<![CDATA[Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword]]>I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)

Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/13466/dominance-bdsm-do-you-use-a-safewordRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 22:45:45 GMTThu, 01 Jan 2015 14:47:13 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Mon, 20 Aug 2018 07:40:02 GMT]]>@horkheimer89:

I have two safewords. the first is Pumpkin Patch and the second is Weltschmerz.

I can only imagine how easy it is to scream Weltschmerz  :funny2: :cheers:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/243723https://community.gaytor.rent/post/243723Mon, 20 Aug 2018 07:40:02 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Tue, 29 Mar 2016 19:27:45 GMT]]>No, I only say "really, no" and that's where sex ends. I think the tone of your voice is really important. Make sure to choose a short word that is easy to pronounce btw.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170486https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170486Tue, 29 Mar 2016 19:27:45 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Mon, 28 Mar 2016 20:32:35 GMT]]>It's cool to have a safe word. It means that as a bottom you can dare yourself to take more and go with the challenge without pulling on the word.
The key is communication and knowing your responsibilities when you're a top- constantly listening and checking in. If you're not getting enough feedback throw in some verbal responses for the sub to give- like count the cane strokes, or ask to be hurt more. It makes them think there's something else going n other than the binary - Safe word / or not. ;D

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170367https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170367Mon, 28 Mar 2016 20:32:35 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sat, 26 Mar 2016 18:27:17 GMT]]>I have two safewords. the first is Pumpkin Patch and the second is Weltschmerz.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170138https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170138Sat, 26 Mar 2016 18:27:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sat, 26 Mar 2016 18:11:11 GMT]]>@anusanus:

bondage me!  :cheers:

I would love too! I am in Chile and you're in Brazil.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170135https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170135Sat, 26 Mar 2016 18:11:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sat, 26 Mar 2016 16:24:38 GMT]]>@jonas32:

@frogdog:

I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)

Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.

I forgot, we/i use a non-sex safeword. Apelsin - its swedish for orange. So i can scream no to my husband and he can continue, but if i say Apelsin, he stops!

We do bondage, a little/light cbt, wet, spanking, and so on with me as a sub and he is my Master.

We live on the country and have a little farm. In the barn we have arranged a sexroom…

A dungeon?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170121https://community.gaytor.rent/post/170121Sat, 26 Mar 2016 16:24:38 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sun, 27 Dec 2015 18:26:21 GMT]]>@frogdog:

I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)

Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.

I forgot, we/i use a non-sex safeword. Apelsin - its swedish for orange. So i can scream no to my husband and he can continue, but if i say Apelsin, he stops!

We do bondage, a little/light cbt, wet, spanking, and so on with me as a sub and he is my Master.

We live on the country and have a little farm. In the barn we have arranged a sexroom…

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163830https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163830Sun, 27 Dec 2015 18:26:21 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sun, 27 Dec 2015 17:44:51 GMT]]>@frogdog:

I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)

Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.

My husband and i use safeword. Im the sub/bottom. We dont do choking, we dont plan what we going to do. I love spontaneous. But yes, we/i have a safeword

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163828https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163828Sun, 27 Dec 2015 17:44:51 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Dominance/BDSM - do you use a safeword on Sat, 26 Dec 2015 01:33:54 GMT]]>bondage me!  :cheers:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163362https://community.gaytor.rent/post/163362Sat, 26 Dec 2015 01:33:54 GMT