Bottoming
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I love bottoming, but it always feels really uncomfortable - actually, it hurts a lot. I've been wondering whether a butt plug would help me bottom by stretching my hole. Has anyone got tips to share?
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That might help. There's also lube - try different lube: different type (water based or silicone), form (gel or cream) or even different brand.
Also your pose might help - keeping knees closer to chest (like squatting position) might open up your hole more -
Really slippery lube. Douche thoroughly. Dildo or buttplug will help ease it in. Use plenty lube don't be afraid to get wet - this may take up to an hour or more. Once in, leave for at least hour every so often thrust in/out and then you should ready for great sex. It helps to breathe, relax and use lots of lube!
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In the beginning we (my husband took my virginity, many years ago) we used a lot of lube. But he has alot of precum, so today we dont use anything more but precum and spit….I love to be rimmed before a good fuck...
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Hi ,
i used to have issues like that alot as well, i bought the book "how to bottom like a porn star " and it turns out it was very well written and very helpfull.
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Hi ,
i used to have issues like that alot as well, i bought the book "how to bottom like a porn star " and it turns out it was very well written and very helpfull.
I didnt have problem at all. It felt so natural for me. (Yes, it was a little painal in the beginning) but i belive its the same way for a girl when they lose the virginity in the pussy. So to speak.
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Definitely use a lot of lube and take your time stretching yourself either with your fingers or dildo/plug.
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I love bottoming, but it always feels really uncomfortable - actually, it hurts a lot. I've been wondering whether a butt plug would help me bottom by stretching my hole. Has anyone got tips to share?
Has the tips helped you to many good times??? :hug2:
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I've only bottomed once and it was a bit painful. I've practised with dildos before but he was quite big and I could only take about a third of the length. Loved the feeling of being stretched out though. Definitely have to try again sometime…
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I've only bottomed once and it was a bit painful. I've practised with dildos before but he was quite big and I could only take about a third of the length. Loved the feeling of being stretched out though. Definitely have to try again sometime…
Same here. I love the feeling when my husband penetrates me and i feel his cock stretch me out.
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Whenever I ease into bottoming, I tend to have a much better time. If my boyfriend jams it in, it's usually a no go for me, even if he's slow on the redo.
This may sound weird, but when I flex my core and hold it (sometimes for a minute?), it's easier to get things up there and enjoy them being there.
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Whenever I ease into bottoming, I tend to have a much better time. If my boyfriend jams it in, it's usually a no go for me, even if he's slow on the redo.
This may sound weird, but when I flex my core and hold it (sometimes for a minute?), it's easier to get things up there and enjoy them being there.
In the beginning (many years from now) my husband had to take it slow or my ass would close for business. Today i love it if my husband rims me first, and when just drive it home
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I love bottoming, but it always feels really uncomfortable - actually, it hurts a lot. I've been wondering whether a butt plug would help me bottom by stretching my hole. Has anyone got tips to share?
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Try some poppers. It'll relax you and make it feel so much better!
Youtube Video -
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poppers
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I began as a bottom and then I realized I liked it more to be a top, never looked back haha. However, it did take me a while to get there, lube is a must. Also, every rectum has its limits. If you pretend to begin with an XL cock, I wish you the best for you have a loooong way ahead of you. Buttplugs help, but what does get you there, to really enjoy it, it's both being turned on by your sex partner.
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I began as a bottom and then I realized I liked it more to be a top, never looked back haha. However, it did take me a while to get there, lube is a must. Also, every rectum has its limits. If you pretend to begin with an XL cock, I wish you the best for you have a loooong way ahead of you. Buttplugs help, but what does get you there, to really enjoy it, it's both being turned on by your sex partner.
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