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    Poll: “Pro-Choice” - Yes or No?

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    • H Offline
      Higgs
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      @brianboru72:

      The point of discussion is who should have the right to decide on aborting an unborn embryo- and the answer, plain and simple, has to be the person DIRECTLY, PHYSICALLY involved- the one who is forced to spend nine months (if ever) to carry it to term- and that is the mother. Men do NOT get that right because their body is not directly involved. Their health will NOT be affected- neither will their ability to work, earn a living, or function normally.
      ONLY the woman is physically impacted and that's why it's her right to decide.

      I am familiar with this logic. The problem is that it is obviously going to fail to persuade those who do not think that the woman is the only person involved, or the only person who has a stake in what happens to a foetus. Even leaving the foetus itself out of the matter (and I think the claim that the foetus has interests which deserve protection is a powerful one), other people are also affected by a woman's decision to have an abortion: most immediately the father, the two families, and so on, and ultimately everyone who belongs to a 'moral community' that is responsible for the care and welfare of unborn children. I am personally averse to the rather individualistic view that sees pregnancy as simply one person's problem. I rather think that unborn children belong to their communities as much as anyone else does, and their fate is not to be left in the hands of one person (whose choices, in turn, are not to be borne alone).

      I do take your point that carrying a child is a uniquely physical imposition upon a woman, and it is one that has implications on her life for at least forty weeks, and maybe much longer. So requiring that woman to carry her child to term is certainly no small imposition and not to be required lightly. The physical and emotional demands childbirth makes on the mother must be a very serious consideration in any discussion about the morality of abortion. But I do not think this means that the woman concerned is therefore the only person who has a stake in the future of the child, and the only person whose decisions about the child should matter.

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      • gaypraha2G Offline
        gaypraha2
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        for having this kind of old 20th century discussion, does it mean abortion is still illegal in your country or what??…

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        • FrederickF Offline
          Frederick
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          @mhorndisk:

          The brain starts developing after 5 weeks.

          While that is true, about 50% of people's brains never fully develop.  Those people are called "Liberals".

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          • FrederickF Offline
            Frederick
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            There is a never ending debate about abortion. 
            One problem with that debate is defining the parameters of abortion.

            Some people consider any type of birth control to be a mortal sin, against god's will.
            Some people are OK with contraception, but are against "day AFTER pills"
            Some people are OK with abortion up until a certain time after conception.
            But then there is Hillary Clinton, who ENTHUSIASTICALLY and vigorously fights for
            tax-payer subsidized, guilt-free, on demand abortions.. up until the very day of DELIVERY!
            Hillary supports partial birth abortions, in which the arms and legs and body are removed
            from the mother.. but the head is INTENTIONALLY left inside.  Then they reach in with very
            long scissors, penetrate the base of the neck, and snip the brain stem - killing the baby, then
            removing the head.  If they removed the head from the mother before killing the baby, it
            would be considered murder, and forbidden.  Anybody who supports what Hillary does, is
            a monster.  It is not possible that most of the people that voted for Hillary are aware of
            what she supports - even though she confirmed her position on abortion in the 3rd and
            final debate. 
            I bet there is not one person in this forum who would support partial birth abortions.

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              DCLXVI
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              @Frederick:

              Then they reach in with very long scissors, penetrate the base of the neck, and snip the brain stem - killing the baby, then
              removing the head.

              I'm pro-choice. And I'm fully aware of the fact that abortion is, at its core, murder (thank you for reminding us that). And fellow pro-choice people, no matter how you put it, it's murder. So shush.

              DCXLVI

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                DCLXVI
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                @Frederick:

                If they removed the head from the mother before killing the baby, it would be considered murder, and forbidden.

                I believe that the reason for using scissors to puncture the child is to suck out its organs (since the fetus' head can't be removed easily, they have to 'deflate' it).

                DCXLVI

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                • EllisE Offline
                  Ellis
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                  @Frederick:

                  @mhorndisk:

                  The brain starts developing after 5 weeks.

                  While that is true, about 50% of people's brains never fully develop.  Those people are called "Liberals".

                  Yes, and isn't it something that still even with that brain, "Liberals" seem to be the ones advancing and keeping up with the changing times, moving forward–you know evolving.

                  "Conservatives" on the other hand–having a "big brain" doesn't mean anything if it's not being used. Although what is pretty amazing are those "Conservatives" who continue to go on in spite of seemingly to be born without any brains at all! >:D

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                  • T Offline
                    TheNewt
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                    I am only for abortion when a woman has been raped, or been the victim of incest, or her life is in danger if she has a child.

                    I'm not for people using abortion as birth control.  If you don't want a child, use birth control that works like having the man use a condom correctly, and having the woman use any number of birth control options there are for women like the pill, nuva ring, implant/injection birth control, etc.

                    If a woman does wind up pregnant and does not want the child she can always give the child up for adoption.  That's what a friend of mine that's gay did with a woman he dated since they had sex as teenagers and neither believe in abortion, and they were not going to get married obviously.

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                    • royalcrown89R Offline
                      royalcrown89
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                      @Higgs:

                      I'm also dubious about the idea that men are not entitled to an opinion on abortion because they can't bear children.

                      Maybe I should clarify because you've obviously derailed into something else. Men can have all the opinion we want. I'm saying no man should be able to FORCE a woman to have a child through legislation or subject her to criminal charges because he's conservative and doesn't believe in science and therefore doesn't believe in spontaneous abortions aka miscarriages. This is actually pretty direct. What evidence do you have that conservatives believe in science enough to the point that they won't subject women to prison sentences or even death for having spontaneous abortions aka miscarriages? It is a known fact that American conservatives are dismissive to science, especially medical and climate science. Me and millions of others are not willing to sacrifice women's lives to find out. It's not even worth taking the risk.

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                        Dene
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                        @Frederick:

                        @mhorndisk:

                        The brain starts developing after 5 weeks.

                        While that is true, about 50% of people's brains never fully develop.  Those people are called "Liberals".

                        Fred.. not everyone who has a different opinion to you is stupid or brain damaged.. state your opinion but don't be like this..

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                          Higgs
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                          @TheNewt:

                          I am only for abortion when a woman has been raped, or been the victim of incest, or her life is in danger if she has a child.

                          I would accept that abortion might be permissible if it is medically necessary to save the life of the mother. But if you think that the foetus is a person (with rights and interests that need to be protected in law) then I don't think it is coherent to say that abortion should be permitted in cases of rape or incest. Why does it matter how the child was conceived? The fact that the father might be culpable does not reduce in any way our obligation to protect the child. (If you accept that we have such an obligation - if you don't, it won't be an issue for you).

                          For me, this is not primarily about the mother at all. I'm not anti-women or anti-women-who-have-sex.  I don't think that women who get pregnant need to be punished or made to take personal responsibility for what they have done.  And it's not primarily about politics either: it's not about whether I trust "conservatives" or who might be anti-science or backward or misogynistic. It is, for me, a straightforward but very difficult question about how much of a moral duty we have as a society to care for our unborn children.

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                            blackwing
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                            BUT I DON'T! Not until born…. Sorry! That's kinda the whole point, ya know?!  :haha:

                            @Higgs:

                            @TheNewt:

                            I would accept that abortion might be permissible if it is medically necessary to save the life of the mother. But if you think that the foetus is a person (with rights and interests that need to be protected in law)

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                              dist
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                              I'm for abortion. Let women decide for themselves. Let doctors weigh in on the science of fetus development. Everyone else can butt out.

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                                blackwing
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                                AGREED

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                                • H Offline
                                  Higgs
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                                  @blackwing:

                                  BUT I DON'T! Not until born…. Sorry! That's kinda the whole point, ya know?!  :haha:

                                  Yes. This is the point at issue. I think a foetus is a person, you don't. This is the crux of the argument, and everything else is secondary.

                                  But I'm not sure this necessarily resolves matters: for instance, why is a newborn a person and a foetus not one? Isn't this terribly arbitrary? If it's okay to kill a foetus at a late stage of prgnancy, isn't it okay also to kill a newborn if there are good reasons for doing so? And if not, why not?

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                                    blackwing
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                                    Do you recognize that when a foetus is in the mother, it is growing and developing to be an individual person not needing to be connected to another to gain life?

                                    @Higgs:

                                    why is a newborn a person and a foetus not one?

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                                      Higgs
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                                      @blackwing:

                                      Do you recognize that when a foetus is in the mother, it is growing and developing to be an individual person not needing to be connected to another to gain life?

                                      Sort of. I do see your point - a foetus is dependent upon its mother to live. But then, a newborn baby is also dependent upon other people to live (principally, in most cases, its mother). In fact, all of us are dependent on other people to live to varying extents. So the idea that only an "individual person" is worthy of life doesn't really work for me. I just don't think anybody is that much of an individual.

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                                        blackwing
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                                        A newborn doesn't have to actually BE CONNECTED to the mother's body to survive via an umbilical cord. A newborn survives via the help and care of others, not via being force-fed nutrients via a tube connected to another person.

                                        @Higgs:

                                        Sort of. I do see your point - a foetus is dependent upon its mother to live. But then, a newborn baby is also dependent upon other people to live (principally, in most cases, its mother). In fact, all of us are dependent on other people to live to varying extents. So the idea that only an "individual person" is worthy of life doesn't really work for me. I just don't think anybody is that much of an individual.

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                                          Higgs
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                                          @blackwing:

                                          A newborn doesn't have to actually BE CONNECTED to the mother's body to survive via an umbilical cord. A newborn survives via the help and care of others, not via being force-fed nutrients via a tube connected to another person.

                                          Assuming, of course, that the newborn isn't breastfeeding - in which case being "force-fed nutrients via a tube connected to another person" is pretty much exactly what's going on.

                                          Yes, of course a foetus exists in a state of dependency on another person which is in some ways quite unique; not least because its survival is wholly and entirely dependent upon that other person. But the broader point is that I reject the idea that independence - or even independent survival - is what constitutes a person. This seems to me like dangerously individualistic thinking. If we think instead of human beings as intrinsically interdependent, I think it becomes much harder to argue that a foetus is not a person simply because it is connected to and wholly reliant on somebody else.

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                                          • obras62O Offline
                                            obras62
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                                            I think if the couple is strong then they can make the choice together, however, I don't think that Men should be telling women what they can do with their bodies.
                                            I know the argument that the fetus has rights but we have more than enough unwanted children int he world as it is.

                                            There are enough other issues to be worried about .

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