What to do? i'm still single!
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I would say: just let it happen…
I found my greatest love without searching for. we've seen us in a bar on saturday night, but did not have contact.
On sunday we met again in the bar at coffee time, we talked together, i gave him a right home cause his car was at the auto repair shop.
He promised to give me a call on monday, and he did...Our relationship ended January 17, 2012 after 32 years 10 months . He did not return from hospital.
So don't worry if it does not happen immediately, take your time to find the right one.
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There must be some attraction, can't light a fire without a spark…
1. Be physical attractive. And yeah, we can all say that beauty lies in the eye of the beholder but there is a reason why so many actors and models have a similar look, even if they are consider to be sexy, charming, cute or handsome...
2. Have a fantastic personality, be the guy everyone wants to hang out with. Easy going people are more easy going... With that said, you must still be an interesting guy, there are a lot of nice guys and well they are nice, but boring.
3. Have a large wallet and be generous... And it is not about you're looking for gold diggers, but guys who at least have a decent economy tends to be more funny to spend time with than a guy who is always broke, who would buy you a beer to cheer you up for instance. (Number three is more important if he doesn't have a fantastic personality or are physical attractive...)
(4.Then we have the fetish sector, I could spend my days playing dominant role games or have guys licking my feet, but if you're not really in to that - don't play that card... Your mostly their sexual fantasy, not their dream boyfriend...)If you have all three (let's skip 4), lucky you, but then you never posted this... Have at least one, not saying you can't meet someone, and it will take more than just be the hunk, the funny to have a serious relationship, but this will easily get you to the first level...
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Your mindset is completely wrong to begin with. You're thinking about being single as if something's broken and now you have to fix it. As others mentioned, easiest fix is to get ripped and become a slut. You'll feel like you've accomplished something and others will praise your effort.
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Your mindset is completely wrong to begin with. You're thinking about being single as if something's broken and now you have to fix it. As others mentioned, easiest fix is to get ripped and become a slut. You'll feel like you've accomplished something and others will praise your effort.
Agree on that…
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gym time
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Being supportive means making your partner's happiness and well-being a priority, in ways big and small. Keep in mind that part of why you're together in the first place is that you're each other's biggest fans, so make sure you act like it. Try demonstrating your support in these ways: Be a good listener. If your partner needs you to lend an ear, do it willingly. You don't always need to come up with a solution, just support. Offer encouragement. If your partner is trying to make a positive change, start a new hobby, or undertake a difficult challenge, be his or her biggest cheerleader.Provide a safe place. Allow your partner to be vulnerable in front of you without fear of judgment.
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keep lookng you¡ll find if this is really your goal.
But being single is not that bad
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the whole planet is SINGLE! you come and go ALONE!
stop looking and in this very moment someone will come, promise!
but you REALLY have to stop!! also start loving yourself… you're unique!!! -
Our relationship ended January 17, 2012 after 32 years 10 months . He did not return from hospital.
das ist so traurig… aber wenigsten hast du ihn gekannt. kopf hoch!
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What's wrong with being single ? You get to eat that whole tub of icecream by yourself without having to share it! (and then you have something to catch your tears when you realise how lonely you are KIDDING!)
There's not wrong with being socially awkward, we all have our moments - my advice is just try and push yourself out of your comfort zone even if it's just a tiny bit - How about joining a club or something that you have an interest in ? It might not get you a date but you might meet some new friends - and those friends have circles of their own friends and eventually you'll be walking down the aisle in no time.
But don't think there's something wrong with you because you're single. There's no rule book that says that after this certain amount of years you should be in a relationship. Just be you.
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Don't worry buddy, you;re not alone. I'm 21 and still single
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Great
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Kind of feel the same way. My guess is that you're focusing too much on the relationship thing. The best thing to do is leave this goal behind, as it will come by itself on right time.
Im still single at 25, and my biggest mistake is to want too much too fast. You must take the time to have actual social interaction before thinking about the relationship thing.
Being socially awkward is a bitch though, can testify. -
I'm single and happy :hapgay:
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hey chin up, there's someone out there for everyone!
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the whole planet is SINGLE! you come and go ALONE!
stop looking and in this very moment someone will come, promise!
but you REALLY have to stop!! also start loving yourself… you're unique!!!Happy, care-free people are physically and emotionally attractive. People ‘looking’ for a relationship come across as desperate and needy – not attractive traits.
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In my 20s I wanted to be "in a relationship." I got depressed because I wasn't in one. Now in my 30s and after being in 2 long term relationships, I realized I wanted to be "in a relationship" because I wanted validation. Me being in that mindset created problems in both relationships. Now I'm single and enjoying it. Before I venture in a new relationship, I want to be in a good mental and spiritual place. I encourage you to do the same. To me, starting there will draw the right guys to you when it's time.
Also, I wouldn't obsess over your looks and body. Taking care of yourself, being fit, comfortable with yourself and confident will surely draw some good guys to you.
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Be yourself. Just go out more maybe alone or with a group of friends and maybe you will meet someone.
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and just to add, I found both of my partners when I wasn't looking. Before I was trying very hard and nothing "quality" was happening.
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Two years ago, my 9 year old relationship just ended abruptly. I am 32 years old and I was with a guy who was 67 (when it all ended). Needless to say, the beginning was harsh and after a year I was ready to commit myself again. I was wrong. I realized how much the dating world has change. Most people are there to collect guys, rather than appreciating them.
Being into older guys I always thought it's easier to find someone but I was wrong. When I realized that a relationship was not going to be easy, I just ignored all dating websites and deleted everything and start focusing on going out, pursuing my hobbies and meeting my close friends as much as I could. Nowadays, I say my life is more fulfilled this way rather than being in a relationship.
I come from a very small country (Malta, and yes I know it says Ireland on my profile, and I don't know how that happened) and since we only have a population of a little over 450,000 that makes it even more difficult to find someone.
So focus on yourself, do things you love doing and surround yourself with friends (real friends) and you will start being happy again!
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