Race Preferences in Dating
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If you honestly don't think your preferences are racist, then ask yourself; "Why do I not like someone sexually, just because of their race."
If you are not interested in someone just because of their race, Then by the English definition of discrimination (the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex), You are being racist.That might make you a little uncomfortable, but if your personal prejudices are showing that clearly, its best to sit and think for a bit as to where your way of thinking comes from so you can work on it.
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Well, if you do the research, you'll find that on average, about 9% only ever date outside their own race. That's all races, not just the evil whites.
EDIT: corrected typo, that affected discussion that followed
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Well, if you do the research, you'll find that on average, about 9% only ever date within their own race. That's all races, not just the evil whites.
You're putting words in my mouth, I never said anything about white people you're just taking my point to an extreme to dehumanise me. my entire point is that having a preference based on race is racist. it doesn't matter how many people do it, if YOU as a person discriminate against people, because of their race, sexually or otherwise, its racist. Also, your point is bullshit, MOST AMERICANS date within their race. Maybe sit and think as to why you have your racial preferences rather than defend them.
https://www.prb.org/usintermarriage/
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/young-people-look-for-love-within-their-own-race-brszq703w
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4850739/ -
My previous post was a typo.
It should have said that 91% of all races only date/marry within their own race. 9% date/marry outside their race. I posted about this in the other thread about whites not dating asians.
That being said, whites are always demonized for not doing something that other races also don't do.
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I have a problem with the word preference here as if you choose to like certain races.
Let me tell you all the truth, you don't. And it's not a preference but attraction. You don't choose who you're attracted to, full stop!If you honestly don't think your preferences are racist, then ask yourself; "Why do I not like someone sexually, just because of their race."
If you are not interested in someone just because of their race, Then by the English definition of discrimination (the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex), You are being racist.You are also attracted to someone based on physical characteristics which can be gender, sex, skin colour, height, weight, age, hair colour, complexion (wrinkles, freckles etc), body hair, beard, eye colour and probably many more. And whichever side you happen to be on regarding these categories, it doesn't make you bigoted in any way.
Are you bigoted against blonds for being into dark-haired people, bigoted against tall people for being into smaller people or even better misogynist for being gay!?By the way, dating is in and of itself discriminatory! Apart from a few pansexual polyamorous affirmative-action fetishising progressives, most people are picky when it comes to dating.
That might make you a little uncomfortable, but if your personal prejudices are showing that clearly, its best to sit and think for a bit as to where your way of thinking comes from so you can work on it.
I don't have to do anything! I did not give in to the fundamentalist religious right back then and I'm certainly not giving in to the far-left today. Thank you very much!!
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Just so everyone knows, one of my stalkers, WAFFLEZ, is the one who's following me around downvoting and "angry facing my posts regardless of content.
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I find Asians more attractive to me even if he is short or young or old or darker skin. It's not racism. it's just a preference.
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I still can't understand why black guys can say "only black" but white guys can't say "no black guys".
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كل شخص لديه دوق في الرجال الدين ينجذب اليهم هذا لا يعني انه عنصلري انها مسالة اذواق وميولات دنسية طبيعية
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my entire point is that having a preference based on race is racist. it doesn't matter how many people do it, if YOU as a person discriminate against people, because of their race, sexually or otherwise, its racist.
So, 91% of all people, regardless of race, is a racist.
OR, maybe it's something ingrained in us to prefer our own.
BTW, 89% of whites prefer their own, making us the most liberal race, therefore the least racist.
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Thank you !!!
That is exactly what I think. -
It isn't racists when it comes to dating. If you say 'white only' when looking for friends, yeah that's pretty racist. But dating, particularly sex, requires physical attraction. It is okay to think certain traits are ugly and that certain traits are attractive. These days I prefer white people. When I was 14 I exclusively dated Chamorro. Inbetween those times I had interests in other races in particular, and I will likely swing my preference swing again later in life. Am I racist for liking almost every race I found at some point as my exclusive dating option? No. No one gets upset when its someone who is exclusively into black men, so what's wrong with finding mostly white men attractive?
All that being said, there is no reason to put it on your profile. Even with a strong preference people often date and bang outside of their 'preference' because the right person with the right other qualities come along. Even if you are completely rigid there just isn't really a reason to list it, it doesn't save you more time as you can just ignore any messages by people you don't find attractive anyways.
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A lot of people seems to be defensive here, and that's….quite sad.
I mean, the least all of us can do is try?
I have preferences. So far I am unlikely to fuck, or go out with people beyond my preferences.
But if I immediately avoid people because of my own preferences-- that is my responsibility alone. That is me being an ass, and people do have a right to call me out on it.Having preferences is one thing, using that preference to immediately block people is another thing, and waving that preference like you had a 12-inch dick is a whole different thing.
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