Did someone experienced a lack of sex in a relationship or partnership?

[ubbe45]

@seti1977:

Did someone have same issues like me, locked in a sexless partnership :afr:?

No. My husband and I are highly sexually and have a active sexlife.

[guru56]

Yup. Why are you locked in?
My husband had an accident and therefor we cant have sex. I love him dearly and we are open now (me of course) but its hard to find people that i trust to have sex with.

[NickJakobs]

I live in an open relationship. It works out well. I think sex in a mono relationship gets less and bored after a time.

[seti1977]

Sexless relationship caused me depression and anxiety disorder. It seems that nobody wants to
talk about this big issue both on gay and straight couples.

Would like to find a sexbuddy but I^m kinda blocked.

[ckboy]

It happened to me…

[dzirlo]

it's normal, it's called marriage. haha.
on a serious note, statistics say that many marriages and long term relationships are sexless, and i kind of see the logic in it.
sex needs a feeling of excitement, surprise, discovery etc. so how can it b like that with one person for all the eternity?
only one of possible reasons, of course.
which probably means i'm not a firm believer in concept of monogamy, so what the hell

[feelfree123]

I don't think sex is the most important thing in a relationship.
The problem is if one person wants it and the other doesn't.
There are more important things like: Loyalty, friendship, care, same goals, respect, etc.
But of course, sex can be sublime… oh, love... sweet love...  :love:

[magic2600]

could happen if one of the partner cheating and having his sexual needs somewhere out of his house which happened to me : :blownose: :cheers:

[bejer3my]

yes, me too i have same issue. Weve been together more than 10yrs and I don't remember the last time we had sex. Its that long…

[Thornhill]

It's pretty common. I had one long-term relationship like that. If you can't find a resolution, it's best to get out.

[JerodParker]

I fucked a guy who said he was with a partner who doesn't know he fools around.

A year or two later, I fucked another guy who turns out to be the first guy's partner.  He's fooling around too.

I kinda want both of them together in an orgy since they're both hungry bottoms.

[nikolaos84]

I think it is somehow common in longterm relationships. I was in a relationship for more than 10 years and we experienced lack of interest for sex the last years.
Then I fooled around and we broke up

[fun17]

@JerodParker:

I fucked a guy who said he was with a partner who doesn't know he fools around.

A year or two later, I fucked another guy who turns out to be the first guy's partner.  He's fooling around too.

I kinda want both of them together in an orgy since they're both hungry bottoms.

:love: