Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops?
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Daddy/Dad/Father is the leader in the family, which mean he control and the most dominant in the team. So, mostly, like porn borrow the "Daddies" term, as a dominant character, as for gay porn, most likely to be tops.
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Most likely.
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From here on out just call me Dilf then because I am down for anything and everything and if my boys don't want to throw it in papa I can just as easily cut me a switch! Film the ensuing disciplinary action and sell it online for a profit, I mean I would hate to have a boy that was good for nothing.
Power bottoms (or as I call them lazy bottoms) be warned I do not refer to myself as Bad Daddy for nothing.
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Power bottoms (or as I call them lazy bottoms) be warned I do not refer to myself as Bad Daddy for nothing.
Just curious, why on earth would you call a power bottom a lazy bottom?
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They are not helping carry the weight? Like the gays who say "I don't do anal". Yawn. Neglected prostates make the baby Jesus cry. Just being concerned with your own prostate seems a sin to me. We are gifted with these unique parts, use them. So, ya, it's just my opinion but I prefer giving & receiving.
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Daddies are not expected to be tops - they are expected to take control. Grab their partners face and kiss deeply and passionately. Undress him. Make him eat your nipples. Suck your cock. Or he grabs the partners butt cheeks…..while the partner is a little tentative, the Daddy knows how to progress from kissing to fucking and is in control.
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Trudat, Daddy is in control and if Daddy wants you to take the wheel you best not leave it to Jesus.
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Trudat, Daddy is in control and if Daddy wants you to take the wheel you best not leave it to Jesus.
That could be fun though involving Jesus.. he might be a freak LOL :cheesy2:
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Oh ya Jesus is a freak for sure, his Daddy issues are not something I am comfortable working out with him.
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this 66 year old daddy (men's physique competitor, btw), greatly prefers to bottom for a hot young stud.
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this 66 year old daddy (men's physique competitor, btw), greatly prefers to bottom for a hot young stud.
We need more daddies like you then!
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I've always had the idea that there were not such better men as daddies, and I was right. I recently got fucked by a big rough older man, I'm 24 and he's 40. And OMG, I've never felt so good in my life before. I've never got rammed so aggressively and powerfully by a man like that before, he made clear to me what is a real man. He was manliness in its purest and rawest state. He was magnificent. His roughness made my hole happy, and his nasty words made me cum without even touching myself. Being his submissive slut was a dream come true. A dream that was in my head since I was barely a teen. And I could never imagine myself topping him, that man seemed to be born to fuck and to be serviced. I think his matureness enhance his manhood and I can't help but yield to him. So in my experience, I expect a daddy to be my top, people's taste might differ of course.
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I think it's prefered, I get my kicks out of a nice hot daddy dominating my tight ass.
it would feel weird if i was trying to fuck my older husband. Unatural in a way
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I really don't know what the expectations are as every relationship is different.
However, I like to fuck my boys and I love it when they do me. -
I really don't know what the expectations are as every relationship is different.
However, I like to fuck my boys and I love it when they do me.I love to get fucked. Im a true bottom!
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As I only love anal, I want all Daddies to only ever fuck me. In their eighties, is what I want. XXX :anal2: :ride: :anal2: :dick: :cum: :dick:
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There are so many labels and stereotypes that, particularly for those of us who are not very involved in the gay community, it is easy to fall into the trap of feeling one has to "fit in" to some sort of clique or adopt a label and conform to an imagined set of expectations we have seen in a porn precedence. That is how it was for me anyway. The first time someone called me Daddy I did a double-take and thought "oh my, when did I become one of those?" I was so surprised, I am only 37. I liked it, but I slightly worried that I would increasingly be expected to morph into a dominant top as I get older, just because I have eaten a few too many carbs and grown a beard. It's not that way though, It is different with everyone. I never appealed to guys in their twenties when I was in my twenties, but now I seem to interest young guys and they don't usually want or expect me to top, in fact I met one that was so alpha he wanted me to call HIM Daddy! I guess I am just at that awkward age; torn between the chasers and the silver bears and can't decide what I like best. Best to just sample a little of everything I think.
So that is my advice to you: Keep exploring, Daddy
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All the daddies I've been with bottomed for me.
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Most daddies that I've talked to will label themselves as tops. However, that doesn't mean that all are….or that they are expected to be. I'd love to have a nice daddy in his late 40s to 60s and have them top and bottom for me.
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There are so many labels and stereotypes that, particularly for those of us who are not very involved in the gay community, it is easy to fall into the trap of feeling one has to "fit in" to some sort of clique or adopt a label and conform to an imagined set of expectations we have seen in a porn precedence. That is how it was for me anyway. The first time someone called me Daddy I did a double-take and thought "oh my, when did I become one of those?" I was so surprised, I am only 37. I liked it, but I slightly worried that I would increasingly be expected to morph into a dominant top as I get older, just because I have eaten a few too many carbs and grown a beard. It's not that way though, It is different with everyone. I never appealed to guys in their twenties when I was in my twenties, but now I seem to interest young guys and they don't usually want or expect me to top, in fact I met one that was so alpha he wanted me to call HIM Daddy! I guess I am just at that awkward age; torn between the chasers and the silver bears and can't decide what I like best. Best to just sample a little of everything I think.
So that is my advice to you: Keep exploring, Daddy
I'm 41 and was called a "daddy" by a 32 year old , i was like "what the fuck mate" ?? i hate the term , im not anyones daddy , maybe its due to the fact that im a clinical psychologist and analyse the person that called me the term thinking jeez youre a bit of a F65.9 arent you ? in general i hate labels , i have a hairy chest but i don't associate with bears ive got a belly but i dont think im a "chub"
why is the gay male community so fixated on boxes , its like get out of one closet , get back in another.
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