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    Do you only date a certain race or it doesn't matter to you?

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      cannonmc
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      Don't be silly. It is not racist to be attracted to someone of an ethnicity, race, nationality. It is not '-ist' to say you prefer one thing over another. If I like fat Asian twinks or slim mature Africans, it is not racist to say what turns me on.

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        krish1
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        Being sexually attracted to a certain group has nothing to do with racism.

        In my case I have always been more attracted to older, Caucasian men  😊(I'm a brown South Asian)

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          grover59
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          Human with a nice personality.  Caring and flexible in mind.  Other visible attractants are icing on the cake like asian, twink, otter, bare bear…

          grover59

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            KaiX
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            I like all types of attractive men. Having said that though I seem to be more attracted to white and asian men. White because of how society portrays them and brainwashes you and what not and asian because I'm asian haha. I will say I have a REAL soft spot for blue/green eyes though. Mesmerizing.

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              ttwww
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              it doesn't matter to me

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                yinjustin
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                Really doesn't matter, any race could have goodlooking guys.

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                  oliblo
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                  it doesn't matter

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                    adventurer75
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                    @harryme:

                    This is not meant to be racist, but it's your preference. Why?

                    We have no control over the race or gender of people who romantically attract us, which spells hopelessness for pedophiles.  My dick points mainly at white, black or hispanic guys, and this offends certain other people.

                    Whatever force of nature determines who turns us on is a force that can't be ignored and is certainly not personal.  You can't get mad at someone because he's gay, and you're the woman he'll never want; just like you can't get mad at someone who isn't turned on by Asians.  No one's fault.  Go with nature always.

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                      yaet
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                      For some reason, I like races other than mine with black guys on top spot.
                      Ironically, I live in a country where you hardly find races other than Caucasian. 😞

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                        Brasil123
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                        only with ASIANS

                        lol

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                          JACK777
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                          I like to have sex with guys who have a long but narrow dick… 🙂 Perfect for anal. But they must not be total jerks (the men I mean not the dicks). Race doesnt matter. Maybe this makes me a Dick-ist??

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                            nature1490
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                            I noticed I seem to get in relationships mostly with whites, People with strong First Nations genetics (no less than 1/8th), Hispanics, Middle Eastern, and find some Asian groups sexy.  I just have never been attracted sexually to Blacks and real dark skinned Hispanics and Latin American people.  I am certain it is a hidden racial bias in my up bringing.

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                              boyjohn
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                              I'm attracted to mostly white guys but have found a few hispanic to break that rule.  Don't know why that is persay.  Prob just who I was attracted to when I was younger and it never changed.

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                                obras62
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                                It depends on the guy not the race or color of skin

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                                  lookimasian
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                                  For anyone who argues that race-based dating is "just a preference", it's worth watching this:

                                  Youtube Video

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                                    hhsq
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                                    @lookimasian:

                                    For anyone who argues that race-based dating is "just a preference", it's worth watching this:

                                    Youtube Video

                                    Very important! Thanks!

                                    http://hotgayfuzz.tumblr.com/

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                                      hpony0319
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                                      I don't discriminante 🙂  😄

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                                        Bearloch
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                                        Being caucasian,I prefer caucasian first but would never turn down any race if the guy switched the right buttons.I honestly do believe there is a slight fear of other races other than my own but not in a racist way.

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                                          brianboru72
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                                          It's hard to argue against the idea of preferences and for a lot of people it seems race is a huge factor.

                                          But for me it has more often been about personality- the ability to hold a conversation and have a good sense of humor are more important than anything else if I'm looking for a relationship. So I would say race plays less of a factor for me.

                                          Tell someone you love them today, because life is short.
                                          But shout it at them in German, because life is also terrifying and confusing.

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                                            PetShopBoys
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                                            It's not racist or discriminatory to be attracted or unattracted to a certain race. I'm a Black man and I've had guys tell me:

                                            1. "Sorry, I'm just not attracted to Black guys."
                                            And that's okay. Because to be honest, I'm not attracted to Black guys either! They've made no judgment on my race/ethnicity or character as a whole. They're just not attracted to dark skin or African features. And that's 100% okay.

                                            2. "I'd never date a Black guy."
                                            This is usually because of some prejudicial preconceived notion about Black people in general. And that's NOT okay. Not being into Black men is one thing. Being flat out racist is quite another.

                                            That being said, my dating and sexual history is overwhelmingly White. Although just last night, I hooked up with a gorgeous Hispanic guy. I've been attracted to a few Black men and a few Asian men in my life (and various other races) and I certainly will again. But I'm most attracted to White men.

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