Would you date a smoker?
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Fortunately none of the non-smokers here will have to worry about dating the smoker in me because I tend to not date guys who have set up boundaries for themselves. Excluding yourself from possibilities be they based on smoking, age, race or any other wild generalizations only limits you.
I don't think avoiding second hand smoke or smoking has limited my life. That would be rather tragic to believe that not dating an 80 year old man or smoking has limited you in some way. Then again, I don't know people's current state of affairs, this could perhaps be an improvement for them.
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On the other hand there is no point pretending that you will fancy everyone you meet. So know your limits to start with, per haps
True but limiting yourself by putting barriers of exclusion up means you might miss out. Perhaps it's my inner slut but I cast a wide net, fish can always be thrown back.
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On the other hand there is no point pretending that you will fancy everyone you meet. So know your limits to start with, per haps
True but limiting yourself by putting barriers of exclusion up means you might miss out. Perhaps it's my inner slut but I cast a wide net, fish can always be thrown back.
Yes, and as I stated, I don't feel I am missing out when it comes to cigarettes, cigars, "weed", illicit substances, thrill seeking behaviors and dating chubby, hairy or old people. I am happy you cast a wide net, but for me, I will stick with my fine tuned net. I rarely have to throw my fish back out to sea this way.
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More for me :cheesy2:
Your fish sound very dull and plain indeed.
Norm life baby "we're white and oh so hetero and our sex is missionary."
Norm life baby "we're quitters and we're sober our confessions will be televised."from "I don't like the drugs (but the drugs like me)" - Marilyn Manson
I got a smoker over the holidays and my non-smoking friends seem to be enjoying the results from said smoker…
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Maybe not. I have asthma.
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never i can't stand the smell of cigarretes, let alone another substances
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:nurse: :sickr:
Less is more baby!
Quality over quantity -
Absolutely not.
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Making a mental note of all those who answer "No" so I make certain I can ask potential dates "What's your gaytorrent profile name?" :blownose:
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Yep, dating one now. Personally I don't smoke myself but I fell in love with him for his other attributes. He's doing his best to quit for me though. I never understood how difficult it was to quit until I got to know my man.
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Yep, dating one now. Personally I don't smoke myself but I fell in love with him for his other attributes. He's doing his best to quit for me though. I never understood how difficult it was to quit until I got to know my man.
None of my business but you say he's quitting for you, have you asked him outright to quit or is this an endeavour of his own choosing?
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yes
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I'd prefer not to date with a smoker, but I'll be honest, I'd do it
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I'd prefer not to date with a smoker, but I'll be honest, I'd do it
Ya, we all forgive a lot for a little bit of the sneaky pete. I have been known to throw it into non-smokers, even the ones who don't have balconies & insist I smoke outside. I just don't go back.
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Actually, i kinda like the taste of tobacco in a kiss. I assume it has to do with the ph of the saliva or something.
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Sure, I've been with smokers before. I really don't mind.
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The guy I got crush on is a smoker. So, I might give it a try. With the power of love, I will talk him out of it.
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Someday, sure. Not just yet though, as I don't feel I've been smoke free long enough not to fall back into old habits.
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Someday, sure. Not just yet though, as I don't feel I've been smoke free long enough not to fall back into old habits.
Congratulations & stick with it!
The only time I don't mind not smoking is with the reformed, in fact if I know the situation I make a conscious effort to abstain and not bring up the issue.
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Well, i have to say yes, i'm a smoker too
The most men i dated were non-smoker, and i never got the answer "No, i will not go home with you or kiss you, because you are a smoker" ;D
So it always depends on the MAN what are you doing with him and NOT if he is a smoker or not
:love:~Make Love Not War~:love:
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