The "expiration date" for a bottom vs a top
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The point that i'm trying to make is that there seems to be the "ideal" condition for both roles. And once you have gone past that, it's harder and harder to find someone. (especially in a country like mine where people aren't that open and it's not as easy to find someone at all)
There is no ideal condition as well as the 'One".
These are ideas that people put on others to put labels on things.Bottom as long as you enjoy it.
If you find the one and make it last forever than great, if not just enjoy the 'one' for now. -
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I think you may be struggling with a cultural problem.
You should know that at the end of the day, age and being the "ideal" top or bottom are completely unrelated. It is just a "social" belief.
For example, I am top and I am younger than my boyfriend who is bottom and our different ages were never an issue when we started dating.So, if someone doesn't want you or love you because you are not young or old enough to fit some stupid stereotype (meaning they don't love you for who you are) you are better off with that person out of your life. Really, knowing this could save you a lot of trouble in the long run.
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Oh, for fuck sake. That's possibly the stupidest thing I've ever read. :puke:
I'm 20yo at the moment, but I already feel like i'm "expiring" as a bottom because i'm no longer the "innocent 18yo twink" or whatever guys seem to love..It's true that the older you get, the less other people usually want you.
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Here is something you will be glad to hear- there are problems with STDs in nursing homes, because geriatric people love playing bedroom roulette.
Yes, even people in their 70's and 80's are having sex.
Heck, just look at the porn on this website- plenty of it is of fat old men with other fat old men, and somebody out there likes it enough to upload it, and other people presumably are downloading it.
The only "Expiration date" is the last, and most literal one.
And there are even people into that.
The expired are exclusively bottoms, of course.
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That reminds me a lot of how homoerotism used to work in Ancient Greece and at some extent in Ancient Rome too… maybe we haven't changed that much and this is just an echo of that time. But in Ancient Greece older men were expected to initiate young boys in sex and the rule was that the older men would always be top whereas the young ones should always be bottoms. In Ancient Rome homosexuality was not a big deal, as long as the adult, free man practicing it was a top; to be a bottom was considered a dishonor, something that only very young boys would do, or something you would expect of effeminate men and slaves.
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I started as a bottom but haven't in a while. I'm going to get fit again then I'll bottom once again. I miss it.
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…And the keyword there IS 'ancient'...
That reminds me a lot of how homoerotism used to work in Ancient Greece and at some extent in Ancient Rome too… maybe we haven't changed that much and this is just an echo of that time. But in Ancient Greece older men were expected to initiate young boys in sex and the rule was that the older men would always be top whereas the young ones should always be bottoms. In Ancient Rome homosexuality was not a big deal, as long as the adult, free man practicing it was a top; to be a bottom was considered a dishonor, something that only very young boys would do, or something you would expect of effeminate men and slaves.
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I think your question is genuine and deserves polite answers. The other day I heard a friend of mine saying that he's too old to be a bottom, and I think he's 55, so you're not the only one with this notion. I'm 46, I consider myself versatile, since I have no problem to perform both roles, but I prefer to be a bottom, because it's easier to cum (I'm talking about myself obviously). But this is just the sex part, and we are much more than that. To be in a relationship you need a lot more than sex.
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that's not sure, I don't know if you're 96 years old and 700 lbs then sure ,
but I've seen people in their late 50's getting laid like a cumdump
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