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    Will you marry your partner in the future?

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    • jkronfussJ Offline
      jkronfuss
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      I have a boyfriend and he is aware someday in the future I want to be married and have children as well, he is not against it but yes, I want to make it legal. It is important for me. Truly. 🙂

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      • EllisE Offline
        Ellis
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        Yes, if the need warranted–for example, having to meet some requirement afforded to a "spouse" and being a "partner" of any type doesn't qualify.

        Another reason would be that of "financial gain" (or more importantly, avoiding financial loss in terms of taxes behind all of that "estate planning" stuff–wills, inheritances, property...yadda, yadda, yadda.)

        Outside of that, probably not.

        ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/...my baby and me.jpg)

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          herrleelee
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          wish I had a partner

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          • EllisE Offline
            Ellis
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            @herrleelee:

            wish I had a partner

            If you actually do make that wish, make sure to be specific with the details.

            You don't want to be stuck with a dud–or worse of course.

            I'm sure there's a whole bunch of folks who would rather be without, than to be with the one they currently have.

            ![](https://www.gaytor.rent/bitbucket/...my baby and me.jpg)

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              alma
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              as long as i'm alive , i will try to get married to the person i love … Need to find him first !!

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                illybilly5
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                i'll always defend equal marriage rights, but have no aspiration to ever marry. why do we need social approval or recognition of queer relationships? in fact, i prize that queer relationships are precisely that –- queer! that is, deviant from the mainstream. so marriage? yuk! not ever for me!

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                  z3n1th
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                  I used to be a family lawyer… divorces are ugly... so much to lose!! So no, I've been turned off marriage...

                  I still believe that we should be entitled to marry tho'

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                    spam17
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                    @alma:

                    as long as i'm alive , i will try to get married to the person i love … Need to find him first !!

                    Good luck finding the right person!

                    😉

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                      alma
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                      @spam17:

                      @alma:

                      as long as i'm alive , i will try to get married to the person i love … Need to find him first !!

                      Good luck finding the right person!

                      😉

                      Thanks , now to find him  :crazy2:

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                        kenjysn1
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                        If possible I will say I want to marry my partner whom live with me for 10 years, but the legal is not support that way  in my country, we are in the progress to earn more money and move to another country where can we live not in the closet.

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                          z3n1th
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                          @kenjysn1:

                          If possible I will say I want to marry my partner whom live with me for 10 years, but the legal is not support that way  in my country, we are in the progress to earn more money and move to another country where can we live not in the closet.

                          Which country are you from?

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                            456435653
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                            love the idea of marriage

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                              Teggid
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                              Depending on the country. In my marriage is not really welcome.

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                                moonmonday
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                                It's good to live somewhere you don't have to hide your love. Any country that doesn't accept it is simply a country that is not well-governed.

                                Still, marriage isn't always the answer. You can always draw up power of attorney documents with a lawyer. Marriage is just another social institution that can be terribly limiting to those participating. It's attractive due to its "they have it and we don't" factor, but it's really just another crutch. The only reason why gay marriage is so concerning to so many is for its promise of equality and equal rights and privileges that are currently not afforded to same-sex couples in a number of places.

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                                  revden
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                                  My partner and I have been together for 30 years and our twin sons are 29.
                                  Our boys want their dads to get married!
                                  We haven't told them but in november on their birthday we are tying the knot.
                                  Their wives know about it but are keeping the secret, they know how important it is to the twins.
                                  Oh! The things we do for love..

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                                    KissMyAirs
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                                    I wish I had one 🙂

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