Sex on the first date??
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1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun.Ditto.
1. It's important to talk about sex. Discuss number of partners, how recently they were tested, results of the testing, favorite positions, turn ons, ect ect….If talking about it gets you both "hot", wonderful. If talking about it can help give you both an idea to make sure you're both being safe, great!
2. I also avoid sex on the first date and this may be my personal opinion....but a lot of gay guys are really sexually charged. Many of them just want to be with me because they think "OH! you're gay. I'm gay....we both like dicks, haven't had any action in a while...let's FUCK!" I've been in relationships where the guy just wanted me for sex and the second I realized this, I ended it. I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone to love and someone I can count on, not some fling. Plus I'm paranoid about catching an STI and having mushrooms grow all over my dick......once that happens...GAME OVER. :afr: -
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need a date first :-X
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Why not, I have a friends for nice and long talks,and if I want a bf beside the psychic understanding we need to be compatible in bed. So, he must be good enough to go to date with him and if he pass that I need to check him in bed ;D everything after comes itself ;D Maybe it looks cruel but it's seems to be good for me. Last guy I check like that is still with me, 9yrs :hug2:
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i don't have problem with sex on first date, really. :cheers:
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:bravo:
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All pretentious and fabricated bullcrap aside, almost every single tool/enabler between two men and their sexuality is influenced almost exclusively if not completely 100% decided by nature…
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don't! it'll only make you seem as average
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It comes down to chemistry. If it's there and the communication is clear from both sides, then go for it. >:D
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I usually wait 2 ou 3 dates before sex, most of my relationships started like that. The butterflies on your stomach while waiting for the first time. But I had some awesome relationship with guys I had sex on the first date. It depends on how the chemistry works between 2 people.
I'm not a puritan I love sex, but I'm also a romantic. So if the guy is also a romantic like me I prefer to wait and explore it otherwise why not sex
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There isn't a rule. If the person is right, you should feel free to talk about sex right from the start. Having sex on the 1st, 2nd or 3rd date doesn't change the prospect of the relationship.
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