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    How many people know you're out?

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      DDAC84
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      I am out to everyone.  :cheers:

      I came out when I was 19 and moved to the UK from South Africa.

      It was very easy for me because I had no family in the UK at the time, So I could be myself, I was here for a few months and then sent an email to all my friends and family back in South Africa telling them I was gay.

      I was very scared but everyone said they didn't care if I was gay or not as long as I was happy.  :love:

      I wondered why the Frisbee was getting bigger, and then it hit me!

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      • Kuchinawa206K Offline
        Kuchinawa206
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        Basically everyone that needs to know, knows it. My family, my friends… I don't exactly parade it around and tell every single person ever but if someone were to ask I'd of course be honest. So I guess I'm out to everyone

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          whasthisfo
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          The people I'm close to all know. My general rule is that I don't bring it up unless it's relevant to the conversation, but I don't lie about it - so if someone asks why/when I'll get a girlfriend, I tell them, and if someone asks if I'm seeing anybody, I tell them. Really,, if someone asks and it's not in the context of, say, a bunch of skinheads about to punch my lights out, I'm going to answer truthfully.

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            spam17
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            @whasthisfo:

            The people I'm close to all know. My general rule is that I don't bring it up unless it's relevant to the conversation, but I don't lie about it - so if someone asks why/when I'll get a girlfriend, I tell them, and if someone asks if I'm seeing anybody, I tell them. Really,, if someone asks and it's not in the context of, say, a bunch of skinheads about to punch my lights out, I'm going to answer truthfully.

            It's good that you don't lie about it!

            ;D

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              horyna
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              I don't hide being gay, everybody knows. I left it to my sisters to tell their children themselves but that is more a thing of being lazy.  ;D

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                spam17
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                @horyna:

                I don't hide being gay, everybody knows. I left it to my sisters to tell their children themselves but that is more a thing of being lazy.  ;D

                Lazy to your young relatives?

                :blink:

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                  Talisin
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                  Nearly Everyone I talk to frequently knows im a flaming Homosexual, I dont have any reasons to hide it, Which I am eternally grateful for.

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                    eastonkellan
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                    All like family, friends, co-employees

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                      majestic83
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                      some friends.

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                        captcha
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                        My family and some friends. But if I could go back I wouldn't tell anyone.

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                          sintor
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                          Only two for now, one is gay one is pansexual. We came out to eachother  :crazy2:

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                            spam17
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                            @sintor:

                            Only two for now, one is gay one is pansexual. We came out to eachother  :crazy2:

                            Do you mean something more than bi by using the term pansexual??

                            😕

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                              soulboy87
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                              Probably 70-80% of the people I know. I'm not closetted or anything, I just don't talk about it if it's never brought up.

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                                Gman2034
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                                Just me, but lately I think they suspect something, cause I find it hard to hide it. So many great looking guys around  :crazy2: But If anyone knows, it's gonna ba a nightmare

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                                  warpaint
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                                  Why? Where are you from?

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                                    foreco
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                                    didnt count but close circle knows…

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                                      spam17
                                      last edited by

                                      @Gman2034:

                                      Just me, but lately I think they suspect something, cause I find it hard to hide it. So many great looking guys around  :crazy2: But If anyone knows, it's gonna ba a nightmare

                                      :cry2:

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                                        beastrouen
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                                        My family and gay friends,but I regret talking to my family -_-

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                                          marlolir
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                                          All my friends and my close family 🙂

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                                            thebartender
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                                            Guy's who I have dated/hooked up with.
                                            A few colleagues (who became close friends) and some close friends.
                                            I love my wardrobe  ;D

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