Have you ever been to a sex party, bathhouse, or participated in a 3…
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I have been in threesomes and foursomes with various boyfriends.
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:cheers: Yes! x3!
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I wish! I once got invited to a sex party though but was too nervous to go!
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Yes to 3somes and 4somes. (4somes or any even number are better. Odd numbers can, but not always, leave someone feeling left out.)
Yes to Bath houses. (Steamworks chain is a favorite.)
No to sex parties. I have been invited, but haven't actually gone through with it yet for some reason. (I'm excepting small private parties in hotel rooms at gay events such as Folsom, IML, White Party, Black Party, etc.)
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no, no and no. I never liked idea of having sex wih more than 1 guy.
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Have you ever been to a sex party, bathhouse, or participated in a 3 (or more) way?
yes
yes
yesbut why do you ask?
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YesBeen in many threesomes with my boyfriend and some of our mutual friends. The most I've been with at once was 5 other guys - basically jumped from one guy to another, I'm kind of slut.
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No, I have never been in a threesome but I would like to experience that. I mean, I wonder how it feels to suck and be sucked at the same time… anyway, safe sex should be exercised all throughout
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no, sadly not
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I have never been to a sex part, or bathhouse. But since I for much of my relationships been polyamorous 3somes and 4 somes were kinda common.
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yes, yes, yes, ohhh yes. hehe
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Actually lost my virginity in a threesome this summer.
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I love orgies. Well lit bathouse or a sexclub and I'm in >:D
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Yes, yes and yes.
The sex parties were the most disappointing. They were private parties at public venues within a lock-in approach. I spent most of the time just wandering around, not finding anyone who really took my fancy, and, unlike in a bathhouse/sauna, there's little chance that someone new would appear in the next half an hour. Instead, people would just get sated and leave, so it would slowly empty out. Maybe I would have enjoyed a more intimate party better, especially if I already knew people there. The big claim of the organiser of these parties is that they only allow in younger (18-40) guys that they deem 'fit'. It seems that our ideas of 'fit' differ somewhat in reality. Two of them were held in a sex club and the third in a bathhouse. I only actually went along to the third one because I met a guy at the second, and we agreed to meet up again. It ended up that we both felt the same about the parties and so we just met up 1-on-1 after that.
I actually started going to bathhouses just as a way to get a shower and a rest after a night out, rather than booking a hotel room for the couple of hours before my train. It transpired that other things go on there too… Most threesomes (and moresomes) I've had have been a result of spontaneous meetings in bathhouses. One of my favourites was meeting two guys who were there as friends on a quiet Wednesday night and having a threesome with both of them, along with whoever happened by our room, for the rest of the night. The only time I've had one that's been pre-arranged was after meeting a guy in a club and keeping in touch with him. On contacting him again, I found he had a boyfriend, but, rather than this putting a downer on plans to meet up, it turned it into the hottest threesome I've had, with me fucking the first guy while his boyfriend fucked me.
A lot of this has been spurned on by an exhibitionist streak I seem to have had since I was a teen. Most of the time I prefer sex in a well-lit place, ideally with others watching, but too many guys want to take things one-on-one. The only time I prefer that myself is when you get other guys persistently interfering when you've made it clear you're not interested. Then, the only option really is to take it somewhere else.
:surprise:
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Yes, yes and yes.
The sex parties were the most disappointing. They were private parties at public venues within a lock-in approach. I spent most of the time just wandering around, not finding anyone who really took my fancy, and, unlike in a bathhouse/sauna, there's little chance that someone new would appear in the next half an hour. Instead, people would just get sated and leave, so it would slowly empty out. Maybe I would have enjoyed a more intimate party better, especially if I already knew people there. The big claim of the organiser of these parties is that they only allow in younger (18-40) guys that they deem 'fit'. It seems that our ideas of 'fit' differ somewhat in reality. Two of them were held in a sex club and the third in a bathhouse. I only actually went along to the third one because I met a guy at the second, and we agreed to meet up again. It ended up that we both felt the same about the parties and so we just met up 1-on-1 after that.
I actually started going to bathhouses just as a way to get a shower and a rest after a night out, rather than booking a hotel room for the couple of hours before my train. It transpired that other things go on there too… Most threesomes (and moresomes) I've had have been a result of spontaneous meetings in bathhouses. One of my favourites was meeting two guys who were there as friends on a quiet Wednesday night and having a threesome with both of them, along with whoever happened by our room, for the rest of the night. The only time I've had one that's been pre-arranged was after meeting a guy in a club and keeping in touch with him. On contacting him again, I found he had a boyfriend, but, rather than this putting a downer on plans to meet up, it turned it into the hottest threesome I've had, with me fucking the first guy while his boyfriend fucked me.
A lot of this has been spurned on by an exhibitionist streak I seem to have had since I was a teen. Most of the time I prefer sex in a well-lit place, ideally with others watching, but too many guys want to take things one-on-one. The only time I prefer that myself is when you get other guys persistently interfering when you've made it clear you're not interested. Then, the only option really is to take it somewhere else.
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I went to bathhouse once and had group sex there.
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No, No, And Yes. I like to fuck people I know and have feeling for lol
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Never been to a sex party.
I visited a bathhouse/sauna for the first time last year while I was visiting friends interstate (they encouraged me to go - pretty much pushed me in the door). Saw a dreamy boy straight off in the showers and fooled around a lil', got to talking it was also his first time visiting that kinda place, so we left to get something to eat, took him back to friend's where I was staying and had radish sex. Then had a couple months o' summer romance dating before returning to the East and keep in touch via sexy SCs. Not really the way bathhouses are meant to work but hey i'm not complaining.
I have since visited a gay bathhouse a few times here in the last few months, I use the sauna to steam after dance class as I don't have a gym membership and the gay sauna is cheap for students. I usually have the sauna to myself, occasionally someone wanders in and tries to get something started with me but they haven't been able to tolerate the heat for long hahhaa, though I did recognize a football player I would have been all over if I had any idea how to make my interest clear or use these venues to pickup :blind: . I've also used the spa there but it feels like i'm soaking in seamen and disease :blink: but my muscles ached and needed it.
I've had 3 threesomes, two had the same guy in common and were with friends, the 3rd was a rare-for-me internet hookup couple who I'm now social friends with. All were only oral.
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Yes yes and yes. But remember if I was you are responsible actions not the others to take precaution
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no yes and yes. hoping to make these all yes's
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