Seducing straight guys…
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If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
This is ridiculous, honestly. Sexuality is fluid. Many straight men will have sex with other men for various reasons (lack of females, ease of getting sex from a dude, etc). This idea that if a man has a single homosexual encounter means that they are completely homosexual (or bisexual) and in denial is dumb. It's like that old joke that being with "build a thousand bridges…" and ends with "but, suck just one cock, and you're forever Bob the Cocksucker."
Tbh on the bell curve of sexual fluidity, exclusive homosexuals are a pretty tiny minority. Most men--even gay identifying men--have had sexual encounters with women (and not just "yeah before I came out" either). It happens. We need to stop trying to force everyone into our system of labels.
"Straight" guys who are hard up for sex will do it with you if you can convince them that you will not become attached and that you are discreet and no one will find out. It won't work 100%, because there are some guys who naturally or because of social conditions or beliefs won't try it. But for the majority, that's the recipe for sex with "straight" guys.
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If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
This is ridiculous, honestly. Sexuality is fluid. Many straight men will have sex with other men for various reasons (lack of females, ease of getting sex from a dude, etc). This idea that if a man has a single homosexual encounter means that they are completely homosexual (or bisexual) and in denial is dumb. It's like that old joke that being with "build a thousand bridges…" and ends with "but, suck just one cock, and you're forever Bob the Cocksucker."
Tbh on the bell curve of sexual fluidity, exclusive homosexuals are a pretty tiny minority. Most men--even gay identifying men--have had sexual encounters with women (and not just "yeah before I came out" either). It happens. We need to stop trying to force everyone into our system of labels.
"Straight" guys who are hard up for sex will do it with you if you can convince them that you will not become attached and that you are discreet and no one will find out. It won't work 100%, because there are some guys who naturally or because of social conditions or beliefs won't try it. But for the majority, that's the recipe for sex with "straight" guys.
I despise labels so much! Sexuality is fluid and everyone experiences/expresses it differently. We need to stop pigeonholing everyone into straight/gay/bi etc.
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If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
cough BULLSHIT!
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I've been seducing just about every straight man in my life my whole life…..I've jerked off with or blown all three of my brothers in law, my step dad, every male friend I"ve had since about 5th grade. I've sucked off my bosses, my employees, neighbors and friend's husbands and/or sons....anyone else into this? Any techniques to share? Questions?
so whats your trick? do share….hehe. The key is to still convince them that they're straight men right
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If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
And if gay men marry and only have sex with their wives for the rest of their lives, are they therefore heterosexual? Sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things.
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I've been seducing just about every straight man in my life my whole life…..I've jerked off with or blown all three of my brothers in law, my step dad, every male friend I"ve had since about 5th grade. I've sucked off my bosses, my employees, neighbors and friend's husbands and/or sons....anyone else into this? Any techniques to share? Questions?
You are just a hero!
seems it's you that should share something with us. -
WOW
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I've sucked off most of the guys in my small high school and many during my time in the Navy. I never thought about if they were straight or gay. I was being selfish in that I wanted to feel their cock in my mouth. I used all kinds of logic with most of them. Things like "it will feel good, I won't tell, close your eyes, a mouth is a mouth." I probably had a couple dozen in high school, and as it turns out 3 or 4 of them turned out to be gay and the rest went on to marry women and have children. I'm still in contact with several of them and what we did in high school has never come up again. The thing I like about sex with men is that it's quick and easy. Even married men like a quickie every once in a while.
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Like shooting fish in a barrel
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well I have not done that but you should check the hook up apps and I believe lots of bi and straight guys who want to try with a guy are there…
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I'm thin and slightly effeminate…
I got picked up once at the gym by a younger very hot boy. He asked me to dress up for him... he had a wig and lingerie all ready.
Then he passed me around all his friends -- it was the most sex I have had with some of the hottest hunks, and they were all REALLY into it, some didn't last 1 minute and would go again and again, calling me slut, whore, and so on...
So... if you don't mind dressing up you will be able to score... the only thing is it's really on down low.
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You can't seduce a straight guy to be gay or they're never straight in the first place
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The thing is, labels like "straight" and "gay" are completely new inventions, and they were cooked up by our modern culture over the last couple centuries or so. So many very angry "pure gay" people get upset when someone who uses the WORD 'straight' to describe themselves dare allow themselves a pleasurable sexual experience with the same gender to go around, continuing to call themselves 'straight' for all intents and purposes for the rest of their lives (and acting like it, too … wife, kids, mistresses, yadda yadda).
... these are also the same militant people who come rush in to emotionally defend a man who decides to leave a wife and kids to be with another man after over a decade of marriage, and insist "he was always gay, he just never knew it, let him be what he is." They don't want the reality of it to be more complicated than that, the extreme anti-bi activists, anymore than the extreme religious evangelical activists don't want to acknowledge that sexual attraction to one's own gender might not be a corruption sent by satan >:D that is twisting God's true instructions about the way a person should be behave.
Here's the truth -- sexuality is fluid. It's okay. Sexual orientation, though? That's 100% cultural, the entire concept of it, that you have to "pick" one or the other and stay true to it your entire life. It's a new idea, not an old one.
So, you might only like males your entire life, and never stray from that. Vice versa, you might only like women your entire life, and stay true to THAT. That does happen.
Straying across that border happens a lot more often than our current culture officially recognizes, though. If you successfully seduce a straight guy (I've done it, and it usually results in just a casual drunken handjob or blowjob), who wakes up the next morning and continues on with his life as a "straight man" ... it's okay for him to keep calling himself straight. It's an identity label, and people get to pick those for themselves.
The reality is, though, that there's precious few of us in this world that have never entertained thoughts of sex with both genders (whether we call ourselves "gay" or "straight" now in our daily lives ... again, culture and labels). If it's a one-off incident that has happened 4 or 5 times in your lifetime, your fantasies straying oustide of your orientation, or if you fantasize every day ... it happens. You can seduce straight men, yes.
The important thing to remember is that "straight" is a word. Sexual orientation is not as firm as people want to believe it is. He might go home to his woman afterwards, but if he let you suck his dick, he got something good out of it. Don't worry about the word "straight." Just read people as individuals, see how responsive they are to advances, make discretion and privacy a guarantee, you'll start seeing exactly how solid orientation lines are drawn.
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Great thread and something I can relate to a lot. I see myself as a guy who has sex with guys but lives a "straight" life. I'm not into the gay scene and I only tend to hook up with other similar men. Sexually I find the more grunt like someone is the more I'm turned on. Anyway this isn't the point of my post…
About a year ago I picked up this guy online who wanted to come round and wank with me. He has a wife, kids and a girl friend. The big turn on for me was he was a greasy biker, 6 foot, big build and hairy with tatts and a beard. I'm not talking a "bear" I'm talking a real knuckle head in a biker gang, no I'm not fantasising. We met every few weeks and then one thing led to another and he we started taking turns to blow each other off, 69ing. He became obssessed with making me cum. Sex was full on but never tactile or with eye contact/ kissing etc which I thought a bit wierd.
Then, about 4 months ago I got a msg asking if i knew anyone who would fuck him whilst he sucked my cock. I'd never mentioned fucking as I know a lot of this type can't cope with it but I was more than happy to play along as he had a great hairy butt, which I'd always wanted to fuck; yes totally selfish I know. We started fucking and he loved it. I'm not into being fucked so it was always me fukcing him. He w0as totally into it begging me to fuck him for hours and even asking me to cum inside him, which I didn't and always used a condom. This went on for a few more months and all seemed great until he started to wobble. Making arrangements and not showing up, giving no response when I asked why he'd not shown then msg a few days later to hook up again etc.
I assumed it was done and as I'm not the type to hang around for anyone who doesn't turn i suggested we move on. A couple of weeks later, I started to get more msgs "Are you free, I miss your cock" etc. I said no but this just made him msg more. I stopped all contact for a month but he continuned to send msgs and started saying things like " I'm missing our time together". Now, I'm thinking wtf going on with this chap maybe theres more to this? So I asked, I'm quite up front like that. And this is the point of posting. I got the weirdest of replies back - "I don't fancy men what so ever, I only ever like women, I just need your cock now and again". I suggsted that having such a facination for cock wasn't compatible with not fancying guys? No response. Needless to say I put a stop to the meets but he still msgs me every couple of weeks with things like "how are you", I'm missing the fun we had" "I don't have sex with any oth guys but you". I challenged him again a few weeks ago as to why he keeps messaging me for sex and that if all he needed was a cock then there are plenty available so why keep pestering me? Got the same "I'm weird I know, I'm not gay, I don't fancy men, I only want your cock though". I've now reached the point of "whatever" but got to say in all my years fucking straight or bi guys this one has me stumped. I don't have time to help sort out whatever issues he has but its a shame as it means losing such a horny fuck bud.
For all of you asking how to seduce a straight guy I'd say its pretty easy if you give them what they want and keep it discrete but as you can see from above its often loaded with baggage and not for the faint hearted! :cheesy2:
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If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
And if gay men marry and only have sex with their wives for the rest of their lives, are they therefore heterosexual? Sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things.
I would totally agree that sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things!
;D
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