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NoFap is ridiculous Puritan bunk!
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4 to 5 times a day? Sounds like someone has an extremely high sexual appetite. Theres nothing wrong with that just don't let it rule your life like you need to take time out of doing other things to masturbate.
This a good advice, certainly!
Sometimes I feel like I could do different things with my free time instead of jerking off always. I use to read a lot before, and nowadays I almost do it just for a duty and not for pleasure. I use to write some short stories too, and I left that too saying to myself that no one of those writings worth anything… So yeah. I feel like a rabbit just thinking in sex in my free time.
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I've always gone with the philosophy of simply doing it when I felt like it, and it's always worked for me. I never choose to not do something productive or fun socially so I can jerk off instead (frankly, I can do it quickly if I need to and get it out of the way).
Do it when you need to. Stop worrying about it, bud.
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I've always gone with the philosophy of simply doing it when I felt like it, and it's always worked for me. I never choose to not do something productive or fun socially so I can jerk off instead (frankly, I can do it quickly if I need to and get it out of the way).
Do it when you need to. Stop worrying about it, bud.
The funny thing is that I don't really feel the need of jerking off until I see a little bit of porn. So, it's not the same as feeling hungry or something. If I don't see two handsome guys kissing each other or more, nothing happens.
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When I was in high school, I remembered had this challenge, no jerking at all as long as its possible (but I don't really remember why I did it, guilty feeling, cold, idk). So, I crossed the date on my calendar with red marker every morning. The first week its the worst, but after a month it was almost felt like 'usual' (no need or feeling of jerking anymore).
But, it broke eventually after about 2.5 months of red crossing my calendar. Learning from that experience, I was probably on my unsecured state as my teenage world overcome me. Now, jacking off is one of sexual lifestyle, which mean I don't think that I could live without jacking for a long time. I do it because I need it, that's part when I feel free.
Just sharing an experience here.
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When I was in high school, I remembered had this challenge, no jerking at all as long as its possible (but I don't really remember why I did it, guilty feeling, cold, idk). So, I crossed the date on my calendar with red marker every morning. The first week its the worst, but after a month it was almost felt like 'usual' (no need or feeling of jerking anymore).
But, it broke eventually after about 2.5 months of red crossing my calendar. Learning from that experience, I was probably on my unsecured state as my teenage world overcome me. Now, jacking off is one of sexual lifestyle, which mean I don't think that I could live without jacking for a long time. I do it because I need it, that's part when I feel free.
Just sharing an experience here.
And do you always do it while seeing porn or do you like to fantasize yourself from time to time?
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The funny thing is that I don't really feel the need of jerking off until I see a little bit of porn.
Well, you're a guy, like all of us. It's normal for us to be "triggered" with visuals. The only answer I have for you is a return question … so what?
So what? What difference does it make if the visual lights the fire inside of you? The day that I no longer got horny by watching two handsome men kissing ... mark that day as the one in which I want to stop living. Why does it matter what starts the process rolling? Some people need to bring something to read (or their phones) into the bathroom in order to relax enough to have a bowel movement, too ... does that mean the outside stimulus is "unnatural" and should be avoided? Or ... does it mean, that it's simply an aid to help trigger your body's natural responses in order to do something healthy and good for yourself?
I think that our wild(er) male ancestors were genetically programmed to be that way, triggered by what they see, because everywhere they looked ... there were sexually appealing partners, nude or in loincloths. Without organized religion and judgemental overseers that made all sorts of arbitrary cultural rules surrounding sex, I'm willing to bet sexual openness was a lot less dramatic, too (as in, if you look to your left, you'll see a couple "doing it" with no shame). To be turned on by what's taken in by your eyeballs was simply the shortest evolutionary route to making sure that the male gender was going to be as cum-ready as possible. If your species' survival depends on men with boners, how are your eventual genes going to learn how to trigger said boners? Probably ... when you visually recognize a situation in which you would get to actually USE that boner. :laugh:
Bottom line, when you do finally nab that cute boyfriend, his live, warm presence ... the sight of him naked in front of you, the smells of him, the sound of him, the sensation of him, is going to be the best "porn" of your life. Using porn to jerk off with is not a reason for you to worry -- you're not ruining yourself. Again, I promise you this -- I've had sexual partners from both genders in my lifetime (actually, even a FTM transgender), and I continue to enjoy porn alone (or even with my partners, if we both want to watch a little). I was always able to meet the need of the moment, even if I had fapped twice the night before to something on my computer. It's a non-factor.
In fact, my firm habit of making sure I cum at least once a day, and not fighting myself over it if I feel like more, is part of why I can do that. My testicle-testosterone-cum-factory is in healthy working condition, because I've exercised it enough to keep it that way (in my early 30s now). I can fap or fuck live any day I want to. This isn't a bad thing, friend.
I'm also not saying that I'm just a free-loving slut, either. I want monogamous love, just like you do, and I've had it before. I actually haven't had sex in over a year, because I'm recovering from a heartbreak ... but I'm about over it and ready to get back out there. No sex doesn't mean I stop cumming, though. I absolutely will NOT give up jerking off. I just don't worry about it if I'm meeting my sexual needs without shame in the interim moments.
Here's a couple of fun articles on what our closest genetic relatives, bonobo chimpanzees, act like to keep social balance and psychological happiness in their little tribes (hint: the key is lots of sexual venting, and lots of that sex is actually what we would call "gay").
https://psmag.com/bonobos-have-lots-of-sex-are-awesome-may-hold-key-to-our-past-d89e75f7d5a3#.j4w83hnwu
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/bonobo-sex-and-society-2006-06/And a video to a documentary on our sexuality, in which bonobos are mentioned:
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And do you always do it while seeing porn or do you like to fantasize yourself from time to time?
When I was in high school, its hard to find porn, so fantasize was the best scenario. Now, I'm jerking off while watching some porn about 2 times a week.
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The funny thing is that I don't really feel the need of jerking off until I see a little bit of porn.
Bottom line, when you do finally nab that cute boyfriend, his live, warm presence … the sight of him naked in front of you, the smells of him, the sound of him, the sensation of him, is going to be the best "porn" of your life.
Well, I kind of know this from experience, bc even when I only had three bfs till now (now all ex's, of course), when I was with each one of them, I didn't even need to jerk off bc their kisses and hugs were all I wanted. The only thing that I regret to not doing it so much is cuddling, bc with my first bf I had the best beauty sleep while I was in his arms.
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And do you always do it while seeing porn or do you like to fantasize yourself from time to time?
When I was in high school, its hard to find porn, so fantasize was the best scenario. Now, I'm jerking off while watching some porn about 2 times a week.
Oh ok. Nice
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JohnEhrn
Please don't think that your short stories are not worth anything… I know this might sound weird but if you try to write down some of the sexual scenarios that you think of, and then fantasise about that instead of porn ; it might be really good.
All d best
Jack
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JohnEhrn
Please don't think that your short stories are not worth anything… I know this might sound weird but if you try to write down some of the sexual scenarios that you think of, and then fantasise about that instead of porn ; it might be really good.
All d best
Jack
I guess that I could try someday.
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I've always gone with the philosophy of simply doing it when I felt like it, and it's always worked for me. I never choose to not do something productive or fun socially so I can jerk off instead (frankly, I can do it quickly if I need to and get it out of the way).
Do it when you need to. Stop worrying about it, bud.
Same here !!
I mean why would i stop watch porn if i want to? , That just takes me back in school when i was young and Teaching me to SHUT MY MOUTH and NOT think about sex OR i'll go to hell .Couldn't WAIT to see my First Dick other than mine . !!
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My reasons for jerking off is usually either I'm bored or I'm horny and I think that's most guys right? I do it when I feel like it. But holy crap I don't have the stamina for 4-5 times a day o_o Not judging you btw, maybe I'm not old enough.
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My reasons for jerking off is usually either I'm bored or I'm horny and I think that's most guys right? I do it when I feel like it. But holy crap I don't have the stamina for 4-5 times a day o_o Not judging you btw, maybe I'm not old enough.
Old enough? I don't get it…
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