Why doesn't anyone post face pics? Picture of Me.
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About 10-20 year I was involved in a projected that, as an aside, brought me international attention. My name was (just within the US) in publications like "The Advocate" and the tabloid newspaper "The Star" – and more.
"The Advocate" wanted my photo for their article, but I backed-out. It wasn't being shy or worries about my privacy. (I have found numerous times in my Life, how very far out of the closet you can people, and STILL people you know never know it.) I mean my name was literally all over the place. I am still mentioned in a number of non-fiction books and articles that are online.
The simple thing is, I am a bear. The problem is for, of all the various "types" of gay men there are, I find bears to be the most unattractive. Because of this, I have never felt myself attractive.
I am also older now, in my early 60s, and very much a polar bear. And I continue to have the same problem I have had almost all of my life. Of all the other type of gay men I am interesting it is very, very rare (maybe once a decade, if that) anyone of them finds me attractive -- let alone sex.
I think I might kill the next guy who says to me "I think of you as one of my best friends, BUT...."
And of course, generally the guys who DO find me attractive are -- bears.
Needless to say, my sex life has been dismal -- and far worse for me -- I have never found a man who would even CONSIDER an LTR with me. Which, given my personality, is something I have long, long wanted in my life since I was in my very late teens.
I basically have not has sex with another guy in about, I don't know 30(?) years now. And believe me, I have tried in ways or through accident in ways most men would never consider, let alone do -- like have 30 minutes of international fame. (Actually it went on for a decade and still pops up now and then -- but, nothing with regards to my meeting even a possible partner.)
I have been involved in the gay civil rights move in the US since the mid-1970s so it was only a few years after the Stonewall Riots. It is NOT like I did not put myself "out there" for decades after. But the many different types of me I found attractive were never really interested in me -- other than "best friend".
The last 10 years in my Life has not gone well. I put too much of myself into try to help a guy get his life together, a roommate (nothing else) I had for 20 years. He did finally get his Life together. In the process, however, I let him destroy my Life.
Now I am trapped in the middle of nowhere, with no car, no way to really get anywhere -- and THANK YOU, GEORGE W. BUSH AND YOUR WORLDWIDE BIG DEPRESSION! -- went from middle-class to dirty poor. No one around here share any of my interests or hobbies. I have been here for over 2 years and made only 1 friend -- who I next-to-never-see because generally he is anti-social.
I have tried 5-6 gay dating websites for decades (and yes, I have facial photos of me at those sites because I realized it was necessary if I was to have any chance) without any really luck. In all that time, I might have meet 3 other guys -- which went nowhere.
The point of all this is, there can be many different reasons why someone does want to put up a photo other than being shy or being out. I'm so far out I can be googled under my real name and hits will turn up which include my being gay.
The guys who have posted here I think are attractive. I think they like consider themselves to me attractive, I don't.
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I mean, here's me if that's any consolidation
Also, you're gorgeous luke
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aww thanks
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This is me. I'm not that good looking ;D
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This is me. I'm not that good looking ;D
Says who? You are adorable! I could easily flirt you daily!
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This is me. I'm not that good looking ;D
Says who? You are adorable! I could easily flirt you daily!
I said so. Haha… I'll have you know, in Indonesia, gays don't find me attractive. I'm ignored most of the time in dating apps the likes of Grind, Jackd, etc. Isn't it pathetic?
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I don't know about the guys in Indonesia but surely you have a fan from Greece!
Me! ;D -
I don't know about the guys in Indonesia but surely you have a fan from Greece!
Me! ;DAww… Thank you. That's pretty sweet of you sir
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I simply say what i feel!
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i'm not that cute but well.
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Find it odd how no-one posts face pictures on this site.
Here's mine anyways. Not ashamed.
No reason you should be ashamed, you look fantastic. Personally I prefer pictures like yours than all the cock pictures being posted. Just be careful … unfortunately there are a way too many sick dudes out there but thanks for sharing. By the way you have beautiful eyes!
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Luke you are very nice and hot!!!! :cheesy2:
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Handsome face pic dude.
For work, professional reasons I don't share my face/identity on sex related Sites, but I trade face pix and C2C fast and without shame.
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long story short, half the people on this site do not look like you. lol
I agree with this statement, however, not everyone has the same taste.
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Nice and very cute pix. IMHO, maybe because this is an Upload/download site mainly and the forum site is to feel a sense of community. You'll have more luck with pix (especially with your look) in hook-up or dating site
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here me and me
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I don't think I'm ugly or anything, just quite average and pretty out of shape, so I am not one to show myself off to people. And I am also paranoid, despite having nothing to lose showing my face, being neither intriguing/handsome enough to stalk or wealthy enough to blackmail. I'm buzzed enough not to care that much right now anyway. Both of these pics are ~4-5 years old.
First one is me doing a stupid pose right before getting all my hair chopped off. The second one was taken about a month later. If I look like I'm tripping in that picture, that's because I was (DXM ::) I was in my early 20's, what can I say?). I was also trying to mask my big, fat lip there. You wouldn't know from looking at me that I have any Native American ancestry (not that I have much to begin with), but that's because all my Injun blood is sequestered inside my big, fat lips and nose, heh.
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All i know is everytime i talk to someone i like in a message and send them a picture of me they then ignore me, i don't know why, i am attractive, nobody would talk to me if i put my picture up here because you bitches don't recognize a good thing.
Shared with me then…
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Here's over half a century's worth of me…
and mine…https://community.gaytor.rent/index.php?topic=46195.0
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