Two bottoms in a relationship

batangtegak

it's possible to have two bottoms partnership. I heard this before.

Barbarous

that's why some enterprising soul invented the double-headed dildo! (hope he/she patented it!)

mkegam

It depends on what you mean by bottom.
If you mean someone that enjoys being penetrated, then that's not really a problem.
There's lots of things that can be done to cover that need.

The problem is if one partner is strictly passive/submissive.
Then the other one doesn't "get done", and they'll be unsatisfied.

Obviously you don't need a penis to have sex.
There's lots of satisfied lesbians.

The problem is if nobody is willing to drive the car, you end up not going anywhere.

bebekid

My first question is "Why would they want to be in a relationship?" If you're starting a relationship talking about hiring or bringing in a 3rd party, it seems doomed to me. They can have a friendship instead, but if they can't compromise (extremely important in relationships) and be versatile with each other, why get into a relationship?

zvonac

Valicore

If they're both total bottoms? It's probably not going to work, what are they going to do, rub their asses together? I guess they could use toys on one another and give handjobs to one another, but if they want real dick….

askanison

Two of my ex's are completely passive bottoms. They could never date each other.

They're very oral, so they could do that to each other. But they both cum hands free from getting fucked. They love to be fucked, but they don't ever top. And when I say "passive" I mean they don't move. I chose the positions, I did all the work, even when they were riding me.

All of this is to say, I don't think a passive bottom can be with anyone but a top. But like someone else said, versatile bottoms should be fine together.

jirachiband

Someone I know was with another bottom for a very long time, and doesn't rule them out for sex. It's not as challenging as it seems. Sometimes one will top until the bottom finishes, and switch/ bottom the next time. Alternatively one might just use a dildo instead of topping. Also there's where one person gets to bottom, but is in control of the movement and is in a more dominant position. I think you'd have to be more vers for that. There's double ended dildos as well, but I've heard its a fairly awkward sex toy. I'm sure it's not ideal for most people, but if you want to make it work it's not impossible.

Oozoik

I depends on the person.

I for example, am a bottom who only enjoys sex while bottoming. While I can top, and have done it plenty of times, I never get off or get any pleasure from it. Which is I'd much rather bottom where I will get off and love it.

As long as the guy I'm with is okay with taking turns, I'd be fine with having a relationship with another bottom.

jonas32

@askanison:

Two of my ex's are completely passive bottoms. They could never date each other.

They're very oral, so they could do that to each other. But they both cum hands free from getting fucked. They love to be fucked, but they don't ever top. And when I say "passive" I mean they don't move. I chose the positions, I did all the work, even when they were riding me.

All of this is to say, I don't think a passive bottom can be with anyone but a top. But like someone else said, versatile bottoms should be fine together.

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Fun to know they also, as me, cums hands free during a fuck. Im also passive/bottom and to me its impossible to think i could top my husband. But he is 100% Top.

Aleedinver

Wow… I didn't believe there was someone so straight-minded (pun intended) to bottom only like he COULDN'T DO the "top" part of the work... in this case well, for me the answer is the same of the post about watching porn while ina relationship.
Do you love each other? Is this love less strong than your selfish desire to be ONLY fucked in all your life?
Sorry, it's not love.

bebekid

@Aleedinver:

Wow… I didn't believe there was someone so straight-minded (pun intended) to bottom only like he COULDN'T DO the "top" part of the work... in this case well, for me the answer is the same of the post about watching porn while ina relationship.
Do you love each other? Is this love less strong than your selfish desire to be ONLY fucked in all your life?
Sorry, it's not love.

But what if topping someone doesn't give you an errection at all (or causes you to lose one)? Isn't that beyond selfishness?

Aleedinver

Ok… this is new for me, but I guess there are also these... maybe they can help themselves with some toys... they fuck themselves with the toys and in the meantime they fuck the other...
Now I'm feeling sad for them if they cannot have an erection unless they are fucked by someone...