Sleeping with married men IS NOT OKAY.
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it may not be right, but it's not like sleeping with married people is exclusive to the gay community.
I think only sleeping with married men is pretty much exclusive to gays.
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I too don't understand why it's such a 'fetish' in our community. I find it appalling. The lying, cheating and disrespect just because a guy can't be honest and upfront.
It says a lot about men and our community in general. And no wonder stereotypes occur.
Just because sex is readily available doesn't mean a person should have sex with a person who is in a committed and monogamous relationship. If you are going to cheat, tell your partner or leave the relationship. Be a man, no be a human being and be upfront.
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I cannot understand gay men's obsession with straight men!!!! Why do we pine for something that obviously is not attracted to us? Is it the allure of something we can never really have? Is it that weird obsession with only wanting to be used as a hole for straight dick? Don't tear apart these marriages unless you are absolutely sure that its over! and Don't lie to yourself either. I know this may be a little off topic and personal preference but have you seen gay porn with straight men??? It is the most uncomfortable concoction of boredom, one or both of the guys obviously not interested in who's fucking or who their fucking, I'd rather watch something that had flare and excitement when two gay men who are attracted to each other fuck. Not that Johnny Rapid Bullshit where he literally makes the same face every time he gets fucked, obviously faking it. Leave it alone guys there are enough hot gay men out there, leave the straights to their procreation.
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Morally speaking it's despicable, there's no discussion ::)
As a personal opinion
If your friend is making the first move, well he shouldn't.
Otherwise I would be a liar saying I won't accept that proposal >:DMy philosophy is be honest with yourself and with the others,
do what you feel comfortable doing, don't judge and let's see.admitting that's a bit selfish
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I don't like cheating neither. But I'm more radical bc I don't even like to talk with guys that already have boyfriends, not even if they only do it “as a friend”. As soon as they tell me “I'm not single”, I say “Bye”. It's rude, I'm perfectly aware of that. But I simply don't feel comfortable talking with guys in a relationship and I certainly would never fuck a man knowingly that he's already attached. I think that only the swingers who follow the needs of their asses/dicks all the time, are those that do it without thinking about the harm that they make.
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
both true and deeply sad/bleak
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A guy I know is in the closet and he prefers having sex with married men because he knows they are more secretive and so it's less likely he'll be found out. Some gay guys are actually pretty vindictive.
both true and deeply sad/bleak
Agreed, everytime I was approached or contacted by some guy who later presented himself as married I found myself asking him:
- What would your wife think about this?
- She does not have a clue.
- Yeah, sure, whatever. ::)
That double life, I cannot understandt it, really, I fail everytime I tried.
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in my humble opinion, one should NOT get involved with a married man.Even if he wants him and find him attractive,one must not so not do this.Even if someone is not emotional and all and does not care and does one-night stands he shouldn't.
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Honestly I don't believe in relationships with closeted married men.
Because in this case there might be an innocent third party that might be harmed (kids, a truly unknowing wife). In this case, the married man and the one who cheats with are just narcissistic pricks.
Regarding the OP's post his friend seems to actually ONLY SLEEP WITH married men. In this case it seems more like an unhealthy fixation that goes beyond the harmless fetish area.
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I would never ask a guy if he is married. Not my business.
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I always put in on the married party because after all, they're the ones who took vows so if I sleep with a married man, it's on him, not me. I took no vows to be faithful. That said, I think it varies from person to person and marriage to marriage.
I can imagine circumstances where it is ok to sleep with someone who is married. That doesn't mean it's always okay, but it also doesn't mean it's always wrong.
When you're talking about things as complicated and complex as human relationships, absolutes won't get you very far.
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