How many people know you're out?
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Only my family doesn't know I'm gay, so that's a huge percent of people I know who are aware of my orientation: around 85% give or take.
It's still hard for me to tell my family, because the moment I do, I'd be forced out of the house. Or shot at. I remember the last time there was a hint of gayness I showed. And the one guy appreciating another excuse is bullshit to my mother's ears.
So yeah, that's a debbie downer. But hey, when I move out, I can be at ease with myself.
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Only my family doesn't know I'm gay, so that's a huge percent of people I know who are aware of my orientation: around 85% give or take.
It's still hard for me to tell my family, because the moment I do, I'd be forced out of the house. Or shot at. I remember the last time there was a hint of gayness I showed. And the one guy appreciating another excuse is bullshit to my mother's ears.
So yeah, that's a debbie downer. But hey, when I move out, I can be at ease with myself.
:cry2:
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I am out to everyone. :cheers:
I came out when I was 19 and moved to the UK from South Africa.
It was very easy for me because I had no family in the UK at the time, So I could be myself, I was here for a few months and then sent an email to all my friends and family back in South Africa telling them I was gay.
I was very scared but everyone said they didn't care if I was gay or not as long as I was happy. :love:
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Basically everyone that needs to know, knows it. My family, my friends… I don't exactly parade it around and tell every single person ever but if someone were to ask I'd of course be honest. So I guess I'm out to everyone
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The people I'm close to all know. My general rule is that I don't bring it up unless it's relevant to the conversation, but I don't lie about it - so if someone asks why/when I'll get a girlfriend, I tell them, and if someone asks if I'm seeing anybody, I tell them. Really,, if someone asks and it's not in the context of, say, a bunch of skinheads about to punch my lights out, I'm going to answer truthfully.
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The people I'm close to all know. My general rule is that I don't bring it up unless it's relevant to the conversation, but I don't lie about it - so if someone asks why/when I'll get a girlfriend, I tell them, and if someone asks if I'm seeing anybody, I tell them. Really,, if someone asks and it's not in the context of, say, a bunch of skinheads about to punch my lights out, I'm going to answer truthfully.
It's good that you don't lie about it!
;D
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I don't hide being gay, everybody knows. I left it to my sisters to tell their children themselves but that is more a thing of being lazy. ;D
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I don't hide being gay, everybody knows. I left it to my sisters to tell their children themselves but that is more a thing of being lazy. ;D
Lazy to your young relatives?
:blink:
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Nearly Everyone I talk to frequently knows im a flaming Homosexual, I dont have any reasons to hide it, Which I am eternally grateful for.
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All like family, friends, co-employees
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some friends.
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My family and some friends. But if I could go back I wouldn't tell anyone.
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Only two for now, one is gay one is pansexual. We came out to eachother :crazy2:
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Only two for now, one is gay one is pansexual. We came out to eachother :crazy2:
Do you mean something more than bi by using the term pansexual??
![😕](https://community.gaytor.rent/assets/plugins/nodebb-plugin-emoji/emoji/apple/1f615.png?v=57695cee877 ":-\")
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Probably 70-80% of the people I know. I'm not closetted or anything, I just don't talk about it if it's never brought up.
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Just me, but lately I think they suspect something, cause I find it hard to hide it. So many great looking guys around :crazy2: But If anyone knows, it's gonna ba a nightmare
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Why? Where are you from?
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didnt count but close circle knows…
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Just me, but lately I think they suspect something, cause I find it hard to hide it. So many great looking guys around :crazy2: But If anyone knows, it's gonna ba a nightmare
:cry2:
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My family and gay friends,but I regret talking to my family -_-
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