• Categories
    • Recent
    • Tags
    • Popular
    • Users
    • Groups
    • Torrents
    • Login

    How old were you when you came out?

    Scheduled Pinned Locked Moved Coming Out
    61 Posts 54 Posters 43.6k Views 1 Watching
    Loading More Posts
    • Oldest to Newest
    • Newest to Oldest
    • Most Votes
    Reply
    • Reply as topic
    Log in to reply
    This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
    • T Offline
      Tamlin
      last edited by

      14 to friends, class-mates and family, then I was on national telly due to a program on sexuality at the age of 15. No way back in after that, haha

      1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
      • S Offline
        spam17
        last edited by

        @chatnoire:

        26 and not out yet. Not exactly closeted though but I prefer not to say. My parents don't know (or maybe they do but I haven't declared yet to them) but my friends know. My public social media accounts are open to see the followers/friends list which consist of mostly shirtless guys.

        Are they -your social media accounts- really open?

        Are you so comfortable with that?

        1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
        • M Offline
          majestic83
          last edited by

          25  😉

          1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
          • M Offline
            MattiaGC
            last edited by

            I was 19, It wasn't easy

            1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
            • B Offline
              bottom4porn
              last edited by

              Been out to everyone, including my family since I was 13.

              I come from a Macedonian family too, so it wasn't easy, but everyone has accepted me for who I am and my sexual orientation isn't even a subject any more. I'm 28 years old now. I found coming out wasn't the hardest part of being gay, being around other gay guys is the hardest part.

              1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
              • MulderYuffieM Offline
                MulderYuffie
                last edited by

                I guess you could say I never had a closet as everyone in my family basically when I was growing up even as such a young child. I think? I officially came out and told my aunt who raised me when i was 12 but she obviously wasn't shocked as I always talked to her about the hot guys on TV or in person since I was like 6.

                1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                • M Offline
                  mollxa
                  last edited by

                  I came out at 13 years old, When I was 13 years old my friends send me porn site. But I always seen on men penis. and I tried to find the picture of naked male but I found the picture of man who have sex with man.  :cheesy2: It is my way.. hahahah

                  but . when I was 21 I told my mom as I'm gay but, my mom did not belived me !!

                  1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                  • P Offline
                    panpuff
                    last edited by

                    I came out with my friends with 23, but my family not yet… anyway, I think that they already know. I'm 25 now.

                    1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                    • S Offline
                      spam17
                      last edited by

                      @bottom4porn:

                      Been out to everyone, including my family since I was 13.

                      I come from a Macedonian family too, so it wasn't easy, but everyone has accepted me for who I am and my sexual orientation isn't even a subject any more. I'm 28 years old now. I found coming out wasn't the hardest part of being gay, being around other gay guys is the hardest part.

                      :ghug:

                      1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                      • S Offline
                        SemenDemon
                        last edited by

                        For friends, I've always kind of hinted without overtly saying it. I think most of them have taken the hint. I've only plainly told a handful of female friends in the midst of a very unpleasant period where I was crushing hard on a mutual straight friend. I told him eventually. We don't really talk anymore, haha. ::) I came out to one of my sisters in my early 20's. My mom in my early 20's, too. She doesn't seem to "get it". We don't discuss it much. ::)

                        It's basically an open secret with me. I don't really hide it or advertise it, but I don't mind telling people if they ask.

                        1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                        • J Offline
                          jirachiband
                          last edited by

                          I was 15 or 16. I tested the waters by mentioning "I wonder if i'm bisexual." But then I fully came out in therapy. My parents were surprised, and it took a little getting used to, but everything's fantastic now. I'm so proud of how far my parents came.

                          But other than that, I haven't told all my family. On my mom's side, it actually went perfect because my cousin, who is way older than me, came out to my aunt, and my mom was like "Oh Andrew's gay too!" But neither of us have told my uncle, who I really don't know how would react. On my Dad's side I haven't told anyone. My Grandma is still alive and considering I don't really care about that side of the family I thought there was no point in stirring the pot, and possibly jeoperdizing my inheritance. But whenever my grandma is gone i'll probably yell my aunt, uncle and cousins, they're all very liberal so I doubt they would care.

                          1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                          • I Offline
                            inkball
                            last edited by

                            I was 21

                            1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                            • K Offline
                              killerbody14
                              last edited by

                              I was 16

                              1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                              • N Offline
                                noah228
                                last edited by

                                12th grade, so 17?

                                1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                • S Offline
                                  SemenDemon
                                  last edited by

                                  EDIT: I forgot I'd already posted here. 😊
                                  Feel free to delete this post.

                                  1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                  • F Offline
                                    famousbovine
                                    last edited by

                                    I still haven't, haha.  😄

                                    "A witty saying proves nothing."

                                    • Voltaire
                                    1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                    • M Offline
                                      mrgaga
                                      last edited by

                                      I was outed by my 'best friend' when I was 13.. initially I hated her but was thankful that she did it for me. I felt so free!

                                      1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                      • gaypraha2G Offline
                                        gaypraha2
                                        last edited by

                                        I'm not really familiar with " coming out" as gay. When I was 18 I realized I could be attracted by boys as well and started dating some and just talked about it like it's normal because to me that's not even a problem or something strange. So I guess to some friend / sister etc  I said " I met someone and I really like him " "him? so you're gay?" " well probably bi I guess, so what do we eat?" … along these lines and that's about it.

                                        1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                        • H Offline
                                          hugoritz
                                          last edited by

                                          I was 22 and so afraid when I did… but now everything is cool (im 26 btw)

                                          1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                          • S Offline
                                            spam17
                                            last edited by

                                            @hugoritz:

                                            I was 22 and so afraid when I did… but now everything is cool (im 26 btw)

                                            👼

                                            1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0

                                            Hello! It looks like you're interested in this conversation, but you don't have an account yet.

                                            Getting fed up of having to scroll through the same posts each visit? When you register for an account, you'll always come back to exactly where you were before, and choose to be notified of new replies (either via email, or push notification). You'll also be able to save bookmarks and upvote posts to show your appreciation to other community members.

                                            With your input, this post could be even better 💗

                                            Register Login
                                            • 1
                                            • 2
                                            • 3
                                            • 4
                                            • 2 / 4
                                            • First post
                                              Last post