgarism. -
- Trying to kiss the guy while his mouth is wide open, like he's yawning or something.
- Groaning words, such as "ahh yeah that's so good" or "mm just like that". No.
- Rushing through foreplay.
- When the other person doesn't move. Like, are you dead?
- Poor personal hygiene, obviously.
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mechanical sex.
whether it's guys just fucking and showing absolutely no signs of enjoying the sex, being mute and doing mechanical moves so I have a feeling I'm having sex with a robot, and I feel like a blow-up doll.
or contrary - guys who talk too much. there are very few guys who can pull if off because it sounds spontaneous and natural, but in most cases it sounds as fake as plots in porn movies. just be natural, is it that hard?
oh, I also hate when guy is too careful and worries about anything, so most of the sex is like "oh are you fine, oh did I hurt you, is it fine if I kiss you, is it fine if I do this or that…" just do it for fucks sake, and be spontaneous and passionate. or should I come with a script next time and give it to you in advance so you know exactly what to do and in which order...
so the point is - don't hold back, do what you like, the worst thing that can happen is that I say "sorry, I don't enjoy this or that" and don't make a fuss about it - just continue doing other things. I also don't like when I try something and I see the guy isn't enjoying it but he fakes it and says nothing... the point is to enjoy the sex, so let's just be spontaneous, let each other know what we do or don't enjoy and in a short period of time it will come clear what each of us likes and we'll stick to those things which we both enjoy and that's the only way to have a great sex.
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I hate it when at the cumshot scene when the guy prepares to shoot his load onto someone's face, they act as if they're afraid of the cum like it's poison or something gross…. they're supposedly waiting for the cum with open mouth while the top jerking his cock, then when he shoots they close their mouth and try to avoid it.
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What turns me off:
- Guys that are high on whatever drug and, as a result, have the attention span of a flea.
- Guys at a sex party who "break the vibe" of the situation with loud casual conversation.'
- Guys who don't know how to "set a mood" for good sex to happen (like opening every drape at high noon and having CNN blaring on the tv!)
- The slightest smell of poop.
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When he's in a hurry.
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When he's in a hurry.
Ohhh. Hate it too. I spotted it in a lot of people lately.
One guy was rimming me like 5 minutes after starting kissing. And I was like "whaaa…whaa...whaaaaa. wait and get the fuck out i'm a top" as he was trying to get his dick in me. The other guy went like through 30 positions of kamasutra in 10 minutes xD That was funny too. I'm always like "hey, we have all night why rush? it's cool like this. let's pay attention to every little detail on our body". That's why I also don't like poppers and guys on poppers. Generally drugs. I just don't see the point. I loved it with my ex that we were doing it without anything - only music. No drinks, no smoking, no sex toys, no drugs, no fetish. We were getting along amazingly and still could have one sex for a few hours. We were just pasionate for each other. That's how it's supposed to be I guess. -
Ive pretty much ended random sex simply because too many things are unpredictable with it. I hated guys who tended to be in a rush, who thought spitting and biting and spanking would be a turn on for me. Bad breath and any sort of drugs. Bad kissers, and even worse - the non-kissers. (Always wondered how they would willingly put my dick in their mouth but not my tongue!) And of course, the constant underlying fear of a possible STD. My partner and I are in an open relationship by mutual agreement because we live in different cities, but neither of us really looks for anyone new, and save up sex for when we are together. Sex with him is great simply because we know exactly what the other wants. Looking forward to retirement together.
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answering the phone
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answering the phone
You think so?
Me and my ex were 8 hours drive apart. We rented an apartment for the night in the capital halfway.
Haha when we got there we couldn't keep hands of each other and then after few hours of sex the owner called me and my bf was like "answer it! answer it and I will suck your dick and let's see if you can keep focus" that crazy sexy mother fucker… -
That my partner stays still without saying anything.
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a bad kisser can turn me off pretty quickly.
My ultimate dream man could come from heaven itself.. if he cannot kiss then nope.. it is done - kissing is like the catalyst for everything, for me.
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Bad personal hygiene!
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Bad kisser def. So many guys think that just sticking their tongue out qualifies as kissing…no
Also, a guy I was with the other night farted during sex...that didn't do too much for me either. Ugh FML.
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poppers… and other drugs, even if i never fucked with someone with other drugs... (exception to alcool and cigarettes :love:)
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