What turns you off during sex?
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People full of themselves, which they've hidden up to that point. It is remarkable how sexual interaction brings out the absolute worst in some people.
'Landing strips' or pubic soul patches – it's horrible. There is no-one on the planet that this doesn't make look like a douche. It's not sexy. And while you can steer clear of people who have one on their face, by the time you're naked and mid-makeout, it's harder to beg off to 'use the bathroom' and just never come back.
Though I guess if you still have your shoes on, you could do the whole 'I cut my heel before and my shoe is filling with blood, I really have to go' thing.
Bodily functions happen. I mean, if you're a mature adult, you kind of need to understand that if you're shoving something in someone's ass -- which is how a lot of people fuck -- there will probably be noises, smells, and substances that aren't going to be your favourite thing in the world. If you don't want that, just watch porn and fap. There's nothing wrong with that. But I've known a lot of people that have extremely unrealistic ideas about what happens during sex.
Just...consider what parts you're dealing with here.
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People full of themselves, which they've hidden up to that point. It is remarkable how sexual interaction brings out the absolute worst in some people.
'Landing strips' or pubic soul patches – it's horrible. There is no-one on the planet that this doesn't make look like a douche. It's not sexy. And while you can steer clear of people who have one on their face, by the time you're naked and mid-makeout, it's harder to beg off to 'use the bathroom' and just never come back.
Though I guess if you still have your shoes on, you could do the whole 'I cut my heel before and my shoe is filling with blood, I really have to go' thing.
Bodily functions happen. I mean, if you're a mature adult, you kind of need to understand that if you're shoving something in someone's ass -- which is how a lot of people fuck -- there will probably be noises, smells, and substances that aren't going to be your favourite thing in the world. If you don't want that, just watch porn and fap. There's nothing wrong with that. But I've known a lot of people that have extremely unrealistic ideas about what happens during sex.
Just...consider what parts you're dealing with here.
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It's true.. We should face.. reality!
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The last time I'm turned off It's because Justin Bieber past on TV
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when we kiss and i can smell and taste cigarette
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caressing my face and whispering "you're beautiful" when he's balls deep in me…...I know some guys may LOVE this but it's a bit corny to me and ruins the mood.
Well, i love it when my husband do so…..
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When guys refer to their arseholes as "chatte/pussy." :puke:
Totally ruins it for me.My husband always refer my arsehole to pussy. It doesnt bother me. Perhaps because i take a more feminine side in our relationship
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poo…..be clean!
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a bad kisser can turn me off pretty quickly.
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Face licking and loud moaning…
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for me bare feet are horrible
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When you partner doesn't make a sound and just lays there… I'm sorry do you want me to stop? Oh no you don't? When let me no which noises that what I'm doing is feeling good. Don't lay there like a sack of potatoes. Get into it.
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When you partner doesn't make a sound and just lays there… I'm sorry do you want me to stop? Oh no you don't? When let me no which noises that what I'm doing is feeling good. Don't lay there like a sack of potatoes. Get into it.
Absolutely hate this! Part of my pleasure comes from knowing that my partner is also pleased. Don't fake it, but at least let me know I'm doing…SOMETHING!
Along the lines of noises made, I can't stand excessive talking. The occasional "Oh, yeah!" or "Fuck me!" is completely acceptable. But I can't stand the people who just have to speak in full sentences. "Oh yeah, fuck me hard because you know I like it that way and grass is green and the sky is blue and Berlin is in Germany yada yada yada!" Like, will you shut the hell up? Excessive wordiness has always seemed phony to me.
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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I honestly don't mind "farts" when I am topping another guy.. ;D It is going to happen - particularly with lots of anal insertions and when fucking in certain positions I find that the likelihood is pretty high. Those "noises" can really add to the HEAT for me. That said, bottoms should think about getting clean down there first - aside from a few - most tops don't want a chili dog..
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hmm lets see
talking, a couple of words too many and it goes down :))) -
fake moaning
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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Long pubs and my partner not making a noise… even though I know he likes it.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
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I don't like it when they are really quiet the whole time. I wouldn't like loudness either. Arrogance and rudeness is a big turn-off. The idea of playing music during sex never appealed to me either.
any music?
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