Sex!!! Condom or bareback?

bear3q

Always prefer bare with poz guys like me …

Always safe with others. Unless they insist ....

Yes there is always a risk of STD's, but I get regularly tested 3 - 4 times a year.

I am together with my poz hubby for 28 years now

For me the safe sex campaigns late '80 - '90's didn't bother me at that time. My relationship at that time was very close and monogamous and always without condoms.

By the time we started to experiment (now some 10 years ago) playing safe was frustrating, we both didn't manage to do that.

XxDamxX

On my end I always go Safe unless I trust the person well enough… like into a relationship for a considered amount of time.

paulanta82

Sex parties with lots of twinks, top and bottom with loads of tasty cum, all devoted to pleasure sharing ! :cheesy2:
Oh wait ! That's a fantasy in an ideal world with no STD.

MrMazda already said everything about HIV. Moreover, there is not only HIV, there are a few other nasty STDs…

So always condom for oral and anal, whether top or bottom. In case of a trustful long-term relation, I may leave the condom for oral sex, if no cum in mouth.
Trustful is a lovely word. But it can't protect me if my partner eventually cheats !

craigcum69

condom free but I've been with my partner for 14 years now , condoms just don't feel right :hug2: :hug2: :hug2: :hug2:

ivanunss

I myself always use condoms except when receiving an oral sex.

seaguy11

I prefer to go bareback and am going to get on PrEP. But use condoms still as well.

ethanhines

@seaguy11:

I prefer to go bareback and am going to get on PrEP. But use condoms still as well.

PrEP for the win!

holiath

@kenndylo:

bareback, and only bareback…
only with my bf ;3

Kinda offtopic Q:
For the bb couples...
What do the bottom do when you guys are done???
Having all the /cough/ all shot up the butt...,
i always find myself having the need/urge to 'purge' it out
Without getting it all over the bedsheets
(body feels awkward with..... if i try to keep it in)

Just wondering if i am the only one that does this?? ;\

It's weird because sometimes I need to "purge" right after. But sometimes I can just hold it till the next time I need to purge.
Depends on how sore I get though… If my I have a 3some or more I defintely need to purge.

Minerboh80

I am a bit confused.
Bareback is anal sex without condom?

zeropolis79

Anal and (for the straights/bi's) vaginal sex without a condom, yes..

AlanC

i'd say bareback since every guy would love that! but in terms of hygiene and protection, i suggest use condoms with strangers and once you become fuck-buddies or boyfriends, just be as bareback as it can be! ;D ;D

koeyjai

I have a partner for years - and we don't use a condom anymore. We did the first months in our relationship.
We are not really monogamous though, means we go to a sauna / bathhouse together, but there we obviously do not stay together all time.
(Even if I find it very hot to 'force' my BF into a cabin for a blowjob… for example)
So many young guys there do not care at all if I use a condom or not, some even want it bareback - in the dark. I am diseasefree, but how can they know ?
And why I have no disease ? Because I use a condom there - with no exemption. Yes, it became a habit, a MUST for me. I even stopped fucking a guy when the condom ripped off,
went to get another one and continued... at one occasion.

zeropolis79

Well, my fuck-buddy and I still use them on occasion (if we have one) but most of the time, we don't. We've fucked each other too long to completely rely on condoms.

Grotomode

Well bareback is awesome, but the feeling after you're done is terrible. I always feel bad about myself afterwards, if its a one-night stand.

With one of my relationships we had bareback sex from day one, which isnt the best thing since trust is not there from the beginning, but we had loads of fun (pun intended).

burunduk

Bareback only in a committed monogamous relationship. Too many people are stupid out there, and I have several friends who can attest to that. It is a lot better bareback than with the condom.

Minerboh80

Can someone feel pleasant with a condom on?

Grotomode

@Minerboh80:

Can someone feel pleasant with a condom on?

Sure you can.
You dont feel a lot of friction but you do feel the pressure on your dick …provided the bottom's rectum isnt as big as a well.

bananaboys

To me it depends on the guy i'm with and if there's any chems involved. I like it much more bareback, feels so much hornier. In a relation ship it is bare only.
Surprisingly enough i'm still negative, but it wouldnt be the end of the world if i werent anymore.
Yes, i know it is a life long of medication, but it is not as bad as it used to be anymore.

hhsq

I always do anal with condom and oral without.

azbuka

Me too. I've never tried oral with condom, it's just seems a lil bit weird, but anal is always with condom