What feels better, being a bottom or being a top?
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When I had my first sex, my sex partner and I flip-fucked. Since then I've told myself I would never try to bottom again because it hurt as hell. But whenever I stroke my manhood into my sex partners' manhole, I see the ecstasy in their face. The moaning, the begging for more. All these things make me think who gets "more pleasure" during coitus. I really love being a top, but somehow there's some part of me that wants to try bottoming due to the expressions I get from my sex partners. Can you tell, guys, what feels better?
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Obviously whichever you prefer the most will feel better than the other. Or either, if you like it both ways.
If you don't like to be bottom then of course it won't be (as) pleasurable.
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It is preference and I think some find bottoming painful to start but learn how to take a cock better and end up enjoying it. I am 100% top usually due to preference. I have very few and rare dreams of being a bottom.
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They [some, who analize these things] say being a top feels 10/10 and a bottom is more 6/10, but while bottoming one can add additional score with some additional activities: I'll let your fantasy go wild on this one.
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Never try bottoming but I did have try fingering my prostate while jacking off and its feel so amazing
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I´m bottom and I love it, but depends of the partner i guess. On my first time (that was a few months ago) my bf was so lovely that I couldn´t feel pain at all, and he is kinda´ big, lol.
But idk, i like to jerk off… But i cannot imagine myself fucking, lol. -
Why do people seem to treat that as if it had an absolute answer? Which feels better? Well obviously being a top if you are a top and being a bottom if you are a bottom… it looks an obvious answer because it really is that obvious.
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Being a good "top" seems easy for those that are "top", but any bottom guy knows that a good top is the one that makes you feel no pain. Nothing compares to cumming while being fucked in the ass, as nothing compares to fucking one, theyre both great and unique. you wont always find a good top that knows how to keep it painless, steady and pleasurable. Soem guys just go all in, without patience or respect. Those guys you should not let fuck you.
I suggest you try being a bottom: its important to know your body. but first use a dildo. Learn to feel it, to find pleasure with it. When using a dildo use condom, plastic and other materials can have little holes and that way you protect yourself.
I don't think that once you cum as a bottom you won't want to be a top, is not like that, its just good to be able to do it both ways.
Most of the times, no matter who your partnet is, you'll have a wonderful time being on top. To have a wonderful time being bottom you need to be relaxed, with a good patient top.
Dont forget to clean yourself before, that makes me feel a lot more relaxed when someone is eating my ahole. -
Bottoms feel more sensation. But depends on how good the top is.
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I was 100% bottom for quite some time, only because the men I was interested in were usually tops and I'm just an accommodating person that way. I can't really say I ever completely enjoyed it. In fact, most of the enjoyment came from the fact that I was bringing pleasure to my partner. When I transitioned to top, my sexual adulthood really began!
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Honestly love it both ways sometimes it just depends on the guy too really.
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There are unique pleasures at either position. Some like one over the other- but personally I think if you find enjoyment in both positions then you are really lucky. I never really understood those who would just like to be exclusive top or bottom.
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Each one has unique pros and cons. I guess it depends on the situation and with whom you fuck with.
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