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    Can I live without sex?

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      beau
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      can I have a healthy life without sex? so i need sex to be happy?

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        samiderwish
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        what do u think??

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          samiderwish
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          no body can live without sex

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            ffuck
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            Yes you can. As soon as you are feeling like this is right for you. And by "right", I don't mean what's ethical according to society rules and norms, but what makes you feel comfortable. There is an entire spectrum of sexuality that doesn't involve sex acts at all, it's called the Asexuality spectrum.

            Some clarifications and facts about Asexuality:

            1. Being an asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you don't feel any attraction to any gender. Many asexuals are still romantic; they still feel romantic affection towards others, just not sexual attraction (AKA they don't feel the need for sexual intercourse). Those people can create healthy, caring relationships with other people with similar feelings. A person who doesn't feel romantic attraction is called Aromantic. You can be Asexual (but Romantic), Aromantic (but Sexual), Asexual AND Aromantic, or none.

            2. Being an asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you don't have a good time with yourself (AKA masturbation). Many asexuals consider themselves Autosexuals, that means they like and engage in masturbation but not into sexual activities involving other people.

            3. Falling under the Asexual spectrum also doesn't mean you cannot enjoy porn. While some asexuals are revolved by the idea of sex in general, either due to trauma, uprising, or simply their nature, many others enjoy watching porn (AKA other people having sex) but are not interested/don't feel like engaging in sexual intercourse with others.

            4. Whether it's innate or a personal choice someone makes at some point of their life, asexuality is not by any means an illness. This exactly should answer your question, the one about living a normal, healthy life without sex. If you don't feel like having sex, then don't. It's that simple. And you don't even need to apologize or have a solid/"valid" reason for not liking sex or not feeling romantic attraction. And no, you don't NEED sex by default to be happy. You only need sex if you feel like you need it.

            5. Asexuality has its own pride flag. It looks like this:

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              samiderwish
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              😘

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                baymartin
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                So, ffuck,
                is there a movement, which promotes asexuality? I'd like to know it better. I, myself had no sex with another person for7 years. I am 49.

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                  spam17
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                  For many in our world today, to call people to more than 40 days and nights without sex, to more than 40 years, in fact to potentially a whole lifetime without it, sounds totally implausible, even comical.

                  ;D

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                    DamaDama
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                    you don't need sex to be happy.There are other more important thing in life than sex itself

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                      sakyo
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                      I think the key is do YOU feel happy when you go without sex for extended period of time? It comes from yourself and yourself only, if you feel happy then you definitely can live without sex, like ffuck said above, you can certainly enjoy yourself, it doesn't mean you can't have an orgasm.

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                        upNXT
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                        yes you can, but I wouldn't recommend it

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                          ffuck
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                          @baymartin:

                          So, ffuck,
                          is there a movement, which promotes asexuality? I'd like to know it better. I, myself had no sex with another person for7 years. I am 49.

                          I am not asexual myself, so I cannot recommend you specific groups/etc to look for. However I know for sure that there are many resources of all kinds on the internet that can help you search and learn about the topic more. This can range from scientific resources, books, forums, closed-groups, activist groups, wiki articles, ask-for-help groups, FAQs, and even dating sites for asexuals (so they can meet other people who might want a romantic relationship but don't seek sex). Google is your friend! I hope you find the information you need 🙂

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                            Eridanos
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                            @baymartin:

                            is there a movement, which promotes asexuality? I'd like to know it better. I, myself had no sex with another person for7 years. I am 49.

                            Ha! I got without sex with another person for almost 10 years! Suck it!

                            LOL….kidding, kidding...

                            You can live without sex, monks in many religions do.  Sex is just a part of life, not life itself.

                            Though...if you have actually never felt horny in all those years, you might be asexual.  Or if the opportunity presents itself and you just can't get horny ( no stress, no rush, no fears...the chance is there, but you just don't feel like it)

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                              humandoormat
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                              i can live without sex but i can't live without jacking off :police:

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                                jkronfuss
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                                I broke up somewhere around November and I haven't had sex ever since, I met people but I don't feel ready or the need to do so for the time being, I don't want to jump again in a sex frenzy… I even feel calmer than I hope I'd be. Of course, me and my ex had terrible sex so that helps, I endured almost 2 years or bad/regular sex, having no sex at all means no difference.  ::)

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