@spam17: @gresham: My ex was a religious African-american believer, and he just can't face his Identity i guess, he felt guilt and even went to study bible as daily routine. we still live together and love each other though, but it's just not the same any more What does he believe now? You post this topic last year and you say "ex"…...are you 2 still living together? Is he still a religious fanatic who felt guilty with his gayness?