Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword
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I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)
Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.
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bondage me! :cheers:
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I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)
Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.
My husband and i use safeword. Im the sub/bottom. We dont do choking, we dont plan what we going to do. I love spontaneous. But yes, we/i have a safeword
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I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)
Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.
I forgot, we/i use a non-sex safeword. Apelsin - its swedish for orange. So i can scream no to my husband and he can continue, but if i say Apelsin, he stops!
We do bondage, a little/light cbt, wet, spanking, and so on with me as a sub and he is my Master.
We live on the country and have a little farm. In the barn we have arranged a sexroom…
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I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)
Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.
I forgot, we/i use a non-sex safeword. Apelsin - its swedish for orange. So i can scream no to my husband and he can continue, but if i say Apelsin, he stops!
We do bondage, a little/light cbt, wet, spanking, and so on with me as a sub and he is my Master.
We live on the country and have a little farm. In the barn we have arranged a sexroom…
A dungeon?
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I have two safewords. the first is Pumpkin Patch and the second is Weltschmerz.
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It's cool to have a safe word. It means that as a bottom you can dare yourself to take more and go with the challenge without pulling on the word.
The key is communication and knowing your responsibilities when you're a top- constantly listening and checking in. If you're not getting enough feedback throw in some verbal responses for the sub to give- like count the cane strokes, or ask to be hurt more. It makes them think there's something else going n other than the binary - Safe word / or not. ;D -
No, I only say "really, no" and that's where sex ends. I think the tone of your voice is really important. Make sure to choose a short word that is easy to pronounce btw.
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I have two safewords. the first is Pumpkin Patch and the second is Weltschmerz.
I can only imagine how easy it is to scream Weltschmerz :funny2: :cheers:
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