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    • M Offline
      Masonmason
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      Feminine guys
      Girlish voices
      Thin (If I can pick you up with one arm no)
      Smoking (don't mind vaping though)
      Alcoholic
      Sober ALL THE TIME
      Long hair (below the shoulders)
      Piercings
      Jewelry (Rings Necklaces Bracelets etc).

      Now the whole are people in foreign countries dirty. (i.e. the dirty French 😉 ) I kid of course. But there is plenty of data that shows a tendency for people in poorer countries to have poor hygiene if their culture is not used to being poor. For example I met and was friends with a very nice Sudanese man who used to live in a village and he was shocked and appalled by what we called cleanliness. He said and told me that because of the lack of resources great pains were taken to make up for it with over-cautiousness so things like dealing with meat in the house would be a serious breach because they didn't have the resources to sterilize but he also said that this only came during his parents era after a doctor came to his village to help. So I wouldn't say the poor are dirty they have a tendency when educated (the data reflects this as well) that they tend to be more cautious and clean however the ignorant and uneducated have a tendency to not understand things like washing and sanitizing after dealing with meat eggs that have been washed need to be kept cold ( not for you Europeans but in the US the process for cleaning eggs dissolves the outer cuticle which means they must be kept cold). Now as far as cities go cities have a large trend to being more educated than people in a rural area ESPECIALLY IN THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES. Not only do third world or developing countries have less urbanization thy also have a smaller infrastructure to educate. This is true period. Now does hat mean every person in Sudan is a dirty ignoramus no there are people who are born in villages who have figured out correlations between things without help from a college educated person however these are things like don't eat pork and or shellfish. Not the hows or whys. In the end one can't judge someone by where they come from unless you are planning on dealing with the masses. Food distribution water distribution education etc. All else you can rely on the person to tell you what you need to know (this includes observation). A little research so as not to be shocked if its the worst case and an open mind if its the best.

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      • shdwrulrS Offline
        shdwrulr
        last edited by

        piss
        scat
        feet fetish
        smoking
        guys who look like they could pass for being underage
        piercings
        wax
        girly mannerism, looks, hair, voice

        "The box said 'Requires Windows XP or better'. So I installed LINUX…"

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        • M Offline
          Minerboh80
          last edited by

          @shdwrulr:

          piss
          scat
          feet fetish
          smoking
          guys who look like they could pass for being underage
          piercings
          wax
          girly mannerism, looks, hair, voice

          I agree with almost everything you mention.

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          • L Offline
            Louism
            last edited by

            @Minerboh80:

            @shdwrulr:

            piss
            scat
            feet fetish
            smoking
            guys who look like they could pass for being underage
            piercings
            wax
            girly mannerism, looks, hair, voice

            I agree with almost everything you mention.

            Count me in the club, except that I wouldn't mind foot fetish.

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              Munyuc
              last edited by

              @shdwrulr:

              piss
              scat
              feet fetish
              smoking
              guys who look like they could pass for being underage
              piercings
              wax
              girly mannerism, looks, hair, voice

              Also, ((Skinny)) twinks…and regular twinks, obese / morbidly overweight, those that are as old as the proverbial hills.

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              • G Offline
                gagaaface
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                -I noticed many people don't like girly guys, i used to be like that but somewhere along the line I just started to like those things in guys. That said I don't think I'd ever be attracted to guys who LOOK like girls (isn't that just defeating the purpose of homosexuality in a sense), but I am very attracted to guys who act all sassy and feminine.
                -Don't like piercings (but love tattoos), everytime I see one, I just picture the needle going through their skin, it's very unnatural to me. I'm not proud of that btw.
                -Very young looking guys
                -Would never put feet near my mouth, but would suck fingers if my partner's into it
                -Bones! I'm not having sex with a skeleton lol. (I'm really sorry but I just get myself to be attracted to that, plus it's unhealthy)
                -Obesity (like really really fat), is NOT OK and it's an unhealthy lifestyle!
                -Rings, I don't know why but I've always hated rings on men; I would never wear one or let my partner wear one (even if it's for marriage).

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                • LedbearL Offline
                  Ledbear
                  last edited by

                  Feminine guys
                  Bad hygiene
                  Long Hair
                  small dicked 😛

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                  • P Offline
                    Pendler
                    last edited by

                    Anything "fake", like makeup or dyed hair. I'm also not a big fan of piercings and tattoos.

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                    • R Offline
                      Raab
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                      Loud and proud types who's personality is limited to stereotypes.
                      Anyone who identifies themselves as a twink, bear, muscle stud, leatherf*gs or some stupid cliquey bullcrap.
                      Dumb
                      Stoner/drunk/druggie
                      Party all the time type
                      Grossly immature (Teens and older guys who want to pal around with young guys are a big turn off.)
                      Communicates with me mostly in social media and text messages
                      Guys who can't balance between being too dependent on me or not spending enough time with me
                      All looks and no substance.
                      Too manly or fem
                      No class or self-respect
                      Untrustworthy
                      Has a history of many partners

                      Aesthetically I am turned off by:
                      Too skinny/muscled/fat. Can't deal with one extreme.
                      Overly masculine or feminine looking
                      Bad hairstyles/colors
                      Too much body hair
                      Tattoos
                      Ear gauges or anything that looks stupid dangling from their earlobes
                      Nose and mouth piercings.
                      Prince Albert (Y u do dis?!)
                      No butt
                      Well traveled b-hole
                      Moobs
                      Too young or old looking
                      Awful or no taste in clothing
                      Summer Teeth
                      Ugly butts

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                      • Q Offline
                        qwertylmoa
                        last edited by

                        Long nails and general lack of hygiene

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                          piermonde
                          last edited by

                          racists….

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                          • antstormA Offline
                            antstorm
                            last edited by

                            arrogant nit picking judgemental gays who think their shit don't stink
                            everyone's attributes are what makes them unique and special
                            to judge another flippantly before you get to know them is off-putting

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                            • antstormA Offline
                              antstorm
                              last edited by

                              . 😞 have no idea why my post repeated …lol

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                                RectalTemp
                                last edited by

                                The thing that will instantly turn me off about a man's appearance, even if he's otherwise HOT in my opinion, is if he has long fingernails.  I HATE that, lol.

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