Not Yet Out - What to do?
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Haven't told my current team. I figure it may be better later on, but still not planning to say anything about it at this point.
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I was annoyed with my friends asking me about girls, so I told them directly, in quite a natural way. I guess they somehow expected it.
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Can't speak to what you should do, but I've been in the similar situation.
I just thanked them and told them I really wasn't interested.
I wouldn't lie about another type of girl, or date them just to fit in. I feel two things (a) I need to be true to myself and not lie about who I am; and; (b) my sex life isn't really an acceptable topic of discussion. I don't need to be confrontational about it, but direct the conversation in another direction.
Just my tuppence
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What happened to the ''thanks, but mind your own business'' choice?
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just be like :cheesy2:
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Haven't told my current team. I figure it may be better later on, but still not planning to say anything about it at this point.
How did things eventually turn out?
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Just tell them you like guys. Maybe they will hook you up with a dude.
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Maybe if a friend is pushing some girl onto your way you could say…She's not really my type, but you look jummy
I still think that at least normal parents should know. Not because they need to know, but because home should be a safe place that you could come to. Well in ideal world at least. I'm not the one who should even be allowed to give opinion as I'm straight, but I still just want you guys to have a normal life like others can -
im not out yet.
i dont know if my friends suspect anything.
i ve been never in that hypothetical situation before.
so: my reaction would be "i am currently not interested in a relationship, i have not thought about that recently." -
I can tell you how I saw my cousin when he wasn't out yet. At least I didn't know yet. He was always saying he would never spent money for women so I just thought he was cheap or something. But beside that I didn't think he was weird or anything. He was just my little cousin. Not that little now, but I still see him in my mind like he was at 5 and 9. Always asking granpa to give him wine to drink. Didn't see anything strange that he didn't have girlfriend yet. One other cousin didn't have a girlfriend untill he was probably 30. Maybe he did, but I never met one and that wasn't strange either.
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