Public Restroom Cruising

hhsq

Cruising in bathrooms (and anywhere else, actually) is still a thing in my country.

motri

so if cruising in parks etc. still exists and if you get caught there u still risk being registered as a sex offender?

i thought that's only for convicted pedophiles and serious sex crimes.

i think it applies to anyone involved as long as it involves nudity to an extent and being in public. it also depends on which state you are in.

pornofan

I believe public masturbation is legal in Italy so long as there are no minors around. And nudity seems to be legal in San Francisco. Sex on the beach has been known to happen, but in Florida, a hetero couple was recently arrested and prosecuted for doing that. The US is still a very highly repressive society– "land of the free" my ass! -- and is about to become a genuine nightmare.

Bathrooms were often the only place a strait closeted man could find what he wanted, so to that extent, there are other options in the privacy of one's own computer world. But anywhere you can see men wag their willies is likely to be a place where there will be spectators and more.

For one tiny example of how things stand nationally, however, note that the person about to be in charge of public education wants to END it completely and, in any case, put a lot more Bible and Christianity in the curriculum where, I suppose, Satanic stuff like astronomy and geology and biology used to be.

In the news this week was one local school district banning a couple of books, the usual suspects, and some agent for the one true god explaining that men and women of 18 (the US age of consent) should NOT be reading about ick sex. And no, they did not mean kids should stop wasting time and just get on with it....

Tea rooms, cottaging, whatever it is called is, like sex in your own bedroom in Texas, likely to get you arrested and even a comparatively enlightened city like Los Angeles had cops going out to entrap otherwise innocent men by waving their dicks and coming onto them in public bathrooms. That was in THIS century.

And incoming US vice president Pence has, while a US Senator, tried to get Aids funding diverted to bogus re-orientation classes. Such is the level of endarkenment that we are on the verge of.

Be very wary.

erich214

Still happens in Toronto!

obras62

@hhsq:

Cruising in bathrooms (and anywhere else, actually) is still a thing in my country.

Wish I knew that when I was there. I am going again in February, I'll have to check it out.
I do know that Brazilians in general are more open sexually, not so many hangups.
Thanks

ilmodello

dunno

detroiticus

It still very much exists- you just have to know where.

luciuswuff

@dzirlo:

well that's so sad.

so if cruising in parks etc. still exists and if you get caught there u still risk being registered as a sex offender?

i thought that's only for convicted pedophiles and serious sex crimes.

No, you can get on the sex offender registry for the dumbest shit. Underage teens sending nudes to each other, drunk guys pissing in public… Just because someone is on that list, it doesn't mean they actually did anything.

samiderwish

realy i dont know that

johnsmithaft

I've had my fair share of cruising but no story~ Nothing happened but I still love showing off at my neighbourhood swimming complex shower room. I've had men do a slow body scan and I purposefully spin around and close my eyes so they'd think I'm not noticing~

hhsq

@obras62:

@hhsq:

Cruising in bathrooms (and anywhere else, actually) is still a thing in my country.

Wish I knew that when I was there. I am going again in February, I'll have to check it out.
I do know that Brazilians in general are more open sexually, not so many hangups.
Thanks

People say that a lot… but I think that's more of a myth. Europeans are so much more open sexually, in my experience.
The problem with Brazilians in general is that we don't really know what we want... if we want to be an eternal carnival party with open sex or if we want to be a puritan moralist christian theocracy (I believe this contradiction is at a tie at the moment)... so, yeah... if you get lucky you will find sexually open people, but I warn you that you might end up being judged and being called a slut.

samiderwish

I think if guys do have sex in a bathroom or public washroom or whatever, they already know each other and they are just doing it for the thrill of it.

erich214

Happens. Just have to know where to look. >:D

hhsq

@samiderwish:

I think if guys do have sex in a bathroom or public washroom or whatever, they already know each other and they are just doing it for the thrill of it.

Not necessarily. As I said, around here where I live, many closeted guys look for casual/random annonymous sex in bathrooms. Really, A LOT of guys!

mufum69

There used to be a ton of washrooms in Toronto that were known for cruising but eventually, after many complaints and probably a ton of busts they installed cameras. I'm sure it still happens but most people have moved to parks and probably just use apps to seek each other out, then go to a restaurant washroom where they can lock up and be safe.
Been years since i've been cruised in washrooms in T.O.

Now that I've moved to a small town I can see no place where any of this can happen. Unless your into hooking up with truck drivers and want to hang out on the highway 20 miles out of town.

giovase

Here in Argentine there exist some gas station's bathrooms in which actually happen alot. And its really so fucking hot to just looking at some mature man with a hardon in his hands.

samiderwish

in opera bathroom !!

boxingclever

you'll find it in certain high traffic areas. i've definitely heard of entrapment within the US, i.e. george michael, so it's best to be careful and not too obvious about it.
in australia, there isn't that much they can do about it unless they're a cop or they catch you in the act.

bare4bear

I heard there's a really cruisey bathroom at O'Hare Airport in Chicago.
There is a website out there, not sure if I can post it or not. If not, just edit this comment mr kind moderator sir.
But check out squirt dot org for finding nearby cruising locations

Domosuke

@bare4bear:

I heard there's a really cruisey bathroom at O'Hare Airport in Chicago.
There is a website out there, not sure if I can post it or not. If not, just edit this comment mr kind moderator sir.
But check out squirt dot org for finding nearby cruising locations

Please don't go to any of the places listed on squirt or any other site.

What do you think are the places the vice cops first check? Those places listed online.

I had no idea what squirt was until I was at a place that was listed on squirt.

I wasn't even cruising (I was just fooling around) somewhere, and this cop detained me and said this is a high cruising spot for guys on squirt.

So please don't.