Use to jerk off with this guy when i was high school, he now says he is straight

Aridity

It's probably true. Men experiment, especially during adolescence. Who you have sex with does not define your sexual orientation–who you want to have sex with does.

2222

Maybe its true and you can't blame him because maybe the jerked of thing you both did back in your teenager time is just an sexual exploration activities for him.

Talk, ask him and having a good conversation him might clear the issue.

anthony1994

I think he was thinking " A hand is a hand, why not?"
Maybe he was picturing some hot girls while you were giving him a handjob.

harryme

In college, people usually experiment with the same sex and eventually getting married to the opposite sex. It's probably something they just wanted to try out.

You can test him. The simple thing to do is just go out to eat at a restaurant or hang out at places with a bunch of people and follow his eyes. If he's really gay, he'll check out guys walking by if he's in the closet.

@vinisadmirer:

can it be true or is he full of shit?

Avients

Neh, a lot of people just go for it without really thinking too much about it. probably be best to just ask him and see where it goes.

studentlust

@vinisadmirer:

can it be true or is he full of shit?

soooooo full of shit

Flinxxx

The term "men who have sex with men" is often used in healthcare because sexual orientation self-identification (gay/straight/bi etc.) and specific sexual activities do not always correspond as you might expect. "Gay for pay" is another phrase that results from the spectrum of human sexual attraction. Also, for most men, sex has nothing to do with love.

I would tend to believe your friend if he self-identifies as straight, unless there is huge religious or cultural antigay pressure on him.

DilfLover1

I pretty much agree with everything Flinxxx said. I see orientation wanting a relationship with someone as opposed to having sex w/ someone of the opposite/same gender and just doing it for the pleasure.

spam17

Passively jerking off together doesn't make him gay for sure..

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dailycious

You're right guys, during the adolescence a lot of straight guys try things, in this way you could suck cock or be a bottom, and then in the adulthood being just a normal straight guy

When I was at school, I use to wank with two other guys, just watching porn and we wanked every week next to each other, now I'm 28 and I'm gay, but the others two are married… So bad ! But usual

pornofan

Horny young pubescent dudes experiment and, like all older men, do whatever they dare to meet their needs for orgasm.

In this case, and the one involving two men now married to women, if their hotness factor and other connections continue
to be of interest to the odd man out in that situation, it might be really interesting to enquire, perhaps when alone, safe, and
after a few drinks, though any time a sufficiently private conversation can be managed would likely do.

WERE the soi-disant "straits" thinking about women at the time? Were they just getting off on the eroticism of practicing their
sexual relief while celebrating their dawning fertility with a pal in similar learning mode? Hey look, we got dicks. We cum. We're
manly men doing menly things together. AND we admit it. And acknowledge it. We're daring and macho and horny together because
WE have Balls! Yay!

"Do you ever think about the time(s) we…? I guess we both were pretty daring and horny, huh? I'm curious whether you enjoyed
that then, but maybe regret it now. Or are you still just a horndog who feels entitled to do most anything to get off, same as a man
who can pee standing up is entitled to piss anywhere he can whenever he needs to?"

Did they ever do anything else with other males? Did they give that up for Lent, or once they discovered that "fucking is just like
real sex, only you don't have to use your hands"?

Personally, I'm fascinated by men's sexual histories, how they worked to get beyond first base, how they got their first piece of ass,
and so on. If people are comfortable enough to talk about their female conquests, perhaps they can at least admit they remember
their salad days. If nothing else, they could cum faster and more often then than they can now, so the potency of youth is likely a
happy thought, even if the jackoff sessions are unwelcome to remember.

And whether married to women or not, whether self-described "strait" or not, they may reveal that they have sometimes been
"curious," esp. if they ain't getting any or ain't getting much. I notice male dating sites seem to have a lot of Older men, married or
whatever, who have suddenly found themselves wondering whether a man might do the work to get them off since dating, courting,
or even cheating with another woman (if they have one they are committed to) might solve their boner problem.

Too bad that doesn't register when a man can do it all day every day if only he had the chance and didn't mind being open-minded.

rudolph

it's possible he went through a phase at school

landerkay

Bullshit

spam17

@dailycious:

You're right guys, during the adolescence a lot of straight guys try things, in this way you could suck cock or be a bottom, and then in the adulthood being just a normal straight guy

When I was at school, I use to wank with two other guys, just watching porn and we wanked every week next to each other, now I'm 28 and I'm gay, but the others two are married… So bad ! But usual

I would say that a guy who sucks cock or is bottom that he is at least bi..

$:-\$

A Former User

In his mind It is true even though he is full of bunk! :afraid2:

Opiam

He was just experimenting.

lovebearlove

i think the definition of str8/gay/bi sometimes is blurry
but a str8 guy can totally enjoy involving any sexual activities with his mates….....that s just sex to him.......nothing more