Is it wrong to be with a male cousin?

phrere

I don't think it's wrong at all, but it's not the smartest idea to mix a familial relationship and sex. I'm assuming your talking about casual sex and not actually having a relationship with your cousin, and in my experience casual sex has a tendency to blow up in someones face. There's also the chance of someone finding out, and is the drama really worth fooling around with your cousin.

If your talking about starting a relationship with your male cousin, I still don't think it's wrong, but keep in mind if your prepared for societies and your families views on the relationship, no point in starting it if it's just going to be too much for you or your cousin to handle.

wesleyrayne

@phrere:

I don't think it's wrong at all, but it's not the smartest idea to mix a familial relationship and sex. I'm assuming your talking about casual sex and not actually having a relationship with your cousin, and in my experience casual sex has a tendency to blow up in someones face. There's also the chance of someone finding out, and is the drama really worth fooling around with your cousin.

If your talking about starting a relationship with your male cousin, I still don't think it's wrong, but keep in mind if your prepared for societies and your families views on the relationship, no point in starting it if it's just going to be too much for you or your cousin to handle.

totally agree!

eloyneto

I don't think it's wrong at all. Incest is only between 1st degree family, brothers and sisters or parents. Cousin is fine as long as you both want to have a relationship.

amicusets

All that matters is how you and he feel about it. I do hope you take into account that if things go badly future events could be awkward.

kwyjibo

@dknasty:

I know its family but if we're not having kids, is it really that bad?

The reason straight people consider it wrong is because it produces genetically aberrant offspring. Once placed under scrutiny, this taboo doesn't make much sense when applied to gay pairings. What's the difference between two unrelated gay men having a loving relationship and two gay male cousins having a loving relationship? If nobody knew they were related, there would be no difference. No offspring are created. If they were the last two people on Earth, would it matter?

spam17

@amicusets:

All that matters is how you and he feel about it. I do hope you take into account that if things go badly future events could be awkward.

I would agree with that!

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Natakote

Really hard topic to be honest, but I wouldn't say it's wrong to be with a cousin (in any way). ;D

bimarriedguy

There has been incest all throughout history and ages ago it seemed pretty acceptable. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with it, as long as offspring aren't being produced as a result. It's just our societal mindset these days that makes it unfavorable/looked down on. Go for it and enjoy yourself. You get one life to live.

eastonkellan

Don't be offended by my reply, but aren't there any male species within your perimeter (classm8s not related to you, gym buddies and the likes), male cousin would be your last resort and not the one and only option

yababylol

Nope. I'd go so far as to say as please take notes, write an erotic memoir afterwards, and if you're willing … pics and videos. ;D

... I'm a perv, though.

wesleyrayne

im infatuated with my 26 year old cousin, hes to die for, so i hope its not a problem to perv a little bit

JACK777

Noone can really judge what is right or wrong; they do that but they shouldn't. If you want to be in a relationship and you both feel the same way it would be quite difficult to reconcile your family to the idea. The only option in this case seems moving somewhere where you can live your lives as a couple without anyone knowing you're cousins.