@sakyo: @gaygaye: So I should feel better? lol Yep, it's part of the experience, I agree to have your photo up in the profile to save time for both. You can use it for your advantage too, block profiles that don't interest you ::)

@sakyo: Certainly not just in your country, it's a universal thing. It's difficult to form relationship for gay guys especially if you in the closet, as you can't take friendship further like heterosexuals do,  where you get to know others as friends, and you observe them in their day to day activities and find out more about their personality and what they are like as a person. Online connections seem to be one of the most convenient and popular way for gay guys to connect but unfortunately the only deciding factor here is their appearance, if you don't fit a certain profile you will be automatically ignored. Women tend to go through stages where they want to settle down, and start to focusing on characters like ability to provide for family, stability etc, and settle with someone that offers more than just a pretty shell, with gay guys generally that is not an issue that's as important, so they probably would still rank appearance ahead of other qualities. Very good explanation.

I did used to but then I realized it wasn't worth it. It can be really dangerous actually. You can overstretch the soft tissues inside your penis, tear tendons, or cause a form of ED thats hard to reverse.

Depression is a like vortex. I even use medications but that doesn't change anything. I know, I have to change my life but I feel I don't have any strength to do it. I need a job before everything but this depression or anxiety prevents me getting into the social life. If I can't change this circle, I may never find a love partner but I'm hungry for love.

wow I love the replies in this thread and really took comfort in all that was said (my partner just dumped me) unfortunately, I have to agree that the gay scene is not so friendly and it seems almost a dream to meet anyone new after so long in a relationship - because I'm not young or thin and have imperfections.  I also don't dress trendily or feel like gossiping about other people's clothes I wish there was a gay hippy commune to run away to and live the simple life, but here in the city is chaotic and stressful I cling to the idea that we are all someone else's "cup of tea".. pretty much based on the reasoning that I have a taste in men that other people would probably find gross - so here's hoping someone else out there has the same ideation and wants some of me hehe

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