Is it racist to post that you're not interested in black/asian/other non-whites?
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It is racist in the sense of "defining something by race", but not racist in the "OMG I hate the useless blacks/asians/hispanics!!!111" sense. I think it's just as "bad" as saying "I don't like blonde/big/skinny" guys. Sex is a bodily (you were talking about having sex, weren't you?) act and you get to decide were you want to stick your dick in.
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This topic comes up on my list a lot… and I thought about it and i do think it is racist.. simply because of the following
You may generally find you are not attracted to asian/black etc men but to dismiss every single one, right now, without ever having met all of them is pure racism.. i generally do not like blondes but i cannot go out and say every single blond i have met or will meet in the future is not my type.. that's a lie.. one day i will meet a blonde i think is sexy.. and in the past i have found 1 or 2 sexy, will i actively seek blondes? No, I will not but to dismiss a blond before even seeing their face or even saying 1 word is pure prejudice
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I thought he was spot on with most of his answers. No matter how hard you try to shoe horn in a PC mindset, it still sucks for the majority and will fail.
It is not racist to not be attracted sexually to someone. That is stupid.EXACTLY - you said "It is not racist to not be attracted sexually to someone." - I agree 100% but that is VERY different to saying "It is not racist to not be attracted sexually to every single person of a certain race" - I am not attracted to a LOT of caucasian guys.. should I say "no whites"? - of course not - you said "someone" not "all people of a particular race"
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It's getting pretty heated in this forum post.
Personally, I'm only physically attracted to Asian people so when it comes to sex, I'll generally go for Asian guys (although I keep my options open). When it comes to dating or making new friends, then I don't even consider race a criteria.
If you say no to a particular race even for making new friends, then I would consider that racist as that is discriminating a race. If it's for just sex and you're attracted to a particular race/racial feature then maybe that's another case.
I honestly think it's best not to state that you're not into a particular race as that can seem quite shallow and close minded (even if you're not). But in the end, it's all up to you but I highly recommend to try mingling with people from outside your comfort zone. You learn so much and helps you see things from a new perspective :hug:
you stated you keep your options open.. and that, in my mind, means you are not racist.. you prefer asians but you are not going to completely dismiss a white guy..
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No. It's not racist. It's a preference.
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This topic comes up on my list a lot… and I thought about it and i do think it is racist.. simply because of the following
You may generally find you are not attracted to asian/black etc men but to dismiss every single one, right now, without ever having met all of them is pure racism.. i generally do not like blondes but i cannot go out and say every single blond i have met or will meet in the future is not my type.. that's a lie.. one day i will meet a blonde i think is sexy.. and in the past i have found 1 or 2 sexy, will i actively seek blondes? No, I will not but to dismiss a blond before even seeing their face or even saying 1 word is pure prejudice
same sentiment for me.
it's like saying you would never eat strawberries, while never having tried strawberries to see if you like them or not. and like the others have stated there are better ways to speak your preference and it does come off as close minded. remember these people "internet/grinder/hook-up" people dont know you personally. we only know you from what we've briefly glimpsed in said profile. then yes you gonna get called racist.
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This topic comes up on my list a lot… and I thought about it and i do think it is racist.. simply because of the following
You may generally find you are not attracted to asian/black etc men but to dismiss every single one, right now, without ever having met all of them is pure racism.. i generally do not like blondes but i cannot go out and say every single blond i have met or will meet in the future is not my type.. that's a lie.. one day i will meet a blonde i think is sexy.. and in the past i have found 1 or 2 sexy, will i actively seek blondes? No, I will not but to dismiss a blond before even seeing their face or even saying 1 word is pure prejudice
same sentiment for me.
it's like saying you would never eat strawberries, while never having tried strawberries to see if you like them or not. and like the others have stated there are better ways to speak your preference and it does come off as close minded. remember these people "internet/grinder/hook-up" people dont know you personally. we only know you from what we've briefly glimpsed in said profile. then yes you gonna get called racist.
Being called racist and being racist are two different things. And the question here isn't one of racism (that one race is better/superior to another), it's of preference.
Grinder, Gaydar, etc. are for hook-ups and generally, you know what you want for a hook up.
If you know you're craving a huge cock and you turn down the guy who says he's small, that's par for the course. If you want good sex with someone experienced and exclude everyone who's either young or just out, that's also to be expected. If your fantasy is, I dunno, a smooth Asian man then a white burley man isn't going to meet it. If there aren't any Asian men available and they wanna try the white twink who's willing, more power to them but in not choosing them they are exercising preference and maybe prejudice, not racism.
Words matter. They matter bigly. ;D
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This topic comes up on my list a lot… and I thought about it and i do think it is racist.. simply because of the following
You may generally find you are not attracted to asian/black etc men but to dismiss every single one, right now, without ever having met all of them is pure racism.. i generally do not like blondes but i cannot go out and say every single blond i have met or will meet in the future is not my type.. that's a lie.. one day i will meet a blonde i think is sexy.. and in the past i have found 1 or 2 sexy, will i actively seek blondes? No, I will not but to dismiss a blond before even seeing their face or even saying 1 word is pure prejudice
same sentiment for me.
it's like saying you would never eat strawberries, while never having tried strawberries to see if you like them or not. and like the others have stated there are better ways to speak your preference and it does come off as close minded. remember these people "internet/grinder/hook-up" people dont know you personally. we only know you from what we've briefly glimpsed in said profile. then yes you gonna get called racist.
Being called racist and being racist are two different things. And the question here isn't one of racism (that one race is better/superior to another), it's of preference.
Grinder, Gaydar, etc. are for hook-ups and generally, you know what you want for a hook up.If you know you're craving a huge cock and you turn down the guy who says he's small, that's par for the course. If you want good sex with someone experienced and exclude everyone who's either young or just out, that's also to be expected. If your fantasy is, I dunno, a smooth Asian man then a white burley man isn't going to meet it. If there aren't any Asian men available and they wanna try the white twink who's willing, more power to them but in not choosing them they are exercising preference and maybe prejudice, not racism.
Words matter. They matter bigly. ;D++1
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