Gang Bang etiquette
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If there is no chemistry, or the chemistry doesn't include everyone I don't think etiquette will help.
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So there were seven of you and only two of you fucked your friend? Sounds like you need to invite five tops to the next orgy.
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As a fan of being gang banged (Not ashamed to admit it) you need an open dialogue before hand. The rules need to be discussed before anyone turns up really. That and everyone needs to have seen pics of a) The bottom b) the tops to check that everyone finds them sexually attractive etc. Sounds like that maybe didn't happen here?
The pre bang conversation allows people to say no before they turn up.
If personality matters to those people then gets a bit trickier but maybe go for drinks or something first? Make it clear that its not 100% going to happen for each person. If the top does not fancy the btm at all then just be honest, same if the btm doesnt fancy the top.
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I showed the tops/versa the pic of the bottom beforehand.
But one couldn't get himself hard and the second was just hogging one guy and not going to others. The other versa just wanted to bottom too.
I guess I'll make it clear that the bottom HAS to be fucked. Don't want him disappointed next time.
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The not getting hard in a gangbang is common. Lots of guys can do a one on one but nerves go haywire with a bunch of people around.
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I showed the tops/versa the pic of the bottom beforehand.
But one couldn't get himself hard and the second was just hogging one guy and not going to others. The other versa just wanted to bottom too.
I guess I'll make it clear that the bottom HAS to be fucked. Don't want him disappointed next time.
"Hogging"? I'm not well-versed in groupsex, but the term "hogging" may suggest thirdwheeling, which might not be fun for the thirdwheel tbh.
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I meant it like he stuck to one guy only. Didn't really give him or anyone a chance to switch around.
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i mean yes all participants should be considerate to all other participants, but i really object to the concept of fucking someone out of politeness. maybe you didnt invite the right participants?
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Perhaps the invited "guest tops" were shady stating their sex-act preference. Perhaps the photo wasn't the best representation of the bottom. Perhaps the bottom had personality or intimacy quirks that don't bother you, but turned off some of the guests. Perhaps half of the guests are just selfish pricks (with selfish pricks attached), who always intended just to play with the most attractive guys. Perhaps some of the guests had partied a little, or a lot, beforehand, and lost their impulse control, or ability to get hard.
Perhaps… a thousand possible reasons in varying combinations.
Perhaps, as well, there's a challenge in the structure of the hoped-for gang bamg. To bring seven or eight guys together, for a pre-ordained plan to please one bottom -- well, it leaves a lot of spare time for all these drivers while they're waiting for the tunnel to re-open. When you see this type of hour-long, single-bottom adulation in porn, that's because it's porn. Judge me as you like, but if I've just tagged-out after my three minutes with bottom boy, I'm not going to spend the next half-hour pinching his nips or reading The Economist to conserve my energy.
In the end (padon that pun), perhaps these gang-bang guests were simply being themselves, for better or worse, on that given day.
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your supposed to enjoy the experience and no one should be forced to doing something he doesnt want to do
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It's rarely like in the movies.. Good that you exchange your photos, but that's just a part of being attracted to someone. Behavior/movements/voice etc. they all play some part. And - we're only human, not every top acts like a robot and gets hard just being around a nice bottom. Keep trying
Or invite a top for a threesome first, then another one, if it works out - encourage them for a foursome (and so on ;)) -
It is like making a birthday party. If you invite 10 your friends, 8 replies yes and eventually only 5 really comes
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Talk to the other guys about their experiences. Say things did not turn out how you expected (true), and ask them what their expectations were before hand, and how it actually turned out for them.
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