Is it possible to abstain from sex for a certain period of time?

Eridanos

Sex is fun, yes…

BUT SEX ISN'T LIFE. SEX IS A PART OF LIFE.

Indeed you can be without sex for a long period of time. Last time I had sex I was 19, I'm 31 now, I'm just starting to have sex again.

From your short paragraph I might dare to say (and please don't feel offended) that you migt have a sex addiction, as you say your sexual encounters leave you out of focus and are interfering with your career. You said it: 'I often fail to do other things'.

Staying without sex is definitively doable, but in the rare case you feel the need to unload with another person (is not the same as just wanking off),and you stray from your 'no-sex' goal you might feel guilty and that would hurt you in the long run.

I would advice you try to analyze WHY sex makes you put other things on stand by, so you can learn to rule your urges instead of them ruling you. That way you might not even need to quit sex at all! Meditate about it and maybe ask professional help.

Best wishes and all my support to you. :3 :hug2:

DamaDama

of course it is.I haven't done it for 6 months now, i miss it to tell you the truth, but i don't really care at the end of the day

gaypraha2

I did it with three guys in one month (that's my personal record). I felt like a slut afterwards

when I was from 18-25 I would do 3 guys in a row from early evening to night time I never felt like a slut but more like an horny bitch and that was fine with me Now I'm old last time I has sex was humm may 2013 I guess. I dont even miss it but I had so much sex between 18-25 I guess I'm set for the rest of my life

JohnEryn

@gaypraha2:

I did it with three guys in one month (that's my personal record). I felt like a slut afterwards

when I was from 18-25 I would do 3 guys in a row from early evening to night time I never felt like a slut but more like an horny bitch and that was fine with me Now I'm old last time I has sex was humm may 2013 I guess. I dont even miss it but I had so much sex between 18-25 I guess I'm set for the rest of my life

Well, nice for you then…

hhsq

Well… I only have sex once every 2 or 3 months, and it's not a big deal to me. So... it is quite possible.

MulderYuffie

not possible for me.

alrey

Thanks for the responses. Perhaps all I can do for now is to limit my sex encounters to 1 per week. I just can't imagine my penis to be in my pants in those whole two quarters while there are a lot of asses hungry for it. It wouldn't hurt to at least have fun in a week, would it? Hehe.

raphjd

If you hate sex, then get married. Problem solved. :blownose:

dzirlo

@Eridanos:

Last time I had sex I was 19, I'm 31 now, I'm just starting to have sex again.

why is that? :blink:

and why life or sex? why not both?

if sex distracts you so much, maybe you just use sex as an excuse to avoid your responsibilities?

i did that in one period, but i was aware of that. i just couldn't help the urge, and i was stuck in a life of obligations i didn't want to have anymore, so yeah… there goes my slut marathon. :-X

anyway, enjoy it while it lasts, u won't be able to have a choice whether to have sex of not forever

obras62

Like anything in life, moderation is the key.
Overeating, drinking too much, shopping, exercise, etc. all of these things and more can consume your life; a little bit at a time is okay but not to overindulge.
At least at this moment you realize that it is a distraction; do something about it.
BTW, most guys think about sex all the time we just don't do it so much.

I'm in a relationship that has been going through some problems and we haven't had sex in 1.5 years. We sleep together naked and kiss a little bit but the sexual act hasn't been done. It is a long story that I don't want to share here but I think in time things will change as the love between us is strong.
Sex is not the whole purpose of being alive.

Good luck in finding your way.

samiderwish

yes

beau

yes, I believe that.

samiderwish

yes