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    How old were you when you find that you gay ??

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      2082109264
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      I had an idea around the age of 14 when I got a mad crush on my history teacher, many a time id just want him to fuck my arse after class

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        hozehound
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        I didn't have the full realization until I was about 20 or 21

        I always knew I was "different" from other kids but, up until puberty, I thought that was because I was very smart and academically inclined.  As I reached puberty, I got got clues like how my friends seemed to get a very physical, visceral reaction when they saw a girl they liked.  I didn't seem to get that same feeling.  At 16 I had my first experience.  It was with a guy.  After I went away to university, I realized that I'd get that same strong gut reaction my high school friends did but it happened to me when I saw a hot guy.  By this time, I was playing with guys and going to bars.  There was one Sunday morning when I'd just finished playing with my boyfriend at the time and I realized, "This is what I like.  I like guys."  I don't think that I could admit to myself that I liked guys until I realized that I could like guys and still be "me".  I didn't have to act effeminate or talk with a lisp.  I don't hide the fact that I'm gay but I don't advertise it either.  I just don't think that my preference is relevant to every conversation or inter-personal relationship that I have.

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          tataryahoo
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          Six or Sever years old maybe younger. I always played with my friend as a female character but I started to be fond of guys when I was 12.

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            lostalone
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            My very, very first exposure is…second grade. Mike Tyson vs. Evander Holyfield. laughs awkwardly

            I didn't think much of it back then but in fourth-fifth grade there's this (male) friend of my brother who smells so good and-- unlike with most girls, I have this desire to sniff around more and more..

            ..but I think it is during my middle school era that I know more about sexuality, about GLBTQ+, and about yaoi. And there's no looking back.
            There's also an interaction with the Internet crowd that made me sure..yep. 😛

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              spam17
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              @lostalone:

              My very, very first exposure is…second grade. Mike Tyson vs. Evander Holyfield. laughs awkwardly

              I didn't think much of it back then but in fourth-fifth grade there's this (male) friend of my brother who smells so good and-- unlike with most girls, I have this desire to sniff around more and more..

              ..but I think it is during my middle school era that I know more about sexuality, about GLBTQ+, and about yaoi. And there's no looking back.
              There's also an interaction with the Internet crowd that made me sure..yep. 😛

              As a gay man, at some point you've probably downloaded a gay hook-up app too..

              :hug:

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                spam17
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                @lostalone:

                My very, very first exposure is…second grade. Mike Tyson vs. Evander Holyfield. laughs awkwardly

                I didn't think much of it back then but in fourth-fifth grade there's this (male) friend of my brother who smells so good and-- unlike with most girls, I have this desire to sniff around more and more..

                ..but I think it is during my middle school era that I know more about sexuality, about GLBTQ+, and about yaoi. And there's no looking back.
                There's also an interaction with the Internet crowd that made me sure..yep. 😛

                Mike Tyson vs. Evander Holyfield?

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                  hatrick
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                  Probably when I was 8 or so… always looked at guys differently than girls. And then there was this porn magazine that some friends had and I only looked at guys...

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                    PumpingMuscl
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                    it started when I was 10 I think, my cousin ( who's 8 years older ) was very sexual with me he touched me a couple of times and asked me once to massage his body!  I'm not really sure if he's the reason why I'm gay or not!  he was my first  experience ever we never had sex but I really enjoyed the teasing it was my first time to feel a sexual feeling I wonder sometimes if my first experience was with a girl would I be straight or still gay! I don't know but I didn't know I was gay I just liked the feeling and  whenever  I feel horny I think of him he became a sex symbol for me for a while. I used to think of him when I jerk off until I met a guy and we became best friends and guess who's gay too ? yep my best friend turned out to be gay too ( small world ) so he became my first sexual experience but still I never said to myself I'm gay! I always knew I'll get married someday and have kids until I became 20 I started to face myself and after deep thinking I decided to watch a lot of lesbian porn until I can jerk of to women! so when I get married and see my wife naked I don't puke all over her! and yep it was a stupid decision but I wasn't ready yet to accept my truth until 24 damn it was hard I was really depressed for a while and kept searching for answers and what's the purpose of my life if I'm gay and all that drama until one day I just woke up and felt good about myself I'm gay so ? fuck it ! at least I'm gonna be rich as fuck without spending all my hard working money on my wife and kids so cheers to a life full of fun and freedom !

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                      deflorare
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                      I've always known since I was 5 or 6.

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                        erzengel01
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                        Well I think I knew it when I was something like 5 or 6. My older brother (10 years older) had a magazine, and I found it. I remember I couldn't take my eyes away of the monster cocks I saw (well I was a kid, so of course I thought it was really big)…

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                          deflorare
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                          @bebekid:

                          It's amazing to read your stories and see little bits of myself in many of them.

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                            spam17
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                            @hatrick:

                            Probably when I was 8 or so… always looked at guys differently than girls. And then there was this porn magazine that some friends had and I only looked at guys...

                            :cheesy2:

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                              xclr8
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                              i think it started when i was like 8years old.. im attracted to men.. and when i am 9 i started groping their penises(read: wrestling).. then it just keeps on growing.. i havent admit it though..

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                                spam17
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                                @xclr8:

                                i think it started when i was like 8years old.. im attracted to men.. and when i am 9 i started groping their penises(read: wrestling).. then it just keeps on growing.. i havent admit it though..

                                Admit what?

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                                  jazuko
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                                  about 5 or 6 maybe even earlier than that.

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                                    Drydrop21
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                                    Maybe 7 or 8 by being curious.

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                                      kraveboi
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                                      i was around 5 years old,

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                                        Minerboh80
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                                        In my military service, when i met him!

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                                          zeropolis79
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                                          I'm 36 and just realised I'm gay..

                                          i've been married a good while but recently, I put off having sex with my wife. But we eventually had sex and felt it didn't mean anything anymore.

                                          However, I have a male fuck-buddy and when I had sex with him, it meant more..

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                                            tempbo
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                                            I've always known. Literally all my life.

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