<![CDATA[Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops?]]>I'm new to a lot of these terms and I'm moving closer to being what's classified as a "daddy" in gayland. I'm curious what are the expectations?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/topic/18058/are-daddies-expected-to-be-topsRSS for NodeWed, 08 Apr 2026 16:21:10 GMTWed, 27 May 2015 10:14:17 GMT60<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Wed, 13 Jul 2016 06:32:32 GMT]]>i'm top. And must confess that only have been with daddies few times! i'm more likely to feel atraction for young buddies but those who i've tryied were nice on bed, amazing bottoms and great company.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179470https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179470Wed, 13 Jul 2016 06:32:32 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 09 Jul 2016 06:45:16 GMT]]>@19781207:

There are so many labels and stereotypes that, particularly for those of us who are not very involved in the gay community, it is easy to fall into the trap of feeling one has to "fit in" to some sort of clique or adopt a label and conform to an imagined set of expectations we have seen in a porn precedence. That is how it was for me anyway. The first time someone called me Daddy I did a double-take and thought "oh my, when did I become one of those?" I was so surprised, I am only 37. I liked it, but I slightly worried that I would increasingly be expected to morph into a dominant top as I get older, just because I have eaten a few too many carbs and grown a beard. It's not that way though, It is different with everyone. I never appealed to guys in their twenties when I was in my twenties, but now I seem to interest young guys and they don't usually want or expect me to top, in fact I met one that was so alpha he wanted me to call HIM Daddy! I guess I am just at that awkward age; torn between the chasers and the silver bears and can't decide what I like best. Best to just sample a little of everything I think.

So that is my advice to you: Keep exploring, Daddy  😉

I'm 41 and was called a "daddy" by a 32 year old , i was like "what the fuck mate" ?? i hate the term , im not anyones daddy , maybe its due to the fact that im a clinical psychologist and analyse the person that called me the term thinking jeez youre a bit of a  F65.9 arent you ? in general i hate labels , i have a hairy chest but i don't associate with bears ive got a belly but i dont think im a "chub"
why is the gay male community so fixated on boxes , its like get out of one closet , get back in another.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179153https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179153Sat, 09 Jul 2016 06:45:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 08 Jul 2016 05:41:15 GMT]]>Most daddies that I've talked to will label themselves as tops. However, that doesn't mean that all are….or that they are expected to be. I'd love to have a nice daddy in his late 40s to 60s and have them top and bottom for me.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179050https://community.gaytor.rent/post/179050Fri, 08 Jul 2016 05:41:15 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 01 Jul 2016 11:04:28 GMT]]>All the daddies I've been with bottomed for me.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178523https://community.gaytor.rent/post/178523Fri, 01 Jul 2016 11:04:28 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sun, 05 Jun 2016 17:32:30 GMT]]>There are so many labels and stereotypes that, particularly for those of us who are not very involved in the gay community, it is easy to fall into the trap of feeling one has to "fit in" to some sort of clique or adopt a label and conform to an imagined set of expectations we have seen in a porn precedence. That is how it was for me anyway. The first time someone called me Daddy I did a double-take and thought "oh my, when did I become one of those?" I was so surprised, I am only 37. I liked it, but I slightly worried that I would increasingly be expected to morph into a dominant top as I get older, just because I have eaten a few too many carbs and grown a beard. It's not that way though, It is different with everyone. I never appealed to guys in their twenties when I was in my twenties, but now I seem to interest young guys and they don't usually want or expect me to top, in fact I met one that was so alpha he wanted me to call HIM Daddy! I guess I am just at that awkward age; torn between the chasers and the silver bears and can't decide what I like best. Best to just sample a little of everything I think.

So that is my advice to you: Keep exploring, Daddy  😉

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176132https://community.gaytor.rent/post/176132Sun, 05 Jun 2016 17:32:30 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 03 Jun 2016 21:31:24 GMT]]>As I only love anal, I want all Daddies to only ever fuck me.  In their eighties, is what I want.  XXX  :anal2: :ride:  :anal2:  :dick: :cum: :dick:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175995https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175995Fri, 03 Jun 2016 21:31:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 03 Jun 2016 14:31:44 GMT]]>@obras62:

I really don't know what the expectations are as every relationship is different.
However, I like to fuck my boys and I love it when they do me.

I love to get fucked. Im a true bottom! 🙂

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175974https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175974Fri, 03 Jun 2016 14:31:44 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 03 Jun 2016 14:02:24 GMT]]>I really don't know what the expectations are as every relationship is different.
However, I like to fuck my boys and I love it when they do me.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175973https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175973Fri, 03 Jun 2016 14:02:24 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 03 Jun 2016 09:46:59 GMT]]>@2082109264:

I think it's prefered, I get my kicks out of a nice hot daddy dominating my tight ass.

it would feel weird if i was trying to fuck my older husband. Unatural in a way

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175945https://community.gaytor.rent/post/175945Fri, 03 Jun 2016 09:46:59 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sun, 21 Jun 2015 06:45:11 GMT]]>I've always had the idea that there were not such better men as daddies, and I was right. I recently got fucked by a big rough older man, I'm 24 and he's 40. And OMG, I've never felt so good in my life before. I've never got rammed so aggressively and powerfully by a man like that before, he made clear to me what is a real man. He was manliness in its purest and rawest state. He was magnificent. His roughness made my hole happy, and his nasty words made me cum without even touching myself. Being his submissive slut was a dream come true. A dream that was in my head since I was barely a teen. And I could never imagine myself topping him, that man seemed to be born to fuck and to be serviced. I think his matureness enhance his manhood and I can't help but yield to him. So in my experience, I expect a daddy to be my top, people's taste might differ of course.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134043https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134043Sun, 21 Jun 2015 06:45:11 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sun, 21 Jun 2015 02:12:57 GMT]]>@ironman2000:

this 66 year old daddy (men's physique competitor, btw), greatly prefers to bottom for a hot young stud.

We need more daddies like you then!

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134014https://community.gaytor.rent/post/134014Sun, 21 Jun 2015 02:12:57 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 20 Jun 2015 21:48:08 GMT]]>this 66 year old daddy (men's physique competitor, btw), greatly prefers to bottom for a hot young stud.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133989https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133989Sat, 20 Jun 2015 21:48:08 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Tue, 16 Jun 2015 23:21:16 GMT]]>Oh ya Jesus is a freak for sure, his Daddy issues are not something I am comfortable working out with him.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133514https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133514Tue, 16 Jun 2015 23:21:16 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Tue, 16 Jun 2015 21:25:43 GMT]]>@groovedware:

Trudat, Daddy is in control and if Daddy wants you to take the wheel you best not leave it to Jesus.

That could be fun though involving Jesus.. he might be a freak LOL  :cheesy2:

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133503https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133503Tue, 16 Jun 2015 21:25:43 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sun, 14 Jun 2015 22:07:19 GMT]]>Trudat, Daddy is in control and if Daddy wants you to take the wheel you best not leave it to Jesus.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133255https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133255Sun, 14 Jun 2015 22:07:19 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 13 Jun 2015 17:59:23 GMT]]>Daddies are not expected to be tops - they are expected to take control. Grab their partners face and kiss deeply and passionately. Undress him. Make him eat your nipples. Suck your cock. Or he grabs the partners butt cheeks…..while the partner is a little tentative, the Daddy knows how to progress from kissing to fucking and is in control.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133099https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133099Sat, 13 Jun 2015 17:59:23 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 13 Jun 2015 15:52:41 GMT]]>They are not helping carry the weight?  Like the gays who say "I don't do anal".  Yawn.  Neglected prostates make the baby Jesus cry.  Just being concerned with your own prostate seems a sin to me.  We are gifted with these unique parts, use them.  So, ya, it's just my opinion but I prefer giving & receiving.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133097https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133097Sat, 13 Jun 2015 15:52:41 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 13 Jun 2015 11:01:17 GMT]]>@groovedware:

Power bottoms (or as I call them lazy bottoms) be warned I do not refer to myself as Bad Daddy for nothing.

Just curious, why on earth would you call a power bottom a lazy bottom?

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133077https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133077Sat, 13 Jun 2015 11:01:17 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 12 Jun 2015 20:03:58 GMT]]>From here on out just call me Dilf then because I am down for anything and everything and if my boys don't want to throw it in papa I can just as easily cut me a switch!  Film the ensuing disciplinary action and sell it online for a profit, I mean I would hate to have a boy that was good for nothing.

Power bottoms (or as I call them lazy bottoms) be warned I do not refer to myself as Bad Daddy for nothing.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133008https://community.gaytor.rent/post/133008Fri, 12 Jun 2015 20:03:58 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 12 Jun 2015 07:18:12 GMT]]>Most likely.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132931https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132931Fri, 12 Jun 2015 07:18:12 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Fri, 12 Jun 2015 07:13:13 GMT]]>Daddy/Dad/Father is the leader in the family, which mean he control and the most dominant in the team. So, mostly, like porn borrow the "Daddies" term, as a dominant character, as for gay porn, most likely to be tops.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132929https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132929Fri, 12 Jun 2015 07:13:13 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 06 Jun 2015 16:23:40 GMT]]>Hmmm

I suppose 'Daddy' does conjure up the image of a top.  'DILF' on the other hand to my mind could mean anything and everything in bed.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132404https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132404Sat, 06 Jun 2015 16:23:40 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Sat, 06 Jun 2015 13:32:01 GMT]]>Wow. Thanks guys.. I'm really ignorant on the whole "daddy" subject.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132395https://community.gaytor.rent/post/132395Sat, 06 Jun 2015 13:32:01 GMT<![CDATA[Reply to Are "Daddies" expected to be Tops? on Thu, 28 May 2015 23:03:09 GMT]]>I think it's prefered, I get my kicks out of a nice hot daddy dominating my tight ass.

]]>https://community.gaytor.rent/post/131412https://community.gaytor.rent/post/131412Thu, 28 May 2015 23:03:09 GMT